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Cannot agree. It never even crossed my mind to make it with a black guy. It was my husband's obsession. I definitely enjoy it, but it was not predicated on my desires initially at all. Met others in similar situations and the general sequence has been resistance to capitulation to make them shut up about it already. Then it often becomes a matter of 'be careful what you wish for'.

I think the driver for it is husbands are always trying to increasingly please their wives. If they don't get the g-spot orgasm that eludes nearly every wife, they build up a need like a pressure cooker.

Why black men? (1) The stereotype (not necessarily universal) that they are massively endowed and fantastic lovers. (2) They feel safer that their wives won't leave them and run off with a black guy. Sounds racist and probably is latent racism in our society. Otherwise, it is just a taboo anyway. If you anyway re going to violate a sacred social norm, do so as socially unacceptably as possible. I think (1) is the main and, for some, only real reason.


Why black men? My wife agrees with both your points and so do I. She has certain expectations in the bedroom that only a black man can meet and it all has to do with their virility. And she has no designs on leaving me for a black man but has no qualms about being in bed with one.
 
I was the exact same as your husband. I was very jealous of my wife's ex boyfriends and it did not help that when I got stationed at Charleston AFB my wife had been a dependent ******* there since she was 18 and had lived there for 5 years when we met so there were several military or civilian guys on the base with whom she had had a relationship with or simply had sex with at some point and I knew who they were and had to see them when I was with her. There were at least 6 IIRC.
Somewhere along the line something clicked and now we spend our time fantasizing about her being with a hung black guy that would put me to shame.
It would be interesting if psychologists did a study on this. In yours and hubby’s case it might be that the fact your partners had had sex with several guys that originally turned you on? Or that you now want her to go with other guys to show that it’s just sex and no feelings for these other men?
But, like us, I’m glad it’s ‘clicked’ with you and you’d be happy if she went with other guys!
 
It would be interesting if psychologists did a study on this. In yours and hubby’s case it might be that the fact your partners had had sex with several guys that originally turned you on? Or that you now want her to go with other guys to show that it’s just sex and no feelings for these other men?
But, like us, I’m glad it’s ‘clicked’ with you and you’d be happy if she went with other guys!

It would be nice to know what triggered all of this. I was the one who basically begged my wife to tell me of her sexual history and once she did my imagination ran wild. But to be fair, my wife was sexually promiscuous so I had reasons to think she was a nympho. I struggled with this notion that she was hot to trot and explored her sexuality without any reservations with multiple partners.
For me at least, and my wife and I have discussed this, I do not want her to be in this just for sex. I like the idea she can have some degree of emotional attachment and hope she finds it with a black man who takes her on an emotional roller coaster ride in bed. We've talked about that thin line between just having sex and things get sideways and she could easily find herself being intimate with a black man. She can cross that line but the caveat is at the end of it all she belongs to me.
I need to be studied because it all sounds way out of the "norm" but it's the way I feel and my wife accepts it.
 
Cannot agree. It never even crossed my mind to make it with a black guy. It was my husband's obsession. I definitely enjoy it, but it was not predicated on my desires initially at all. Met others in similar situations and the general sequence has been resistance to capitulation to make them shut up about it already. Then it often becomes a matter of 'be careful what you wish for'.

I think the driver for it is husbands are always trying to increasingly please their wives. If they don't get the g-spot orgasm that eludes nearly every wife, they build up a need like a pressure cooker.

Why black men? (1) The stereotype (not necessarily universal) that they are massively endowed and fantastic lovers. (2) They feel safer that their wives won't leave them and run off with a black guy. Sounds racist and probably is latent racism in our society. Otherwise, it is just a taboo anyway. If you anyway re going to violate a sacred social norm, do so as socially unacceptably as possible. I think (1) is the main and, for some, only real reason.
Absolutely. I don't disagree. Many times it is the husbands idea and the wife goes along. But we are seeing more white women now who enjoy black men and the husband is either clueless about what she is doing or turns a blind eye for a variety of reasons. What was always a forbidden Taboo ( that many still ignored ) has seemed to have gone away in this world of racial sensitivity and political correctness. However , I am not necessarily more secure that Susan enjoys black men vs white as we know several local couples who are now separated and the wives have moved in with the black lovers. Their husbands were supportive but not as attentive or even as present as some traveled for work which left the wives with the black lovers for days at a time. Yes. Number 1 is often untrue and the fantasy fails but given carefull screening there are still many fine young black men that give white women the wonderful sex they need regardless of the husbands abilities or inabilities. My concern ( one of many ). Is that so many white women are now so envolved in this IR and ignore the white men entirely. Many of my daughters friends only date " men of color" so many of our summer pool parties are quite a racial mixture with white women and men of different races including several American Indian men. Their children are all beautiful of course but it does make a person think about the future
 
Fully agree
Yes. Seeing more husbands like this but there are many more that won't share and wives are cheating on them. Lots of wives with secret lovers. I am sworn to secrecy by Susan but its hard not to smile when I meet these women at social events knowing they have black lovers on the side. Many know that I know but they just wink knowing I won't tell on them. Still , to me it seems so obvious that they are hot for sex now. Maybe because Susan has me trained so well to sense her moods and desires.
 
Absolutely. I don't disagree. Many times it is the husbands idea and the wife goes along. But we are seeing more white women now who enjoy black men and the husband is either clueless about what she is doing or turns a blind eye for a variety of reasons.

