Nah. Its not. Its just another path to explore in life. There are many paths to investigate
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Even before I really had these desires, I had mentioned to possible partners, that I somehow did not have the jealousy gene. After my divorce, I've had a lot of sex partners, and only a handful were exclusive. Just didn't have the jealousy thing. A lot of folks talk about cucks being weak, but I think there has to be at least a little confidence there, to allow your wife/girlfriend to have sex with others without getting jealous.
I am a fitness enthusiast, I have been a gym rat ever since my High School days where I wrestled and ran track. I stick to my "lane" which is now swimming, spinning and racquetball, I do not do a whole lot of weights.
Over the years I've seen the gym/fitness clubs become the new "bar" where people come to socialize and the majority of female members I've seen are white women. I see a trend where they initially go to Zumba or Spin classes and then gradually venture out to the "big boys" room where the muscle heads work out, no offense to those that choose to lift that's just what we call them as a group.
Anyway, it never fails that these women, young or old and yes married, tend to gravitate to the bigger black guys or the black guys go out of their way to meet them. I guarantee you there are more liaisons going on but it kept very discrete. I mentioned the ones I absolutely knew about but there are several more affairs going on that are part of the rumor mill.
My friend and I observe and we've called some of those ones I talked about earlier saying we bet she wants the "soul" pole.
There is a married gal in her 50s who comes in 5x a week and her husband can only get their twice a week due to his job so she spends time hanging out at the hot tub with the rest of us when he is not there until the place closes at 10pm; There is my friend and I, and usually a couple of black guys and her and usually another girl or two either doing the hot tub, steam room and Jacuzzi. She is quiet and rarely talks to my friend or I but she sure does talk to this one black guy a lot and they disappear to the steam room together quite often. We see this going some place but do not know for sure.
My point is these gyms give some white women a chance to meet black men when there would be usually no way they would cross paths. This gives those white women with repressed desires to sleep with a black man the perfect time and opportunity to act on those emotions and some are acting on it.
Men are funny creatures to be sure no matter their background. I am still in the "what is he thinking" stage and roaming around on here and this is a very thoughtful thread for a site like this I am thinking. Lots of very interesting perspectives so I'll toss mine in here as well. I am a 50-ish female and work out in a club and have a busy husband and all that but if it weren't for his interest in something so crazy I would certainly not be here learning about it. I also don't think I would be getting busy at the club though I can't help but notice I get a fair bit of flirtatious young men's interest. This seems to me to be a very specific "kink" as mentioned and it can effect all sorts of men. Mine is certainly an alpha and I think it's his confidence in my continued appreciation for everything he is capable of outside the bedroom that he feels assured I would not go running off with someone because the sex was great. I also agree in the gym most of the really hot chiselled males are black and certainly do make a woman admire them for that but there will have to be a bit more than just that in it for me and I am sure many other women. Not a deep emotional connection but I mean ladies when you get a first message from ANYONE and it's just a vulgar one liner I have to believe most of us just hit delete. Good mutual karma is a must or o toy would probably bring similar results.
There are some great insights here on the male thinking side of this and that's the part that started this and one statement that was very sweet but still partially incomprehensible for me was if my husband was going to watch porn he'd want to watch the hottest woman he knew playing the starring role. It has something to do with me being wanton and experiencing a pleasure he can't provide that is such the major turn-on.
Go figure
Great thread!
You are right, it is a very specific kink. Any "normal" husband would perish the thought of his wife seeking out another man yet here we are pushing our wives to seek out the attention of another.
I'm an Alpha in a whole bunch of ways and used to be that way about my wife but not anymore, something tells me your husband might be somewhat like me. I am retired USAF and a doting husband so I know my wife is very happy with me and I do not think for one moment my wife would leave me for a black man because he was more virile than me. However, that's not to say she would not seek out his service in the future but it would be about what he could do for her in bed and nothing more.
You spoke about the gym and I do have some insight I'd like to share. I've watched most of these women I mentioned earlier interact with these black men and it seemed these relationships started off innocent enough albeit there was some obvious sexual tension given the hormones and testosterone involved.
I heard the way they spoke to each other and it was purely nonsexual, except of course for the girl who plated racquetball with us. Of course I was not privy to all there interaction but I am certain these black guys were perfect gentlemen to these ladies. I know of them and have spoken to most of them and they are not "ghetto" or thuggish types.
The women I mentioned are not the type you expect to even pursue a relationship with a black man especially given their marital status. These women are your typical white females who by all appearances look as though they spent very little time with anyone outside their race, much less a black man.
This site is dedicated to those in pursuit of black men and from what I saw these women were the antithesis of that, I believe they never had any designs to sleep with a black man. I know these women found these black men aesthetically pleasing and were probably pleasantly surprised by how they were respectfully treated and in the end found themselves being drawn to them.
I am certain they had reservations about sleeping with them too, however it is almost impossible to overcome biology and everything it entails when seduction and lust comes into play. I imagine they examined the cost/benefit analysis of having an affair on their husband and the risk and their base desires won out.
That major turn on you spoke of. Something tells me these women had visions of what these black men looked like nude and what it must be like in bed with them and they got majorly turned on.
