My husband and I are new to this, we're wanting to get verified this weekend. I (wife) am nervous about this, so I'm testing the waters. I've never been with a black guy, so I'm not sure what to expect. I have some tattoos and piercings, and shy at first, but I'm willing to see how this goes. I would like for my husband to watch and I'd like to take things slow. Is this a possibility?