This is so true. Not to be cliche but I was a member of this fitness club where I spent a lot of time exercising. I played racquetball for a couple of hours 4X a week and afterwards either rode the Spin bike for an hour or swam approximately 3500yds. (I'm retired USAF so I have the time) Afterwards I would spend time in the cold dip and hot tub with a friend who also played racquetball. Anyhoo we usually got there at 5pm and did not leave until closing which was 10pm and in that time we observed everyone and heard all the gossip as we got to know the staff and a lot of the members.
We knew of 5 married white women there who were seeing several black men on the side. Two of the women were staff and the other three were members. The one staff member was this very nice looking 40ish white wife of a USAF MSgt and mom of three who my friend and I talked to quite often. She worked out there but her job was membership services so she came into contact with everyone and hardly hid the fact she paid a whole lot of attention to the black guys, hell she flaunted it in our faces at times by talking about how fine black guys were. Well, come to find out she was seeing two different black guys and would meet them at a hotel after work. Her husband actually came up to the place on numerous occasions and would find her talking to these black guys or not at the facility but never got upset, he would work out and leave and this went on for at least a year until he retired and they left the area.
The other staff member was this young white married Zumba instructor with this smoking hot body and we learned from the night staff that she would get done with her class and one of the black guys who worked out there would pick her up at the front door in his car and about an hour later drop her back off. The one girl who was the night staff got nosy and asked around and apparently the guy lived in some apartments less than a mile down the road and that is where other members saw her get out of the car with him and go into his apartment.
One member of the gym was this good looking 50ish white married woman of a doctor who we knew of for a long time was always by herself and was sort of quiet. We noticed because for her age she After awhile this muscled out black guy, but very humble, we were friends with started giving her pointers and after more time we noticed he started spending a whole lot of time with her. After that we then we noticed for about the next month they would simply disappear a couple of times a week and knew something was up. We probed him for info about them disappearing but initially he said nothing but since we were tight with him he eventually gave up the goods during a hot tub session. He told us he never made a move on her that she came on to him. He told us they were working out one day and she started mentioning her husband and that he worked at a hospital in New Orleans and commuted there from Biloxi (where we were) and spent four days a week there and then would come home for his days off.
He said he didn't really acknowledge what she said and that when he didn't she mentioned she was interested in taking him back to her place which sort of freaked him out like it was some kind of set up. He said he asked her if she was serious and that she told him straight up she had never slept with a black man and wanted to. He said okay and after that the next thing he knew he was in her car driving to her house and they were in her bed and he was fucking the ******* out of her and that for as quiet as she is she is really loud during sex. We've seen this guy in Under Armour workout underwear in the hottub so I know exactly why she is loud in bed with him, the guy is rather large.
Another female member was this average but nice looking 25 year old white girl who we knew because she and her husband watched us play racquetball at times and we could see she was into black guys a mile away. When we first noticed her we caught her staring at black guys all the time and it was about a year later we caught wind that she was hooking up with black guys on the side when her husband had to work and she was at the gym alone. She was as innocent as they come when we first saw her but after that first year we realized she was cunning as they come the way she secretively seeing these black guys and maintaining her reputation, or so she thought.
Last but not least was this young white girl who we let get on the racquetball court with us at times because she was eager to learn and had just enough athleticism to not get hurt. She was a newlywed and her hubby played too and was in her same class when it came to racquetball. They were both 20 years old and the rest of us who played were all between 45 and 50 and we were all A and B players which means we are fairly good at racquetball.
Anyway her husband was a beta guy and if you've ever played racquetball being beta is not a good thing. However, she was this cocky little thing, all of 5' 4" and loved to talk smack in spite her play. She had this attitude and this thick gymnastic body to go with it so it was nice seeing her on the court in her Nike shorts.
Anyway the biggest ******* talker we had was this black guy who was athletic as fuck and quick, he wasn't the best player but his physical gifts put him up there with us. Wellll the one thing she was unaware of was before she arrived this black guy looooooved to brag about his best gift and that was he had a huge dick and would show us text messages from girls saying he was hung like a porn star and how they were sore from him the previous night. He used to laugh his ass off as we read the messages and would tell us he killed that "cootchie", it was his favorite topic.
Well with both of them being ******* talkers they were always at it, on the court and off it they were talking smack to each other. This went on for a couple of months with her husband eventually playing on the other court while his newlywed wife started playing more and more on the opposite court with this black guy, be it a doubles or singles match. It finally got to the point where her husband got bored with the sport and would not even show up but she would and if he did show up he went and lifted weights. Huge mistake.
A lot of times it would be just the black guy, her and myself left on the courts and afterwards we would just sit and bullshit and they would still be talking noise to each other. They were now getting to the point where they were one upping each other and getting more colorful in their talks, and I could tell she was enjoying the fact this black guy would not let up on her. Plus by now she had gotten word he was hung and he alluded to it every now and then with her and she would always saw prove it. It was a joking thing in the beginning but I think her curiosity got to her.
The reason I saw she got "curious" because even though she was a newlywed I think she started fixating on his size because she started bringing it up more often and telling him to prove he was hung and he was full of *******. Then something happened in front of my eyes I would never had believed had I not seen it with my own eyes and heard it with my own ears that proved me right. (Of course I am paraphrasing their comments coming up)
One day after we were done playing, her husband not there at the gym, she was sitting on the ground in front of us both, her stretching with her legs slightly apart and we were on a bench and they were both going at it with her talking about him being a black guy and hung but she could keep up. As it got more heated she said something to the effect you are all talk and he was like "shiiiiiiiiiiit" and laughed and said girl you do not know. (Remember she was 20 and a newlywed and this guy here is about 50 so she was not going to call any bluff on him because he was not bluffing.)
Anyway I do not think she thought I could see anything because after she said that to him she put her left leg out further to the side which was closest to his view and when she did her shorts opened up wide enough to where you could see she had no panties on and her pussy came into full view, I mean full view!!! It was fucking incredible to see because there was no hair on it whatsoever and you could see every detail of vulva and lips and she left her leg like that so he could see her.
In my head I was thinking holy ******* I should leave but was unable to. The black guy didn't flinch and did not care I was there either because he said I like the way you got those legs spread. Now it was like I was not even there, and like I said this girl had an attitude and was cocky as fuck and said to him oh yeah what you going to do about it. He sat there for a second and said are you sure you want to find out and actually gave her an out and said are you sure you want to do this to your husband.
I was mesmerized and just sat there like an idiot when I should have left but this had been building up in front of me so I was not leaving. When he said that about her husband I thought she would back down but she didn't she just sat there and stared at him. And my jaw hit the floor when she said I'm sure and started packing her ******* up to leave.
I watched as they both left, her this 20 year old 5' 4" newlywed white girl about to have sex with this 50 year old black guy who was hung and her not worried about anything but having some Alpha black man fuck her, it was insane to think I witnessed this. Anyway I did not see either of them for an entire week and the first person I saw was the black guy and immediately went up and asked him did it happen? He was like what do you think? I said was she any good in bed?
He gave me the details and said to me she was scared to death and proceeded to tell me and show a text she sent him afterwards. He said she followed him his apartment and they went inside and she "broke down" and admitted she was nervous. He said they sat on the couch and he started kissing her and he just took over from there because he knew she was going to let him do what he wanted. He said he pulled off her top and she had small tits and sucked on them and then pulled off those Nike shorts she had on and said she had a fine ass looking pussy. He said she was sitting back on the couch with her ass hanging off the end and he pushed her knees up to her chest to where her pussy was poking out and ate her. He said she was flooding the couch she was so wet.
He said he took her to his bedroom and by then she was shaking like a leaf. He said he asked her if she was still sure about this and she said yes to him. He said he asked her why she was shaking so bad and she told him again she was scared. He said if it was about her husband she could back out and she said oh no it's not that I'm just scared about how big you are going to be. He said he asked if she wanted to know and she she told him yes and he said he told her to sit on the bed. (He's always bragged to us guys by holding his fingers about 9" apart.)
He said he grabbed her hand and put it on his dick and made her rub it and said when she felt how big it was she looked up at him and had this big grin on her face. He said he pulled off his boxers and she sat there stroking it and saying oh my god over and over to him but made no move to suck it so he grabbed the back of her head and pulled her head to him and she resisted for a second until he "made" her start sucking it. He said she wasn't experienced at giving head but she was damn sure motivated and laughed.
He said after that he pushed her back on the bed and she said "Josh", her husband's name, and he said fuck he thought she was going to stop him but he said she laid back pulled her legs back for him and out of nowhere acted like she did when we are all playing racquetball and said I guess your going to prove to me you aren't all talk. He said he told her I warned you and said he started rubbing her pussy with his dick and she started moaning and had an orgasm.
He said he started talking nonsense to her ass and said see what I told you about black men and said you can't keep up with me white girl. He said she just laid there moaning and he started putting his dick inside her but she was tight as fuck and told her damn girl you are tight and she said and you are fucking big. He said it took him awhile and he got more into her and he said he asked her a fucked up question about Josh.
He said he asked her does Josh have this much trouble with your pussy. He said she hesitated and he was like fuck I hope I did not say the wrong thing to her ass. He said he kept working his way into her and she was giving in and she finally said to him no Josh is easy to take. He said she was getting into it so he asked her if she was going to keep up with him and she said she was going to try and said after about thirty minutes of this he was fucking her and she was ha this look on her face like she was scared shitless.
He said he was pounding her pussy and asked her if she was okay, he said she told him jesus your big but keep fucking me. He said he started going to town on her pussy as she was grunting and could tell she was in some pain but never said stop so he said he kept wearing her pussy out until she started basically crying out loud. He said she just kept repeating how big he was the whole time and was having one orgasm after another. He said she was on the pill and she let him bust his nut inside her and when he was done she was like holy crap I can't believe I did this.
He then showed me her text message and it read something to the effect "You wore me out last night. So glad I slept with you. You were my "first." I can't wait till next time with you. He texted back "you were my first?" and she shot back "When I started playing racquetball with you I knew I was interested in you even though I was married. Never thought I would sleep with a black man. You were my "first" and he texted back "So there is going to be a next time?" and she said "Oh yes, a bunch of times." I've seen her since and she knows I know but it is a secret we all keep and her husband is unaware, or knows and can't stop it because she hangs back with this guy all the time after her husband literally leaves the gym.
And one other thing, there were a bunch of butt hurt white "boys" on the court who thought they had a shot at that pussy. After that they treated her "differently" which was fucked up but there is that insecurity rearing its ugly head.
