Nothing changed in our relationship after I slept with a man outside of my marriage. There was nothing to change and we didn't go into this with the thought of fixing, changing or making something better.
Pros?
It was fun, hubby set the first one up, he wasn't very good but it was fun to go through it, hubby was supportive and wanted us to continue doing it and the first two guys were longer term.
Cons?
Guys can be too focused on just sex and it kills it for me since I like a mental connection. WAY too many guys asking to meet after sending one word message "hi" etc. Guys are fucking sensitive when you reject them, like there is NO way a woman cannot want them....check my inbox, I pretty much can have what I want, hopefully that doesn't come off cocky but women get so many emails it's overwhelming at times. I want long term to really give myself and another guy a chance to explore really cool *******, and for my hubby to explore his cuck side deeper (find this is much tougher).
Nothing would make me lose respect for my husband. Well, maybe if he divorced me but if he's as great a ******* after the divorce as he is now, I'd still respect him.
Not sure we had/have boundaries. I want hubby to be happpy, he wants me happy, we want a boyfriend and our goal is for him to be happy. I am not going to have another kid but I'm fairly open to a lot with the right person.
