Ok so can someone clue me in on how close I am to being actually cuckolded?

How close am I to becoming a true cuckold?

  • Not close at all

  • Close, but you're moving too fast

  • Close, and you should keep a steady pace

  • Very close (6 months to a year)

  • She's probably cheated already and is embarrassed to confess

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Allindark93

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So just for background, I've been cuckolded numerous times already by ex-girlfriends, but it only twice it happened while I was in that 'OK I might be a cuckold' stage: The first I didn't even find out about until after we broke up, the second one cheated on me with a black guy and 'fessed up and I basically told her "yeah keep going" but I actually couldn't handle it and we ended up splitting up.

Well this is like 8 years later and I'm MUCH more accepting of my cuckold status, and married to the love of my life. She knows that I'm a cuck and is cool with it. She hasn't cheated yet, and has never been blacked (yet) but here is some of the progress we've made. We've been married almost 3 years, so yeah we've moved fast...


-Serious discussions about going into the 'lifestyle'
-Frequent comments about being 'available' and me being a cuck out of the bedroom
-She's mentioned a swinging co-worker who's wife 'has a BBC champ'. She talked about this in an admirable sort of tone.
-She had Tinder for a short while and was messaging guys (white guys unfortunately) but deleted it...neither of us want to get doxxed ort found out by family.
-Mentioning how she thinks black guys 'are so hot'. (She said this reacting to me showing her a picture i photo-shopped of her with a black pornstar LOL). Also mentioned that when she searches for porn she prefers a 'darker guy'.
-She let's me use a black dildo on her, she even requested it a couple times on her own. It vibrates and can ejaculate, which is fun because i got some cum imitation lube that I can basically creampie her with.
-LOTS of roleplay. One of our favorite fantasies is for her to take the BBC, get creampied, then get dressed again and meet me in a different room like she got home from a date. Then I basically eat her out (the dildo holds 10 mL so its HUGE creampies every time). Then we'll make love during which she'll confess that she cheated and he came inside of her, and I'll basically keep telling her it's OK and that she can cheat as much as she wants, I'm not mad at all etc.. She LOVES cuck roleplay and pretty much always enjoys it more than our vanilla.
-Finally, a couple times now she's expressed some fear that this all turns her on so much, and that because we're so young it's inevitable to happen.

I love her so much and she's seriously so beautiful. She's my princess and she deserves her bad boy black knight to keep her satisfied and full of cum. I know this is an extremely taboo subject but I will love her no matter what and I am 100% ready to raise another baby as my own. She is young enough that we have almost a decade of fertile time left for her, so I'm just holding out hope that it happens.

So how close do you all think I am to the real thing?


Update: Since writing this a couple things have happened. First off we've discussed having another baby, trying to weigh the pros and cons. Honestly it feels like all the more pressure to get her blacked ASAP but I know we both need to take our time, I guess what's really important here is to try to keep my little white dicklett out of her pussy at all costs. Secondly she's joined the gym and has already mentioned at least one black male paying attention to her. I will keep everyone updated with further details.


Update #2 (April 22 2021) From the first update to a couple of days ago there was basically zero cuckold talk in or out of the bedroom. Our sex had definitely slowed down which I guess is a good thing? (I'm trying to get to a place where I only eat her out but it's really hard when she's begging for dick and already super wet.) Having said that It's either that or the warmer weather that's working because guess what? SHE MET A GUY!!! They chatted a bit briefly earlier this week and ever since we have basically been in 'are you sure about this' mode. The plan for now is that they're going to 'go out for a couple drinks' so I really don't see her hopping into the sack with him because she's really not that way (but it's great fun/practice regardless.) All I know at this point is his name, that he's black, he goes to her gym, and she thinks he's hot. I'm kind of freaking out a tiny bit but I know this weekend is just a practice run and honestly this is destined to happen. Just hoping everything goes smoothly.
 
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If true I'd say she is showing you the signs she is up for it, or done it, especially with the comment about how it turns her on too much. She wants YOU to give the OK, to explicitly tell her you want this to happen, and tell her you want to be involved, choosing her bulls, being there when she meets her bulls. Feel free to DM me if you want to discuss more.
 
marco vittoro said:
i'd say she's already done it...even some time ago.
she's just gaging you based on your past, to see when to actually tell you.
i think the cat may not cum out of the bag until she's showing!
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I would be OK with that. Optimally I would like to know about it so that I could be doing cleanup etc. but if a little subversion is necessary to get her a steady supply of black alpha sperm then so be it
 
Allindark93 said:
So just for background, I've been cuckolded numerous times already by ex-girlfriends, but it only twice it happened while I was in that 'OK I might be a cuckold' stage: The first I didn't even find out about until after we broke up, the second one cheated on me with a black guy and 'fessed up and I basically told her "yeah keep going" but I actually couldn't handle it and we ended up splitting up.