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This is so true. Not to be cliche but I was a member of this fitness club where I spent a lot of time exercising. I played racquetball for a couple of hours 4X a week and afterwards either rode the Spin bike for an hour or swam approximately 3500yds. (I'm retired USAF so I have the time) Afterwards I would spend time in the cold dip and hot tub with a friend who also played racquetball. Anyhoo we usually got there at 5pm and did not leave until closing which was 10pm and in that time we observed everyone and heard all the gossip as we got to know the staff and a lot of the members.
We knew of 5 married white women there who were seeing several black men on the side. Two of the women were staff and the other three were members. The one staff member was this very nice looking 40ish white wife of a USAF MSgt and mom of three who my friend and I talked to quite often. She worked out there but her job was membership services so she came into contact with everyone and hardly hid the fact she paid a whole lot of attention to the black guys, hell she flaunted it in our faces at times by talking about how fine black guys were. Well, come to find out she was seeing two different black guys and would meet them at a hotel after work. Her husband actually came up to the place on numerous occasions and would find her talking to these black guys or not at the facility but never got upset, he would work out and leave and this went on for at least a year until he retired and they left the area.
The other staff member was this young white married Zumba instructor with this smoking hot body and we learned from the night staff that she would get done with her class and one of the black guys who worked out there would pick her up at the front door in his car and about an hour later drop her back off. The one girl who was the night staff got nosy and asked around and apparently the guy lived in some apartments less than a mile down the road and that is where other members saw her get out of the car with him and go into his apartment.
One member of the gym was this good looking 50ish white married woman of a doctor who we knew of for a long time was always by herself and was sort of quiet. We noticed because for her age she After awhile this muscled out black guy, but very humble, we were friends with started giving her pointers and after more time we noticed he started spending a whole lot of time with her. After that we then we noticed for about the next month they would simply disappear a couple of times a week and knew something was up. We probed him for info about them disappearing but initially he said nothing but since we were tight with him he eventually gave up the goods during a hot tub session. He told us he never made a move on her that she came on to him. He told us they were working out one day and she started mentioning her husband and that he worked at a hospital in New Orleans and commuted there from Biloxi (where we were) and spent four days a week there and then would come home for his days off.
He said he didn't really acknowledge what she said and that when he didn't she mentioned she was interested in taking him back to her place which sort of freaked him out like it was some kind of set up. He said he asked her if she was serious and that she told him straight up she had never slept with a black man and wanted to. He said okay and after that the next thing he knew he was in her car driving to her house and they were in her bed and he was fucking the ******* out of her and that for as quiet as she is she is really loud during sex. We've seen this guy in Under Armour workout underwear in the hottub so I know exactly why she is loud in bed with him, the guy is rather large.
Another female member was this average but nice looking 25 year old white girl who we knew because she and her husband watched us play racquetball at times and we could see she was into black guys a mile away. When we first noticed her we caught her staring at black guys all the time and it was about a year later we caught wind that she was hooking up with black guys on the side when her husband had to work and she was at the gym alone. She was as innocent as they come when we first saw her but after that first year we realized she was cunning as they come the way she secretively seeing these black guys and maintaining her reputation, or so she thought.
Last but not least was this young white girl who we let get on the racquetball court with us at times because she was eager to learn and had just enough athleticism to not get hurt. She was a newlywed and her hubby played too and was in her same class when it came to racquetball. They were both 20 years old and the rest of us who played were all between 45 and 50 and we were all A and B players which means we are fairly good at racquetball.
Anyway her husband was a beta guy and if you've ever played racquetball being beta is not a good thing. However, she was this cocky little thing, all of 5' 4" and loved to talk smack in spite her play. She had this attitude and this thick gymnastic body to go with it so it was nice seeing her on the court in her Nike shorts.
Anyway the biggest ******* talker we had was this black guy who was athletic as fuck and quick, he wasn't the best player but his physical gifts put him up there with us. Wellll the one thing she was unaware of was before she arrived this black guy looooooved to brag about his best gift and that was he had a huge dick and would show us text messages from girls saying he was hung like a porn star and how they were sore from him the previous night. He used to laugh his ass off as we read the messages and would tell us he killed that "cootchie", it was his favorite topic.
Well with both of them being ******* talkers they were always at it, on the court and off it they were talking smack to each other. This went on for a couple of months with her husband eventually playing on the other court while his newlywed wife started playing more and more on the opposite court with this black guy, be it a doubles or singles match. It finally got to the point where her husband got bored with the sport and would not even show up but she would and if he did show up he went and lifted weights. Huge mistake.
A lot of times it would be just the black guy, her and myself left on the courts and afterwards we would just sit and bullshit and they would still be talking noise to each other. They were now getting to the point where they were one upping each other and getting more colorful in their talks, and I could tell she was enjoying the fact this black guy would not let up on her. Plus by now she had gotten word he was hung and he alluded to it every now and then with her and she would always saw prove it. It was a joking thing in the beginning but I think her curiosity got to her.
The reason I saw she got "curious" because even though she was a newlywed I think she started fixating on his size because she started bringing it up more often and telling him to prove he was hung and he was full of *******. Then something happened in front of my eyes I would never had believed had I not seen it with my own eyes and heard it with my own ears that proved me right. (Of course I am paraphrasing their comments coming up)
One day after we were done playing, her husband not there at the gym, she was sitting on the ground in front of us both, her stretching with her legs slightly apart and we were on a bench and they were both going at it with her talking about him being a black guy and hung but she could keep up. As it got more heated she said something to the effect you are all talk and he was like "shiiiiiiiiiiit" and laughed and said girl you do not know. (Remember she was 20 and a newlywed and this guy here is about 50 so she was not going to call any bluff on him because he was not bluffing.)
Anyway I do not think she thought I could see anything because after she said that to him she put her left leg out further to the side which was closest to his view and when she did her shorts opened up wide enough to where you could see she had no panties on and her pussy came into full view, I mean full view!!! It was fucking incredible to see because there was no hair on it whatsoever and you could see every detail of vulva and lips and she left her leg like that so he could see her.
In my head I was thinking holy ******* I should leave but was unable to. The black guy didn't flinch and did not care I was there either because he said I like the way you got those legs spread. Now it was like I was not even there, and like I said this girl had an attitude and was cocky as fuck and said to him oh yeah what you going to do about it. He sat there for a second and said are you sure you want to find out and actually gave her an out and said are you sure you want to do this to your husband.
I was mesmerized and just sat there like an idiot when I should have left but this had been building up in front of me so I was not leaving. When he said that about her husband I thought she would back down but she didn't she just sat there and stared at him. And my jaw hit the floor when she said I'm sure and started packing her ******* up to leave.
I watched as they both left, her this 20 year old 5' 4" newlywed white girl about to have sex with this 50 year old black guy who was hung and her not worried about anything but having some Alpha black man fuck her, it was insane to think I witnessed this. Anyway I did not see either of them for an entire week and the first person I saw was the black guy and immediately went up and asked him did it happen? He was like what do you think? I said was she any good in bed?
He gave me the details and said to me she was scared to death and proceeded to tell me and show a text she sent him afterwards. He said she followed him his apartment and they went inside and she "broke down" and admitted she was nervous. He said they sat on the couch and he started kissing her and he just took over from there because he knew she was going to let him do what he wanted. He said he pulled off her top and she had small tits and sucked on them and then pulled off those Nike shorts she had on and said she had a fine ass looking pussy. He said she was sitting back on the couch with her ass hanging off the end and he pushed her knees up to her chest to where her pussy was poking out and ate her. He said she was flooding the couch she was so wet.
He said he took her to his bedroom and by then she was shaking like a leaf. He said he asked her if she was still sure about this and she said yes to him. He said he asked her why she was shaking so bad and she told him again she was scared. He said if it was about her husband she could back out and she said oh no it's not that I'm just scared about how big you are going to be. He said he asked if she wanted to know and she she told him yes and he said he told her to sit on the bed. (He's always bragged to us guys by holding his fingers about 9" apart.)
He said he grabbed her hand and put it on his dick and made her rub it and said when she felt how big it was she looked up at him and had this big grin on her face. He said he pulled off his boxers and she sat there stroking it and saying oh my god over and over to him but made no move to suck it so he grabbed the back of her head and pulled her head to him and she resisted for a second until he "made" her start sucking it. He said she wasn't experienced at giving head but she was damn sure motivated and laughed.
He said after that he pushed her back on the bed and she said "Josh", her husband's name, and he said fuck he thought she was going to stop him but he said she laid back pulled her legs back for him and out of nowhere acted like she did when we are all playing racquetball and said I guess your going to prove to me you aren't all talk. He said he told her I warned you and said he started rubbing her pussy with his dick and she started moaning and had an orgasm.
He said he started talking nonsense to her ass and said see what I told you about black men and said you can't keep up with me white girl. He said she just laid there moaning and he started putting his dick inside her but she was tight as fuck and told her damn girl you are tight and she said and you are fucking big. He said it took him awhile and he got more into her and he said he asked her a fucked up question about Josh.
He said he asked her does Josh have this much trouble with your pussy. He said she hesitated and he was like fuck I hope I did not say the wrong thing to her ass. He said he kept working his way into her and she was giving in and she finally said to him no Josh is easy to take. He said she was getting into it so he asked her if she was going to keep up with him and she said she was going to try and said after about thirty minutes of this he was fucking her and she was ha this look on her face like she was scared shitless.
He said he was pounding her pussy and asked her if she was okay, he said she told him jesus your big but keep fucking me. He said he started going to town on her pussy as she was grunting and could tell she was in some pain but never said stop so he said he kept wearing her pussy out until she started basically crying out loud. He said she just kept repeating how big he was the whole time and was having one orgasm after another. He said she was on the pill and she let him bust his nut inside her and when he was done she was like holy crap I can't believe I did this.
He then showed me her text message and it read something to the effect "You wore me out last night. So glad I slept with you. You were my "first." I can't wait till next time with you. He texted back "you were my first?" and she shot back "When I started playing racquetball with you I knew I was interested in you even though I was married. Never thought I would sleep with a black man. You were my "first" and he texted back "So there is going to be a next time?" and she said "Oh yes, a bunch of times." I've seen her since and she knows I know but it is a secret we all keep and her husband is unaware, or knows and can't stop it because she hangs back with this guy all the time after her husband literally leaves the gym.
And one other thing, there were a bunch of butt hurt white "boys" on the court who thought they had a shot at that pussy. After that they treated her "differently" which was fucked up but there is that insecurity rearing its ugly head.
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Long story but factual!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I believe. Happening at fitness clubs all across America. Maybe why so many women join. Lots of middle age women more than just concerned about their thighs, belly, and butts. And the availability of black cock at these gyms seems to be a big factor in womes memberships too. Sex or no sex. Women get hot just being around the hot sweatty black muscled bodies. But that gives them other ideas too. Susan has lots of stories
 
