I cannot speak for us all but for hand placement or the lack thereof is key. Very few know that carrying these heavy balls daily is a chore. So to have them supported is theraputic. For me its either no hands or double hand but of course it has to be wet . Multitasking is the name of yge game. Sharing my BBC is also important in the presence of my size andcyge fact that your friend sister or daughter may be depraved of a deeper expirence.