Well this is like 8 years later and I'm MUCH more accepting of my cuckold status, and married to the love of my life. She knows that I'm a cuck and is cool with it. She hasn't cheated yet, and has never been blacked (yet) but here is some of the progress we've made. We've been married almost 3 years, so yeah we've moved fast...


-Serious discussions about going into the 'lifestyle'
-Frequent comments about being 'available' and me being a cuck out of the bedroom
-She's mentioned a swinging co-worker who's wife 'has a BBC champ'. She talked about this in an admirable sort of tone.
-She had Tinder for a short while and was messaging guys (white guys unfortunately) but deleted it...neither of us want to get doxxed ort found out by family.
-Mentioning how she thinks black guys 'are so hot'. (She said this reacting to me showing her a picture i photo-shopped of her with a black pornstar LOL). Also mentioned that when she searches for porn she prefers a 'darker guy'.
-She let's me use a black dildo on her, she even requested it a couple times on her own. It vibrates and can ejaculate, which is fun because i got some cum imitation lube that I can basically creampie her with.
-LOTS of roleplay. One of our favorite fantasies is for her to take the BBC, get creampied, then get dressed again and meet me in a different room like she got home from a date. Then I basically eat her out (the dildo holds 10 mL so its HUGE creampies every time). Then we'll make love during which she'll confess that she cheated and he came inside of her, and I'll basically keep telling her it's OK and that she can cheat as much as she wants, I'm not mad at all etc.. She LOVES cuck roleplay and pretty much always enjoys it more than our vanilla.
-Finally, a couple times now she's expressed some fear that this all turns her on so much, and that because we're so young it's inevitable to happen.

I love her so much and she's seriously so beautiful. She's my princess and she deserves her bad boy black knight to keep her satisfied and full of cum. I know this is an extremely taboo subject but I will love her no matter what and I am 100% ready to raise another baby as my own. She is young enough that we have almost a decade of fertile time left for her, so I'm just holding out hope that it happens.

So how close do you all think I am to the real thing?

Update: Since posting this, a couple things have happened. Firstly she joined a gym and has been going somewhat regularly, the first time she went she was noticed by a black man who was 'super buff and kind of cute with a beard', the second visit was all whitebois so i guess we'll see.

The second update is honestly kind of bittersweet: We've revisited the idea of having another baby, and decided to cancel/postpone my vasectomy operation. While this is good for the obvious reasons its going to be that much more important that I keep my beta white dicklett out of her at all costs. Now I feel like the new goal is to A.) Get her to be thoroughly/regularly blacked and B.) simultaneously help her develop at least a tinge of baby fever
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Keep giving updates!!!
 
Allindark93 said:
I would be OK with that. Optimally I would like to know about it so that I could be doing cleanup etc. but if a little subversion is necessary to get her a steady supply of black alpha sperm then so be it
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yes, but are you ready to see her with her belly bulging...knowing it is NOT yours, and that she's going to keep it?
 
Allindark93 said:
Edit: Since writing this a couple things have happened. First off we've discussed having another baby, trying to weigh the pros and cons. Honestly it feels like all the more pressure to get her blacked ASAP but I know we both need to take our time, I guess what's really important here is to try to keep my little white dicklett out of her pussy at all costs. Secondly she's joined the gym and has already mentioned at least one black male paying attention to her. I will keep everyone updated with further details.
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Sounds like you are there as being a cuckold.

Do not do the baby thing anytime soon unless it's with you. That rush to get her blacked implies you want a mixed race baby. There's a lot more to that than the thrill of her getting preg. You'll have a 20 yr commitment. My husband and I chose to be parents until we are nearly 60. It's what we find most rewarding and we have the means.

With your history, it sounds like you need to see if you can actually handle it. You say you've grown, but when she is putting on stockings or a pretty dress, are you going to be OK with it all. Are you going to pace the house thinking you made a bad choice when she is gone? What do you want or expect when she comes home? Do you want to hear all the details? Are you going to want her to drop her underwear and straddle your face? When I did my first time swinging, my husband pulled my panties to my knees while standing in the bathroom. He was proud of me for going outside my comfort zone. However, he did look at the sperm and touch me.

So, fun first........then, if you are really ok with all that is involved with a baby, consider the baby.
 
erika9009 said:
Sounds like you are there as being a cuckold.

Do not do the baby thing anytime soon unless it's with you. That rush to get her blacked implies you want a mixed race baby. There's a lot more to that than the thrill of her getting preg. You'll have a 20 yr commitment. My husband and I chose to be parents until we are nearly 60. It's what we find most rewarding and we have the means.

