Not sure about it

[jamiess]

Hello. Me and my girlfriend are together for couple years, our sexdrive is not what it used to be and many years ago I started to have cuckold thoughts. I tohle her about it and about a year ago I let her fuck another guy. He was white and not much bigger than me. I think she loved it bit didn't really admit it. Since then we haven't tried anything but I know She Would love to try a Black Guy. Month ago she was with her friends in the club and talked to two Black guys there, they were interested but she says that nothing happened, told them that she has a bf.
I would love to see her being blacked but I'm not sure. I don't want to lose her. Any ideas?
Thank you for reading

 

[calixto]

Hello. Me and my girlfriend are together for couple years, our sexdrive is not what it used to be and many years ago I started to have cuckold thoughts. I tohle her about it and about a year ago I let her fuck another guy. He was white and not much bigger than me. I think she loved it bit didn't really admit it. Since then we haven't tried anything but I know She Would love to try a Black Guy. Month ago she was with her friends in the club and talked to two Black guys there, they were interested but she says that nothing happened, told them that she has a bf.
I would love to see her being blacked but I'm not sure. I don't want to lose her. Any ideas?
Thank you for reading

If you're not sure is better that you leave all that stuff into the fantasy, not trying to take it to the reality. Some couples that incorporated a third man into their relationships experiences envy and zaelous later, and finally they ended in divorce.

 

[paolacpl]

It's depend strictly by you, your trust in her, your level of communication, and how much you're willing to risk.
Anyway, my personal thought is: just do it! It's so beautiful, you will do good to her, him and you too! And you will never know the feelings if you don't try

 

[jamiess]

If you're not sure is better that you leave all that stuff into the fantasy, not trying to take it to the reality. Some couples that incorporated a third man into their relationships experiences envy and zaelous later, and finally they ended in divorce.

I don't think I would be jealous. I'm worry about her leaving me for better sex. I would like to try it but not make it regular thing. Do you think it's possible?
And thank you very much for your respond!

 

[calixto]

I don't think I would be jealous. I'm worry about her leaving me for better sex. I would like to try it but not make it regular thing. Do you think it's possible?
And thank you very much for your respond!

I understand your point. It's hard for some women make a difference between sex and love. The different obviously exists but when sex is so good, some people misunderstand.

 

[paolacpl]

Hello. Me and my girlfriend are together for couple years, our sexdrive is not what it used to be and many years ago I started to have cuckold thoughts. I tohle her about it and about a year ago I let her fuck another guy. He was white and not much bigger than me. I think she loved it bit didn't really admit it. Since then we haven't tried anything but I know She Would love to try a Black Guy. Month ago she was with her friends in the club and talked to two Black guys there, they were interested but she says that nothing happened, told them that she has a bf.
I would love to see her being blacked but I'm not sure. I don't want to lose her. Any ideas?
Thank you for reading

Ok, you just received two opposing advice. It really depends on you two. But, if you wrote here, it means that you have this thought, and this thought is too strong to be wiped out, and in fact you have already tried once. So my advise is to go ahead. However, of one thing I am sure: it is much better to do it now than when you get older

 

[paolacpl]

I don't think I would be jealous. I'm worry about her leaving me for better sex. I would like to try it but not make it regular thing. Do you think it's possible?
And thank you very much for your respond!

Speak clearly and honestly to her, expose to her your desires and your doubts!

 

[jamiess]

Thank you all for your replies, I appriciate it

 

[Stephnmarc]

Hello. Me and my girlfriend are together for couple years, our sexdrive is not what it used to be and many years ago I started to have cuckold thoughts. I tohle her about it and about a year ago I let her fuck another guy. He was white and not much bigger than me. I think she loved it bit didn't really admit it. Since then we haven't tried anything but I know She Would love to try a Black Guy. Month ago she was with her friends in the club and talked to two Black guys there, they were interested but she says that nothing happened, told them that she has a bf.
I would love to see her being blacked but I'm not sure. I don't want to lose her. Any ideas?
Thank you for reading

Sounds like she is game but you are not sure about it. I recommend letting this thing rest for a while and maybe easing back in to it again when you are a bit clearer on your decision making.

Try making her talk about it by mentioning a good porn film or something. If she disclosed her interest in being fucked by a black guy then you’ll either fell excited or stressed thinking about it. When it comes out of her mouth that she wants a BBC it will make your emotions come alive and you will know your answer.

If you are concerned about her leaving you for a bigger guy then you don’t need to be with her anyways.

 

[let it be]

all good thoughts = you dont want to screw up a good thing but i think we are good with that - question is do we reallY have the balls to do it

 

[Stephnmarc]

Hell we agreed to just take the plunge and do it. If we aren’t satisfied then we will know it’s not for us. Either way I won’t think any different about her so no harm done in my opinion.

 

[let it be]

ok- it sounds like you already made up your mind - i would take my time meet him one on one - then go home and talk to my wife - if we still want to go forward the 3 of us can meet and set the rules - now it is up to your wife if she really would want to do this - now you can go to a motel all 3 of you - never leave your wife alone - hold her close to you and help undress her and see your guest is doing just what she wants - after its over hold and kiss her and tell her you love her - anyway that is how i would do it

 

[Stephnmarc]

ok- it sounds like you already made up your mind - i would take my time meet him one on one - then go home and talk to my wife - if we still want to go forward the 3 of us can meet and set the rules - now it is up to your wife if she really would want to do this - now you can go to a motel all 3 of you - never leave your wife alone - hold her close to you and help undress her and see your guest is doing just what she wants - after its over hold and kiss her and tell her you love her - anyway that is how i would do it

Very nice scenario. Ty for the input.

 

[ht805cpl]

Perhaps you should try some swing clubs and test the waters or perhaps a private swing party. You do not have to start with black men you could start with another couple or maybe a black couple if that’s the fantasy but see if you can both get past the jealousy or insecurities of seeing each other having sex with others. If you find you both are on board or enjoy it it is easy to move onto other things. Perhaps she is with a guy she enjoys the sex with you can invite him to a three some or if you just want to watch that can happen at a club party or with an invited guest. My advice is to move forward slowly make sure your fantasy is what you really want. The good things about clubs or parties you can just watch or play and no always means no and you can always ask others about their experiences in person with real people. Good luck and hope you find what you are both looking for.