Our thoughts as we leave....

[24play]

Try sdc.com or lifestylelounge.com as they are lifestyle sites and lots of good people on there that are real.

 

[WhiseD]

Have had some of the same issues. Made one post which was extremely unsuccessful. The replies to the post and the messages we received were all disappointing.

 

[TwoLoversInWNY]

Twolovers...have you heard of C4P?

We have not. Will poke about

 

[housewifenheat]

This site like others has good qualities and bad. There are fakes on every site, not just this one. I have been on a lot of other sites and haven't had the same interaction as I have here. This site is not only very user friendly but also pretty positive. There is interaction if you want it and if not you don't have to participate. It is just all on your outlook and what you want to get out of it.

I have met folks from here, I have met folks from C4P as well, I have also met folks from other sites too. Again, it all comes down to what you are looking for, what you are willing to put out there and what you are willing to accept. We are all people and have unique personalities. Sometimes you click with someone sometimes you don't.

I have been looking for a Black man for an ongoing relationship, one who can meet a few times a week. I have been searching for this for years. Have I given up? No, but in the meantime, I have fun and enjoy meeting guys and seeing where things go. You never know when that one, will turn out to be what you are looking for.

 

[MDP]

Agree with previous comments recommending SDC. The wife and I have had more success there than on here.

For those speaking English, the Dating section does need to be broken in to regions, such as North America, UK etc so people can find others much better.

Adding extra options to the profiles such as "Can/cannot accommodate" would help as well.

 

[cuckcpl41]

No offence meant to any of the happy members here, but having tried this site its time to leave.

Initially, this seemed like an exciting opportunity for a genuine and enthusiastic couple but unfortunately this site does seem to suffer from the same issues which always apply to these sites.

1. For a large amount of members -This is basically a porn site. Looking at pics, videos, and taking part in lots of 'fantasy' discussion rather than actually meeting with people. (this is fine by the way, its just not why we joined)
2. I can picture a large amount of white males sat wanking as they browse this site... and a large percentage of them enjoying the fantasy aspect... even though their wives are completely unaware.
3. The distance - is there not a better way to make it easier for people to 'hook up'. So many messages from people on the other side of the world. so frustrating. Im not gonna travel 3,000 miles to meet with some stranger who has sent me a four word message on the internet!!
4. The message service - wow.... how many messages do you receive which just contain three of four words.....?? "how r u" - "u r sexy" - "wanna chat" I mean, really?? is that all youve got? come on guys. Your message should be well thought, well spelt, and it should make you stand out from the crowd. Give us a few questions to answer, show a picture or two and generally make us WANT TO REPLY
5. Fakers - oh boy, this site is suffering from that!! I wonder what the percentage of genuine members compared to dreamers/fakers/liars is? This site seems to have a major problem with this.
6. Photos..... over the past few years a number of useful apps and sites have popped up where you can upload a photo you have found and it will tell you all of its info. Where it was taken, on what device, and where else it is also shown on the net etc etc etc...... So for any self respecting genuine couple (like us) we often use this to verify and check out the photos we see on here. You wouldnt believe the amount of photos which are taken from porn sites, or are stills from porn videos, etc etc... and yet people are pretending that these are THEIR PHOTOS. wow. This is mostly guys pretending that porn pics are their 'wife' etc... but it also extends to BBC photos which are sometimes not even the same cock as the other guys photos, and are a mixture of porn snaps which show up on multiple interracial websites...

I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND that this is a HUGE fantasy and turn on for many many submissive or curious white men.
But for us, this site does lean too far towards the fantasy porn genre rather than being an actual dating site.

NO disrespect, offence or hurt intended towards anybody here...

AND I MUST SAY - that the site itself is extremely good in terms of the media and chat functions and has all the tools and potential to be a really really special website....if there was only someway to remove all the fakers, dreamers and timewasters.

thank you to everyone who commented, liked our pics and vids - we DID PUT a lot of our very private and personal content on here just to emphasise how serious and genuine we are about committing to exciting interracial sex.

Ive even physically punched my desk in frustration when seeing the large amount of very very attractive black men who are simply not real, or who are just too far away from us.

our search continues.

love to all the genuine people here who feel our pain,

Ant and Jane

Having experienced much of the same have to agree. Biggest issue is the fakes and dreamers... We live the life and have enjoyed many LTRs must say of all the sites SLS has been the most fruitful...

