We all know penis envy is a thing. Half of this lifestyle is built on it.
But as black men, do we still feel insecure because someone else is bigger?
Personally, I've always accepted that there's always a "bigger fish" in the ocean.
But this lifestyle is built around the concept of BBC.
For me, I just remind myself I've got my own problems, I don't envy anyone bigger. Having a big dick requires you to deal with problems most men will never encounter.
Ripping/ tearing your partner.
Dislodging her IUD.
Cervical bruising.
Pussy being too tight.
Anal sex off the menu.
Tearing/breaking condoms
Etc etc
And some women will just say no...it's too big.
Why would I be jealous of that, or worse ?
But as black men, do we still feel insecure because someone else is bigger?
Personally, I've always accepted that there's always a "bigger fish" in the ocean.
But this lifestyle is built around the concept of BBC.
For me, I just remind myself I've got my own problems, I don't envy anyone bigger. Having a big dick requires you to deal with problems most men will never encounter.
Ripping/ tearing your partner.
Dislodging her IUD.
Cervical bruising.
Pussy being too tight.
Anal sex off the menu.
Tearing/breaking condoms
Etc etc
And some women will just say no...it's too big.
Why would I be jealous of that, or worse ?