This is so true. Not to be cliche but I was a member of this fitness club where I spent a lot of time exercising. I played racquetball for a couple of hours 4X a week and afterwards either rode the Spin bike for an hour or swam approximately 3500yds. (I'm retired USAF so I have the time) Afterwards I would spend time in the cold dip and hot tub with a friend who also played racquetball. Anyhoo we usually got there at 5pm and did not leave until closing which was 10pm and in that time we observed everyone and heard all the gossip as we got to know the staff and a lot of the members.
We knew of 5 married white women there who were seeing several black men on the side. Two of the women were staff and the other three were members. The one staff member was this very nice looking 40ish white wife of a USAF MSgt and mom of three who my friend and I talked to quite often. She worked out there but her job was membership services so she came into contact with everyone and hardly hid the fact she paid a whole lot of attention to the black guys, hell she flaunted it in our faces at times by talking about how fine black guys were. Well, come to find out she was seeing two different black guys and would meet them at a hotel after work. Her husband actually came up to the place on numerous occasions and would find her talking to these black guys or not at the facility but never got upset, he would work out and leave and this went on for at least a year until he retired and they left the area.
The other staff member was this young white married Zumba instructor with this smoking hot body and we learned from the night staff that she would get done with her class and one of the black guys who worked out there would pick her up at the front door in his car and about an hour later drop her back off. The one girl who was the night staff got nosy and asked around and apparently the guy lived in some apartments less than a mile down the road and that is where other members saw her get out of the car with him and go into his apartment.
One member of the gym was this good looking 50ish white married woman of a doctor who we knew of for a long time was always by herself and was sort of quiet. We noticed because for her age she After awhile this muscled out black guy, but very humble, we were friends with started giving her pointers and after more time we noticed he started spending a whole lot of time with her. After that we then we noticed for about the next month they would simply disappear a couple of times a week and knew something was up. We probed him for info about them disappearing but initially he said nothing but since we were tight with him he eventually gave up the goods during a hot tub session. He told us he never made a move on her that she came on to him. He told us they were working out one day and she started mentioning her husband and that he worked at a hospital in New Orleans and commuted there from Biloxi (where we were) and spent four days a week there and then would come home for his days off.
He said he didn't really acknowledge what she said and that when he didn't she mentioned she was interested in taking him back to her place which sort of freaked him out like it was some kind of set up. He said he asked her if she was serious and that she told him straight up she had never slept with a black man and wanted to. He said okay and after that the next thing he knew he was in her car driving to her house and they were in her bed and he was fucking the ******* out of her and that for as quiet as she is she is really loud during sex. We've seen this guy in Under Armour workout underwear in the hottub so I know exactly why she is loud in bed with him, the guy is rather large.
Another female member was this average but nice looking 25 year old white girl who we knew because she and her husband watched us play racquetball at times and we could see she was into black guys a mile away. When we first noticed her we caught her staring at black guys all the time and it was about a year later we caught wind that she was hooking up with black guys on the side when her husband had to work and she was at the gym alone. She was as innocent as they come when we first saw her but after that first year we realized she was cunning as they come the way she secretively seeing these black guys and maintaining her reputation, or so she thought.
Last but not least was this young white girl who we let get on the racquetball court with us at times because she was eager to learn and had just enough athleticism to not get hurt. She was a newlywed and her hubby played too and was in her same class when it came to racquetball. They were both 20 years old and the rest of us who played were all between 45 and 50 and we were all A and B players which means we are fairly good at racquetball.
Anyway her husband was a beta guy and if you've ever played racquetball being beta is not a good thing. However, she was this cocky little thing, all of 5' 4" and loved to talk smack in spite her play. She had this attitude and this thick gymnastic body to go with it so it was nice seeing her on the court in her Nike shorts.
Anyway the biggest ******* talker we had was this black guy who was athletic as fuck and quick, he wasn't the best player but his physical gifts put him up there with us. Wellll the one thing she was unaware of was before she arrived this black guy looooooved to brag about his best gift and that was he had a huge dick and would show us text messages from girls saying he was hung like a porn star and how they were sore from him the previous night. He used to laugh his ass off as we read the messages and would tell us he killed that "cootchie", it was his favorite topic.
Well with both of them being ******* talkers they were always at it, on the court and off it they were talking smack to each other. This went on for a couple of months with her husband eventually playing on the other court while his newlywed wife started playing more and more on the opposite court with this black guy, be it a doubles or singles match. It finally got to the point where her husband got bored with the sport and would not even show up but she would and if he did show up he went and lifted weights. Huge mistake.
A lot of times it would be just the black guy, her and myself left on the courts and afterwards we would just sit and bullshit and they would still be talking noise to each other. They were now getting to the point where they were one upping each other and getting more colorful in their talks, and I could tell she was enjoying the fact this black guy would not let up on her. Plus by now she had gotten word he was hung and he alluded to it every now and then with her and she would always saw prove it. It was a joking thing in the beginning but I think her curiosity got to her.
The reason I saw she got "curious" because even though she was a newlywed I think she started fixating on his size because she started bringing it up more often and telling him to prove he was hung and he was full of *******. Then something happened in front of my eyes I would never had believed had I not seen it with my own eyes and heard it with my own ears that proved me right. (Of course I am paraphrasing their comments coming up)
One day after we were done playing, her husband not there at the gym, she was sitting on the ground in front of us both, her stretching with her legs slightly apart and we were on a bench and they were both going at it with her talking about him being a black guy and hung but she could keep up. As it got more heated she said something to the effect you are all talk and he was like "shiiiiiiiiiiit" and laughed and said girl you do not know. (Remember she was 20 and a newlywed and this guy here is about 50 so she was not going to call any bluff on him because he was not bluffing.)
Anyway I do not think she thought I could see anything because after she said that to him she put her left leg out further to the side which was closest to his view and when she did her shorts opened up wide enough to where you could see she had no panties on and her pussy came into full view, I mean full view!!! It was fucking incredible to see because there was no hair on it whatsoever and you could see every detail of vulva and lips and she left her leg like that so he could see her.
In my head I was thinking holy ******* I should leave but was unable to. The black guy didn't flinch and did not care I was there either because he said I like the way you got those legs spread. Now it was like I was not even there, and like I said this girl had an attitude and was cocky as fuck and said to him oh yeah what you going to do about it. He sat there for a second and said are you sure you want to find out and actually gave her an out and said are you sure you want to do this to your husband.
I was mesmerized and just sat there like an idiot when I should have left but this had been building up in front of me so I was not leaving. When he said that about her husband I thought she would back down but she didn't she just sat there and stared at him. And my jaw hit the floor when she said I'm sure and started packing her ******* up to leave.
I watched as they both left, her this 20 year old 5' 4" newlywed white girl about to have sex with this 50 year old black guy who was hung and her not worried about anything but having some Alpha black man fuck her, it was insane to think I witnessed this. Anyway I did not see either of them for an entire week and the first person I saw was the black guy and immediately went up and asked him did it happen? He was like what do you think? I said was she any good in bed?
He gave me the details and said to me she was scared to death and proceeded to tell me and show a text she sent him afterwards. He said she followed him his apartment and they went inside and she "broke down" and admitted she was nervous. He said they sat on the couch and he started kissing her and he just took over from there because he knew she was going to let him do what he wanted. He said he pulled off her top and she had small tits and sucked on them and then pulled off those Nike shorts she had on and said she had a fine ass looking pussy. He said she was sitting back on the couch with her ass hanging off the end and he pushed her knees up to her chest to where her pussy was poking out and ate her. He said she was flooding the couch she was so wet.
He said he took her to his bedroom and by then she was shaking like a leaf. He said he asked her if she was still sure about this and she said yes to him. He said he asked her why she was shaking so bad and she told him again she was scared. He said if it was about her husband she could back out and she said oh no it's not that I'm just scared about how big you are going to be. He said he asked if she wanted to know and she she told him yes and he said he told her to sit on the bed. (He's always bragged to us guys by holding his fingers about 9" apart.)
He said he grabbed her hand and put it on his dick and made her rub it and said when she felt how big it was she looked up at him and had this big grin on her face. He said he pulled off his boxers and she sat there stroking it and saying oh my god over and over to him but made no move to suck it so he grabbed the back of her head and pulled her head to him and she resisted for a second until he "made" her start sucking it. He said she wasn't experienced at giving head but she was damn sure motivated and laughed.
He said after that he pushed her back on the bed and she said "Josh", her husband's name, and he said fuck he thought she was going to stop him but he said she laid back pulled her legs back for him and out of nowhere acted like she did when we are all playing racquetball and said I guess your going to prove to me you aren't all talk. He said he told her I warned you and said he started rubbing her pussy with his dick and she started moaning and had an orgasm.
He said he started talking nonsense to her ass and said see what I told you about black men and said you can't keep up with me white girl. He said she just laid there moaning and he started putting his dick inside her but she was tight as fuck and told her damn girl you are tight and she said and you are fucking big. He said it took him awhile and he got more into her and he said he asked her a fucked up question about Josh.
He said he asked her does Josh have this much trouble with your pussy. He said she hesitated and he was like fuck I hope I did not say the wrong thing to her ass. He said he kept working his way into her and she was giving in and she finally said to him no Josh is easy to take. He said she was getting into it so he asked her if she was going to keep up with him and she said she was going to try and said after about thirty minutes of this he was fucking her and she was ha this look on her face like she was scared shitless.
He said he was pounding her pussy and asked her if she was okay, he said she told him jesus your big but keep fucking me. He said he started going to town on her pussy as she was grunting and could tell she was in some pain but never said stop so he said he kept wearing her pussy out until she started basically crying out loud. He said she just kept repeating how big he was the whole time and was having one orgasm after another. He said she was on the pill and she let him bust his nut inside her and when he was done she was like holy crap I can't believe I did this.
He then showed me her text message and it read something to the effect "You wore me out last night. So glad I slept with you. You were my "first." I can't wait till next time with you. He texted back "you were my first?" and she shot back "When I started playing racquetball with you I knew I was interested in you even though I was married. Never thought I would sleep with a black man. You were my "first" and he texted back "So there is going to be a next time?" and she said "Oh yes, a bunch of times." I've seen her since and she knows I know but it is a secret we all keep and her husband is unaware, or knows and can't stop it because she hangs back with this guy all the time after her husband literally leaves the gym.
And one other thing, there were a bunch of butt hurt white "boys" on the court who thought they had a shot at that pussy. After that they treated her "differently" which was fucked up but there is that insecurity rearing its ugly head.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Long story but factual!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I believe. Happening at fitness clubs all across America. Maybe why so many women join. Lots of middle age women more than just concerned about their thighs, belly, and butts. And the availability of black cock at these gyms seems to be a big factor in womes memberships too. Sex or no sex. Women get hot just being around the hot sweatty black muscled bodies. But that gives them other ideas too. Susan has lots of stories
 
