@hungteacher: i like how you point out the necessity of respect for the partner in a relationship. It is a shame it even needs to be mentioned in the first place.
i feel a deep commitment to my girlfriend simply because of who she is. No sexual fantasy can ever become more important to me than her.
i cannot understand how husbands make negative remarks about their own wives or write comments on a stranger(!)`s profile saying "i wish you were my wife" and such. But ******* like that happens all over on forums like this.
So this is for all the wannabe-cuckolds: If you truly want to live the lifestyle
for real, you have to understand that
step zero is to have a relationship with depth first. Do you and your wife feel
secure in your relationship? Do both of you
feel respected by the partner and
free to talk about everything that moves you without the fear of being judged or rejected? Are your partner`s concerns as important for you as your own and
do you listen to them closely?
If you have to answer one of these questions with "no", you should work on that and correct it
first. Otherwise there will be
no chance at all to fulfill your fantasy!
Simply tremendous!!
@mywayintermsofsex I wish more people, especially men were like you. I have spent 10 years, or just more than that working with mostly married women and couples. The married women come to me on their own behind their husbands backs because they are total cowards and have expressed a desire to have their wives sleep with a man like me, but won't continue the conversation. Its like a hit and run. They crash into their wife, "honey, i want you to fuck a bull." and before the wife can ask "what is that?" the husband is long gone into his room to jerk off to porn.
Meanwhile the wife now is doing research on her own because, in all frankness, the husband doesn't deserve her, but she cares so deeply about his needs that she wants to please him. I have to tell the wife, please go back to your husband and "DRAG" him into the conversation with me. And she has to beg him to talk to me - a REAL BULL. The thing he said he wanted, but now he is being a stubborn little baby about it.
There are real men on this site, real bulls, real lovers. There are also real wives and women on here. Real live women. But the number of men that pretend to be involved in cuckolding, or that they even have a wife is what's most unappealing about the internet in general. The amount of lying and fabrication is just ludicrous.
If the wannabes were just honest - "i don't have a girlfriend right now, but i want to be cuckolded by a woman." It would be 100% better, because as I said, I receive emails from women asking "do i know a good cuckold?"
The answer is, I know a few, but I have to match up a good woman with a good cuckold. I can't just send 2 random people on a date. I have to vet you, I have to know you, I have to vouche for you.
I have a woman right now, she is remarkable. Simply stunning, beyond bright, she is practically brilliant. And she wants to be married and she wants to take care of the domestic stuff and she wants to be "seen" as suzy-homemaker. But behind closed doors, she only wants to fuck Bulls. She will have sex with the cuckold, but maybe a few times per month, just sexual maintenance for him. But she wants a stable of bulls. And she will have that no doubt.
But I can't find a decent Cuckold.
I am a member of a Bull Group on the East Coast. 85% dark black guys, a few guys like me, mixed, mostly from the DC area, unfortunately. I have another woman who is in a relationship, but prefers dark men with 9"+. She only wants me for fun a few times, I'm only 8", but she wants even bigger for a regular fuck bull. And because I don't have enough cuckolds to set up with women, I can't get to know more bulls. Because Im heterosexual. So if I meet a bull, what are we supposed to do?
What I do takes time, and no one has patience. What I do, takes thought. And no one trusts anyone anymore. What I do is fun, but instant gratification rules the day.
I have met women from this site, and other sites. And every person that actually talks to me, actually meets me all say the same thing "Wow, You really were a Professor in NY?" and then "You are truly an impressive man, thank you so much for helping me, i don't know what id do without you."
The 2nd comment is the one that makes me smile the most, because imagine a world in which everyone, every man and woman on this site were more helpful to each other. If every man that was single, was willing to put aside his ego for a second and his penis for a second and just said to any woman on here, "hello, how can I help you?"
I know the people on here are international, but I am from America, so I use it as the example. We, as a community on this site, need to treat women better than American Society and Culture. Women are disrespected daily. Women are treated as second class citizens. Women are shamed, publicly for wanting to fuck hung men.
You would think that a place like this, would understand. But no, the women are treated like property here too. A woman that admires large cock, a woman that desires large cock, a woman that will cuckold her man to get large cock should be revered, should be worshipped and should be applauded for her confidence, bravery and courage to stand up to the American Bullies of the Far Right and the Far Left.
I apologize, if my rant offended anyone specifically, I just get very worked up over not treating women the way they deserve.
