Is this the 2TallWishList party in Ohio?
Wherever it is, always keep in mind you want everything to be Safe, Sane, and Consensual.
If you need to take time to regroup and settle down, take it. There's no need to be constantly "on the hunt."
You'll enjoy yourself so much more if you relax into it and allow things to happen organically.
As for performing, put that out of your mind. You are there for YOUR pleasure, and regardless of how you think you'll look, a girl who is joyous and really having a good time -is- ultra sexy.