I cannot speak for us all but for hand placement or the lack thereof is key. Very few know that carrying these heavy balls daily is a chore. So to have them supported is theraputic. For me its either no hands or double hand but of course it has to be wet . Multitasking is the name of yge game. Sharing my BBC is also important in the presence of my size andcyge fact that your friend sister or ******* may be depraved of a deeper expirence.