With your history, it sounds like you need to see if you can actually handle it. You say you've grown, but when she is putting on stockings or a pretty dress, are you going to be OK with it all. Are you going to pace the house thinking you made a bad choice when she is gone? What do you want or expect when she comes home? Do you want to hear all the details? Are you going to want her to drop her underwear and straddle your face? When I did my first time swinging, my husband pulled my panties to my knees while standing in the bathroom. He was proud of me for going outside my comfort zone. However, he did look at the sperm and touch me.

So, fun first........then, if you are really ok with all that is involved with a baby, consider the baby.
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I mean honestly having another baby isn't really the first thing on our minds, it's really more about getting her blacked (and eventually) getting a steady supply of BBC. The resulting steady supply of alpha sperm is just the natural consequence of that.

She's young, beautiful, and very fertile. All it takes is once. We do have the means and so if it happened I would 100% step up to the plate. If we stay on the path we have been, I do see her pregnancy with a black bull as an inevitability, so yeah. Like I said earlier, what I have my fingers really crossed for is the chance to lick her black alpha's seed from her pussy (and for bonus points her asshole after it drips down!)
 
there are things that move mysteriously in the back of a womans mind. instincts & more, that make up those spur-of-th-moment decisions that are clear turning points in life. that moment, when it comes, will change everything.
alot on here seem to be rather sub males...so i think in some ways they regarding it in one way. myself, not being sub, but encouraged by alyssa to go out & spread my seed. ...even assisted by her to do so, is yet another different dynamic. i think there might be a couple of us on here.
 
I would like to know which dildo you use ? It should be amazing. Have you the brand/model please ?

I think you re really close, you should talk to her further ideas when aroused.
 
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It sounds to me like your wife has already had sex with the guy, or, at least, is very interested in doing it.
Now, that's all still assumptions and you should be careful not to be misunderstanding your wife, who, yes, might have found some black guy she finds very attractive, but that doesn't necessarily mean she has any plans on cheating on you. In fact, as you might already be aware, she could find it highly offensive if you suggest she's been having sex with another man, and she either hasn't (or has and isn't quite comfortable with letting you know, since that's quite the taboo).
If you think she's into him, you can try to show your interest in indirect ways, like asking her about her time in the gym, ask her about this guy, have her give you the most details about him (but don't ask too much on one sitting, or she might think you're accusing her of something). You can also try watching interracial porn with her, especially the cuckolding kind to see if she catches your drift. If she asks you about your choice of porn, just tell her you just got into it, and that you've come to enjoy it.
If she understands your point, then you can board the subject. If she's already fucked the guy she might open herself to you and tell you about it (this won't necessarily happen immediately, since she'll have to make sure you're indeed into it, and that you won't hate her for it), and if she hasn't, she might tell your she's interested and then both of you can see how to make a plan.
Of course, ultimately, you'll also have to consider whether the guy might be interested in joining you in this. Some men might not want to get into this type of play, and even less making some women they're not committed to pregnant (in this case, you should have the legal aspects clear, so that he can rest assured he'll bear no legal responsibility over the baby, assuming he agrees to impregnate your wife, which won't necessarily happen after coming inside her once - you might have to do this for a month or so before she gets pregnant - though, I suppose, that would be great for you).

Do please keep sharing updates with us, and if things go well, it would be amazing if you recorded the big event (or series of events). Impregnation is always a beautiful thing to behold, especially when it's a black man impregnating a white woman.

Best of luck!
 
I think she's already cucking you and you have already eaten their pies without knowing it. You are going to have to make it very clear to her that she is free to fuck who she wants when she wants, but that the only thing you want, is to know about it before it happens and when it happens.
 
Allindark93 said:
So just for background, I've been cuckolded numerous times already by ex-girlfriends, but it only twice it happened while I was in that 'OK I might be a cuckold' stage: The first I didn't even find out about until after we broke up, the second one cheated on me with a black guy and 'fessed up and I basically told her "yeah keep going" but I actually couldn't handle it and we ended up splitting up.

Well this is like 8 years later and I'm MUCH more accepting of my cuckold status, and married to the love of my life. She knows that I'm a cuck and is cool with it. She hasn't cheated yet, and has never been blacked (yet) but here is some of the progress we've made. We've been married almost 3 years, so yeah we've moved fast...


