That's why when you talk to anyone on here about meeting.
YOU NEED TO BE DIRECT.
This works for me. If I get a message or I get a response to message.
It goes like this
Them = "Hi"
Me = "Hi. What you looking for ?"
If they're serious they will say they have a wife and looking to meet, if they're a woman they will tell you she's looking to meet. If they are not serious they just say some timewasting stuff about exchanging pics or ghost you. Basically anything about not meeting. But let's say they are legit
Then I'll say "When you free ?"
I say this in my second message. To test them. To see how they respond
If they come with "Well I'm busy at the moment" basically if they say anything that tells you they can't meet right now just say "OK, Cool, Get bk to me when you are free"
And don't speak to them again unless they contact you.
Give them NO ATTENTION unless it's about you meeting. So no chit chat about work or your hobbies and don't randomly message them either and guys don't ask for the wifes pic or her pic.
Guys look you ain't gonna get Sharon Stone (Circa 1994) you are gonna get Ms Average.
If they ask for your pic send them to your profile which should have pic on or email them a pic and don't send them any face pic either.
I don't want my family knowing I do this. And guys if you have body like the Nutty Professor don't be sending no shirtless pics. But if you are in shape then shirtless pics are the way to go
You have to be MEAN with the attention you give ppl and this true with online dating apps. Be Direct. Don't be jokey. No "Lol" Be Serious.