My husbands fantasy was to see me with a black man. That's always been my fantasy also.He pushed me to join this site and post nude pics. After reading the responses to my profile he got very jealous and was going to shut it down. I think a lot of men like the fantasy but when it becomes reality they back off. Honestly I'm enjoying the attention I get here and if I find a bbc I want I'm going for it.
Lots of uncertainty in the beginning but you need to built trust and bring husband along in these activities. No question you will enjoy this. Long term you need to bring husband along or leave him behind.
 
Men are funny creatures to be sure no matter their background. I am still in the "what is he thinking" stage and roaming around on here and this is a very thoughtful thread for a site like this I am thinking. Lots of very interesting perspectives so I'll toss mine in here as well. I am a 50-ish female and work out in a club and have a busy husband and all that but if it weren't for his interest in something so crazy I would certainly not be here learning about it. I also don't think I would be getting busy at the club though I can't help but notice I get a fair bit of flirtatious young men's interest. This seems to me to be a very specific "kink" as mentioned and it can effect all sorts of men. Mine is certainly an alpha and I think it's his confidence in my continued appreciation for everything he is capable of outside the bedroom that he feels assured I would not go running off with someone because the sex was great. I also agree in the gym most of the really hot chiselled males are black and certainly do make a woman admire them for that but there will have to be a bit more than just that in it for me and I am sure many other women. Not a deep emotional connection but I mean ladies when you get a first message from ANYONE and it's just a vulgar one liner I have to believe most of us just hit delete. Good mutual karma is a must or o toy would probably bring similar results.
There are some great insights here on the male thinking side of this and that's the part that started this and one statement that was very sweet but still partially incomprehensible for me was if my husband was going to watch porn he'd want to watch the hottest woman he knew playing the starring role. It has something to do with me being wanton and experiencing a pleasure he can't provide that is such the major turn-on.
Go figure ;)
Great thread!
 