OwnedWife4good
Female
I asked my husband this years ago when he pushed it. His response simple he wanted to feel my pussy agape and messy with another's cum. He felt BBC would do the trick better as he is quite well endowed himself for a white male. Oddly now my pussy is BBC only and off limits to him. Ironic
Yes!!
Im excited to learn more about me. Where this will take me to.
What's different today is women will take the opportunites presented to them by black men whereas some years ago they would perhaps smile and then refuse and walk away. Perhaps its a new sense of freedom or identity or they have more confidence. Still the risk of husband learning of their cheating but this fuels the fires of passion for some. Afterward , usually but not always, they find the experience stimulating and often purse new adventures.You are right, it is a very specific kink. Any "normal" husband would perish the thought of his wife seeking out another man yet here we are pushing our wives to seek out the attention of another.
I'm an Alpha in a whole bunch of ways and used to be that way about my wife but not anymore, something tells me your husband might be somewhat like me. I am retired USAF and a doting husband so I know my wife is very happy with me and I do not think for one moment my wife would leave me for a black man because he was more virile than me. However, that's not to say she would not seek out his service in the future but it would be about what he could do for her in bed and nothing more.
You spoke about the gym and I do have some insight I'd like to share. I've watched most of these women I mentioned earlier interact with these black men and it seemed these relationships started off innocent enough albeit there was some obvious sexual tension given the hormones and testosterone involved.
I heard the way they spoke to each other and it was purely nonsexual, except of course for the girl who plated racquetball with us. Of course I was not privy to all there interaction but I am certain these black guys were perfect gentlemen to these ladies. I know of them and have spoken to most of them and they are not "ghetto" or thuggish types.
The women I mentioned are not the type you expect to even pursue a relationship with a black man especially given their marital status. These women are your typical white females who by all appearances look as though they spent very little time with anyone outside their race, much less a black man.
This site is dedicated to those in pursuit of black men and from what I saw these women were the antithesis of that, I believe they never had any designs to sleep with a black man. I know these women found these black men aesthetically pleasing and were probably pleasantly surprised by how they were respectfully treated and in the end found themselves being drawn to them.
I am certain they had reservations about sleeping with them too, however it is almost impossible to overcome biology and everything it entails when seduction and lust comes into play. I imagine they examined the cost/benefit analysis of having an affair on their husband and the risk and their base desires won out.
That major turn on you spoke of. Something tells me these women had visions of what these black men looked like nude and what it must be like in bed with them and they got majorly turned on.
I agree
I am going back a long way to what really was a major factor in why I got so turned on about Sammy fucking black guys, and it all started when I actually caught her cheating and saw her fucking two black lads (she was 24 at the time they were both no older than 18/19.
where we lived at the time there was not a huge community of coloured people, and at the time many of the whites were racist and looked down on them and the thought of white women mixing with them as sluts, (I have to admit I shared this opinion as they seemed to be the sluts and loose women that were around them in bars and clubs)
I used to watch them in my teens , and listen to others commenting on them. and the racist remarks which are regarded now as offensive, so I wont elaborate on now.
As the black community grew we saw more and more how they were targeting white women, and I knew
I accredit my demented eroticisms to being able to use my computer at a very young age and exposure to all genre of adult content way to young. I don't really think it's really a bad thing, but the weirder your eroticisms become, the more difficult it is to find a girl that is genuinely into similar things. But they most certainly do exist
Good Summation and very true for many of us. Years ago things were different and not so many black people living in different places as they do today. Many places not at all. Now, as with other migrations, we see more black people in the general populations. Perhaps , as with other races, poverty and perhaps even survival stimulated migration and immigration in those years. Now the white women are exposed to more black men and curiousity always catches the cat.
htwflmt
Couple
Interesting...does this mean you are no longer a couple or simply he is "not allowed entry"
OwnedWife4good
Female
We are still very much a couple, it's just my pussy is BBC only. I love denying him as it makes him so loving and eager to please my kinks.Interesting...does this mean you are no longer a couple or simply he is "not allowed entry"
Does he get any relief? Does he get to masturbate? Do you offer any oral, or any handjobs?
OwnedWife4good
Female
Yes he gets my ass alot.
Sure u right! And some guy just could fuck anymore / let wife have fun
ohh yes
I believe you are 100% correct! As our world gets smaller and smaller and our social circles grow, we find ourselves in environments where we are "******" to integrate ourselves. That and the passage of time and the cultural shift in women's attitudes towards the definition of marriage and fidelity in today's society seems to have placed more emphasis on the pursuit of individual freedom and happiness.
Furthermore social and legal barriers were established by the white male patriarchy as impediments to any potential relationship between white females and black men. The inevitability of white women discovering the sexual prowess of black men was something generations saw coming long before now and by "outlawing" interracial sex between white women and black men all they managed to do was fan the flames of curiosity and desire.
I see the risk taking as part of the consequence to the white male patriarchy for imposing restrictions on the sexual freedom of white females.
White women are making up for lost time by shirking conventional notions of virtue and devotion and redefining what it means to be happy and fulfilled. For years they were told it was "wrong" to desire black men and although unspoken everyone knew it was due to the virility of black men. One cannot blame white women, especially those of my generation who are now either married or divorced, who longed to be with with a well endowed black man but never got the chance and are now acting out on their desires.