-Serious discussions about going into the 'lifestyle'
-Frequent comments about being 'available' and me being a cuck out of the bedroom
-She's mentioned a swinging co-worker who's wife 'has a BBC champ'. She talked about this in an admirable sort of tone.
-She had Tinder for a short while and was messaging guys (white guys unfortunately) but deleted it...neither of us want to get doxxed ort found out by family.
-Mentioning how she thinks black guys 'are so hot'. (She said this reacting to me showing her a picture i photo-shopped of her with a black pornstar LOL). Also mentioned that when she searches for porn she prefers a 'darker guy'.
-She let's me use a black dildo on her, she even requested it a couple times on her own. It vibrates and can ejaculate, which is fun because i got some cum imitation lube that I can basically creampie her with.
-LOTS of roleplay. One of our favorite fantasies is for her to take the BBC, get creampied, then get dressed again and meet me in a different room like she got home from a date. Then I basically eat her out (the dildo holds 10 mL so its HUGE creampies every time). Then we'll make love during which she'll confess that she cheated and he came inside of her, and I'll basically keep telling her it's OK and that she can cheat as much as she wants, I'm not mad at all etc.. She LOVES cuck roleplay and pretty much always enjoys it more than our vanilla.
-Finally, a couple times now she's expressed some fear that this all turns her on so much, and that because we're so young it's inevitable to happen.

I love her so much and she's seriously so beautiful. She's my princess and she deserves her bad boy black knight to keep her satisfied and full of cum. I know this is an extremely taboo subject but I will love her no matter what and I am 100% ready to raise another baby as my own. She is young enough that we have almost a decade of fertile time left for her, so I'm just holding out hope that it happens.

So how close do you all think I am to the real thing?


Update: Since writing this a couple things have happened. First off we've discussed having another baby, trying to weigh the pros and cons. Honestly it feels like all the more pressure to get her blacked ASAP but I know we both need to take our time, I guess what's really important here is to try to keep my little white dicklett out of her pussy at all costs. Secondly she's joined the gym and has already mentioned at least one black male paying attention to her. I will keep everyone updated with further details.


Update #2 (April 22 2021) From the first update to a couple of days ago there was basically zero cuckold talk in or out of the bedroom. Our sex had definitely slowed down which I guess is a good thing? (I'm trying to get to a place where I only eat her out but it's really hard when she's begging for dick and already super wet.) Having said that It's either that or the warmer weather that's working because guess what? SHE MET A GUY!!! They chatted a bit briefly earlier this week and ever since we have basically been in 'are you sure about this' mode. The plan for now is that they're going to 'go out for a couple drinks' so I really don't see her hopping into the sack with him because she's really not that way (but it's great fun/practice regardless.) All I know at this point is his name, that he's black, he goes to her gym, and she thinks he's hot. I'm kind of freaking out a tiny bit but I know this weekend is just a practice run and honestly this is destined to happen. Just hoping everything goes smoothly.
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Update #3 (May 5, 2021)
Ok so its been a couple weeks and honestly I feel like our lives have been turned completely upside down. After my last post everything went pretty much as expected. She must have asked me 50 times if I was sure I was cool with everything and I couldn't have said 'yes' any more enthusiastically.
The night came and she left and was gone for what felt like YEARS. The plan was they were going to meet at a bar in the next town over basically near where he lives and have a few drinks and chat etc. The only ground rules I had were that she kept her rings on and that she doesn't tell him that I know about anything. I'm not caged (yet?) and I jerked off three fucking times while she was gone, that's how crazy I was going. She was just wearing some nice jeans and a semi-tight t-shirt so it's not like she was dressed to ******* which helped me stay somewhat calm. Literally all I could think about was this super strong black dude chatting up my wife and trying to get his hands on her body.
Anyways, she comes home and she is absolutely giddy. She didn't even say anything we just started making out, I immediately regretted jerking off because all I wanted to do was fuck her brains out right there in the kitchen. She said 'You know I love you, right?' I told her I did and that I loved her more than anything. Then she said it.
"We had sex."
It was like somebody let off a bomb in my chest. I couldn't fucking feel anything. I just stood there and I probably looked like an idiot. All I could manage was another 'I love you so much.' I couldn't believe it this guy fucked my wife.
After a few minutes I came back down to Earth and she told me about the sex. She's not the best storyteller (sadly) but he basically convinced her to come check out his home gym, which basically turned into him taking her home and fucking her brains out on the couch. The sex was 'pretty incredible'. Idk if this is redundant or not but I did NOT get laid that night.
Now I'm torn. She wants to see him again. I'm terrified because she wanted to see him last weekend too but we had family stuff come up. Now I'm freaking out that every time she gets a free night she's going to want to go ride this guy's dick. I basically gave her the greenlight though so I guess we'll see. I am being completely cuckolded and it is the most bittersweet thing I've ever felt. I can't help but feel like I'm falling even deeper in love.
 
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