Men are funny creatures to be sure no matter their background. I am still in the "what is he thinking" stage and roaming around on here and this is a very thoughtful thread for a site like this I am thinking. Lots of very interesting perspectives so I'll toss mine in here as well. I am a 50-ish female and work out in a club and have a busy husband and all that but if it weren't for his interest in something so crazy I would certainly not be here learning about it. I also don't think I would be getting busy at the club though I can't help but notice I get a fair bit of flirtatious young men's interest. This seems to me to be a very specific "kink" as mentioned and it can effect all sorts of men. Mine is certainly an alpha and I think it's his confidence in my continued appreciation for everything he is capable of outside the bedroom that he feels assured I would not go running off with someone because the sex was great. I also agree in the gym most of the really hot chiselled males are black and certainly do make a woman admire them for that but there will have to be a bit more than just that in it for me and I am sure many other women. Not a deep emotional connection but I mean ladies when you get a first message from ANYONE and it's just a vulgar one liner I have to believe most of us just hit delete. Good mutual karma is a must or o toy would probably bring similar results.
There are some great insights here on the male thinking side of this and that's the part that started this and one statement that was very sweet but still partially incomprehensible for me was if my husband was going to watch porn he'd want to watch the hottest woman he knew playing the starring role. It has something to do with me being wanton and experiencing a pleasure he can't provide that is such the major turn-on.
Go figure ;)
Great thread!
Well Spoken Words! I Respect It!
 