 

[AnthonyandJane]

Although I agree with OP point about fakes and being too far away etc, I do think that this is one of the best, easy to use sites on the net. And anyone looking for a site with no fakes is going to be disappointed, they are on every site, especially free ones.
I have been on my journey since 2013 and learned a hell of a lot from this site, some great advice and points raised on here.
So I use this site to share my experiences and read others. My meets are now mainly on Fabswingers because I can localise verified people, but that's a meeting site not a place for discussion.
I will continue to use this site as long as there are people interested in inter-racial swinging.

completely agree. great site - compared to the others.

 

[AnthonyandJane]

and then i learn that we cant actually 'delete' our account.
wow

 

[Chungcheng21]

BlacktoWhite is one of the best Interracial forums on the internet, bar none. Other forums don't have a verification process, inactive and a lot more fakes claiming to be something they aren't.

 

[ctcougar]

BlacktoWhite is one of the best Interracial forums on the internet, bar none. Other forums don't have a verification process, inactive and a lot more fakes claiming to be something they aren't.

SLS allows users to 'certify' each other. Now there is no such thing as a bad cert but if someone you want to interact with there has at least a few certs it generally means they are real and are what they claim to be in their profile.

All of the people we have met as swingers whether for MFMs, MFMFs or MF with our lady alone on her own have been from SLS.

NONE from this site but then we do not react well to the 'breed the white bitch bareback or fuck her like a whore or ******* hubby to suck the guy's cock' crowd.

 

[Idowives0763]

I can definitely feel your pain and frustration. As other posters have said and which I have often said myself, this site is not really good for people who are truly serious about getting involved with this wonderful lifestyle. This site, like you said, is primarily about watching porn and fantasizing. Don't get me wrong, there are some really quality people here but the amount of 'muck' that you have to wade through can be overwhelming at times. My advise to anyone who is truly serious about this lifestyle is.....if you live in or near a major city, join a lifestyle site. There are several to choose from and each has a strong presence in different parts of the country. For example, SLS is really popular in the Northeast whereas SDC is more popular in the Southeast, especially in Florida. To find out which site is best for you, join them all as a free member, do a search for members in your area and whichever one yields the best results, then that is the site you join. Now, just joining the site may not be enough. Check out the interracial groups and network network network. Reach out to other couples who are in the lifestyle. Many times these couples would be more than happy to turn you on to good, quality Bulls. As our original poster stated, they are not in the US. I can't say that I'm familiar with the lifestyle sites in the UK but I do know that there is a very strong IR community there. Get plugged into it. All it takes is to get plugged in with one couple and everything will take off from there. If you are still around I would be happy to give you whatever advice I can spare. I hate to see good people turned off from this lifestyle because of frustration.

 

[AnthonyandJane]

I can definitely feel your pain and frustration. As other posters have said and which I have often said myself, this site is not really good for people who are truly serious about getting involved with this wonderful lifestyle. This site, like you said, is primarily about watching porn and fantasizing. Don't get me wrong, there are some really quality people here but the amount of 'muck' that you have to wade through can be overwhelming at times. My advise to anyone who is truly serious about this lifestyle is.....if you live in or near a major city, join a lifestyle site. There are several to choose from and each has a strong presence in different parts of the country. For example, SLS is really popular in the Northeast whereas SDC is more popular in the Southeast, especially in Florida. To find out which site is best for you, join them all as a free member, do a search for members in your area and whichever one yields the best results, then that is the site you join. Now, just joining the site may not be enough. Check out the interracial groups and network network network. Reach out to other couples who are in the lifestyle. Many times these couples would be more than happy to turn you on to good, quality Bulls. As our original poster stated, they are not in the US. I can't say that I'm familiar with the lifestyle sites in the UK but I do know that there is a very strong IR community there. Get plugged into it. All it takes is to get plugged in with one couple and everything will take off from there. If you are still around I would be happy to give you whatever advice I can spare. I hate to see good people turned off from this lifestyle because of frustration.

brilliant reply, thank you very much Sir

 

[Idowives0763]

brilliant reply, thank you very much Sir

Send me a message. I'd like to talk to you a bit before you totally depart.