Men are funny creatures to be sure no matter their background. I am still in the "what is he thinking" stage and roaming around on here and this is a very thoughtful thread for a site like this I am thinking. Lots of very interesting perspectives so I'll toss mine in here as well. I am a 50-ish female and work out in a club and have a busy husband and all that but if it weren't for his interest in something so crazy I would certainly not be here learning about it. I also don't think I would be getting busy at the club though I can't help but notice I get a fair bit of flirtatious young men's interest. This seems to me to be a very specific "kink" as mentioned and it can effect all sorts of men. Mine is certainly an alpha and I think it's his confidence in my continued appreciation for everything he is capable of outside the bedroom that he feels assured I would not go running off with someone because the sex was great. I also agree in the gym most of the really hot chiselled males are black and certainly do make a woman admire them for that but there will have to be a bit more than just that in it for me and I am sure many other women. Not a deep emotional connection but I mean ladies when you get a first message from ANYONE and it's just a vulgar one liner I have to believe most of us just hit delete. Good mutual karma is a must or o toy would probably bring similar results.
There are some great insights here on the male thinking side of this and that's the part that started this and one statement that was very sweet but still partially incomprehensible for me was if my husband was going to watch porn he'd want to watch the hottest woman he knew playing the starring role. It has something to do with me being wanton and experiencing a pleasure he can't provide that is such the major turn-on.
Go figure ;)
Great thread!
well said!! thanks
 
Men are funny creatures to be sure no matter their background. I am still in the "what is he thinking" stage and roaming around on here and this is a very thoughtful thread for a site like this I am thinking. Lots of very interesting perspectives so I'll toss mine in here as well. I am a 50-ish female and work out in a club and have a busy husband and all that but if it weren't for his interest in something so crazy I would certainly not be here learning about it. I also don't think I would be getting busy at the club though I can't help but notice I get a fair bit of flirtatious young men's interest. This seems to me to be a very specific "kink" as mentioned and it can effect all sorts of men. Mine is certainly an alpha and I think it's his confidence in my continued appreciation for everything he is capable of outside the bedroom that he feels assured I would not go running off with someone because the sex was great. I also agree in the gym most of the really hot chiselled males are black and certainly do make a woman admire them for that but there will have to be a bit more than just that in it for me and I am sure many other women. Not a deep emotional connection but I mean ladies when you get a first message from ANYONE and it's just a vulgar one liner I have to believe most of us just hit delete. Good mutual karma is a must or o toy would probably bring similar results.
There are some great insights here on the male thinking side of this and that's the part that started this and one statement that was very sweet but still partially incomprehensible for me was if my husband was going to watch porn he'd want to watch the hottest woman he knew playing the starring role. It has something to do with me being wanton and experiencing a pleasure he can't provide that is such the major turn-on.
Go figure ;)
Great thread!
yes, when i get a vulgar one-liner, i delete and usually block........
 
I think most white males would disagree with that assessment.

Some men, whether it be white men, Asian men and yes, even black men, get off watching their wife or girlfriend get fucked by another man. It’s just their kink.

Agree. It's not every white male. It is most likely a minority of white males that like this, but there clearly is a contingent of white males that want this (raises hand). And if someone asked me to explain it, I don't think I could. I've been a pretty alpha male my life, was married, have a kid in college. Not sure what really flipped the switch.
 
Agree. It's not every white male. It is most likely a minority of white males that like this, but there clearly is a contingent of white males that want this (raises hand). And if someone asked me to explain it, I don't think I could. I've been a pretty alpha male my life, was married, have a kid in college. Not sure what really flipped the switch.
I wish i knew as well.
 
It would be interesting if psychologists did a study on this. In yours and hubby’s case it might be that the fact your partners had had sex with several guys that originally turned you on? Or that you now want her to go with other guys to show that it’s just sex and no feelings for these other men?
But, like us, I’m glad it’s ‘clicked’ with you and you’d be happy if she went with other guys!
Thank you
 
It's just nature. White males are hard wired to get their wives/gfs blacked by strong black seed. Once they've found a strong black male. The white males purpose is to get their partner blacked as much as possible for the maximum amount of pleasure for the female. That's the modern white relationship
Its amazing just how powerful it is the desire to submit to Black Men. Knowing my purpose in life is controlled by Dominant Black Men.
 
I’m not in anyways complaining, but what’s the fascination with white guys wanting to watch they’re wives get fucked by black guys??? I’ve meet a couple off of here once, and it was a lot of fun! If I was married, I don’t think I’d allow that to happen lol
I can't speak for other white husbands. But for me there are a few different things that I like about it.
First of all I like to see my wife enjoying herself while getting fucked by another man. I like to see the pleasure on her face and the excitement in her voice. For most men this would make them jealous. For me it is a huge turn on.
I like to see the contrast between the white and dark skin
I like to see another man take my wife, and to see her enjoy being taken
I like the fact that this is all kind of taboo.
I have watched a white man fuck her and a black man fuck her. Watching the black man was much more exciting
I like seeing big penises enter her and black men on average have bigger cocks.
I would love for us to meet an attractive black couples and all four of us could have fun together
 
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