Nervous for this weekend

destinybebe33 said:
This weekend, hubby and I are going to do a weekend event where this swinger group rents the entire hotel two floors . We have a room booked. From what I hear , hot Black guys attend this event so I’m sure we will connect with someone and do a few sessions . All hubby wants to do is record as much footage as possible so he can enjoy it later . I’m just so nervous . Nervous I won’t be able to perform good enough for his video , nervous I won’t enjoy it , nervous of everything pretty much . Lol . Any advice on how to unwind and let loose ?? Any advice at all ???
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Why are you nervous? Your media certainly shows you know how to handle the situation?
 
destinybebe33 said:
This weekend, hubby and I are going to do a weekend event where this swinger group rents the entire hotel two floors . We have a room booked. From what I hear , hot Black guys attend this event so I’m sure we will connect with someone and do a few sessions . All hubby wants to do is record as much footage as possible so he can enjoy it later . I’m just so nervous . Nervous I won’t be able to perform good enough for his video , nervous I won’t enjoy it , nervous of everything pretty much . Lol . Any advice on how to unwind and let loose ?? Any advice at all ???
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Yeah, tell your husband to put down the camera and be with you so you can enjoy things. Since you are a "rookie" worrying a camera is just a lot to ask. Is he there to shoot porn or have a swinger gig with his wife. I hope it's the latter
 
NaughtyisFun said:
If you're a complete rookie, as in you haven't been shared at all yet, going to a hotel party is a big step. There's nothing wrong with that being your first experience, but sometimes the reality is considerably different from the idea of doing it, so take your time. I've seen husbands that were absolutely sure it's what they wanted until it actually starts happening, and they have a change of heart, and I've seen the same thing with wives. My advice would be to communicate with your husband every step of the way, making sure that you are both committed to the experience throughout. While for many people swinging and sharing can be an incredible experience that brings them closer in their relationship, for others it can ruin a good marriage because of unexpected jealousy and regret. Communication is vital, and even though it is difficult to work up the courage to swing the first time, either one of you should be able to stop if that person is becoming uncomfortable with the situation. You can always try again later if it's in the cards

With all of that being said, just try to relax, have a couple adult beverages, and have fun.
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Yes so true , we have had many conversations and ******* out discussions of what might happen and what we both expect and won’t expect . It’s been a three year build up with interracial role playing and interracial dirty talk during sex . We both feel it’s time to actually cross that line so what better place right ? The entire environment is sharing and mingling with others who are in the lifestyle. I think it’s the most comfortable environment for someone to do it for the first time . Also we have a private room in this hotel event to step away from everything at anytime . If needed
 
erika9009 said:
Yeah, tell your husband to put down the camera and be with you so you can enjoy things. Since you are a "rookie" worrying a camera is just a lot to ask. Is he there to shoot porn or have a swinger gig with his wife. I hope it's the latter
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The camera is just so he can witness the session afterwards . He won’t be holding it during , just set it down and he’s gonna leave the room , so I can be natural and not get distracted by him in the room
 
destinybebe33 said:
The camera is just so he can witness the session afterwards . He won’t be holding it during , just set it down and he’s gonna leave the room , so I can be natural and not get distracted by him in the room
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Sorry, I totally understand now. I thought he was going to right there moving around with the camera. There's been some video of me over the yrs. It is a rare event. I set up my phone for my husband to watch on FaceTime. I set the phone on one of those squiggly tripods mostly behind a lamp. It worked ok. We did it once in a while after that. I've always been self-conscious about how I look when I cum. My face gets red, my nips get super puffy.

So, I hope you have a wonderful weekend.
 
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destinybebe33 said:
This weekend, hubby and I are going to do a weekend event where this swinger group rents the entire hotel two floors . We have a room booked. From what I hear , hot Black guys attend this event so I’m sure we will connect with someone and do a few sessions . All hubby wants to do is record as much footage as possible so he can enjoy it later . I’m just so nervous . Nervous I won’t be able to perform good enough for his video , nervous I won’t enjoy it , nervous of everything pretty much . Lol . Any advice on how to unwind and let loose ?? Any advice at all ???
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Trust me if it turns you on. Like it turns hubby on. Then when your fucking girl all that nervous does is fly out the window. If naughty already and fucking in front of your man. Hot hot hot.
 
Thanks for all the comments y’all ! Well I’m not a BBC virgin anymore . We found an experienced huge Black guy . He was ripped up like a damm bodybuilder . I can’t believe my little ass brought him to his knees . Hubby loved recording it and now we are officially a real hotwife couple . Don’t know what will happen now but I can see that hubby has a new love for me like never before . He cherishes me more now he says and is showing it so that’s great ! Also I felt pleasure physically and am honestly thinking of another possible experience with someone else . That guy at the event was too damm rough . Lol
 
destinybebe33 said:
Thanks for all the comments y’all ! Well I’m not a BBC virgin anymore . We found an experienced huge Black guy . He was ripped up like a damm bodybuilder . I can’t believe my little ass brought him to his knees . Hubby loved recording it and now we are officially a real hotwife couple . Don’t know what will happen now but I can see that hubby has a new love for me like never before . He cherishes me more now he says and is showing it so that’s great ! Also I felt pleasure physically and am honestly thinking of another possible experience with someone else . That guy at the event was too damm rough . Lol
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That's awesome that you had a great time, cheers! :qos:
 
destinybebe33 said:
Thanks for all the comments y’all ! Well I’m not a BBC virgin anymore . We found an experienced huge Black guy . He was ripped up like a damm bodybuilder . I can’t believe my little ass brought him to his knees . Hubby loved recording it and now we are officially a real hotwife couple . Don’t know what will happen now but I can see that hubby has a new love for me like never before . He cherishes me more now he says and is showing it so that’s great ! Also I felt pleasure physically and am honestly thinking of another possible experience with someone else . That guy at the event was too damm rough . Lol
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Always be in control. Respect your man and enjoy the fuck out of these beautiful bbcs
 
Naughtygators said:
Don’t worry about your husband and your performance. As a stag husband, just seeing my wife being pleasured is all I really want. Our bull brought her back to a dark room. This meant recording wasn’t going to happen, but I wasn’t going to ruin his atmosphere. Instead, I just took in the show without recording. I may make suggestions to her about my favorite positions, but it’s really just about the moment. All he wants is to see your pleasure. Don’t worry about him at all. Biggest issue would be to ask about any limitations for that type of party. If you ended up in a room w more than one guy would that be ok? Where you are ok w them finishing, protection and those details. Does he want to join in or just watch? And most importantly, discuss that nothing may happen if you dont find the right guy. If you do play, talk about what you both liked and what can be better for next time.
Have fun. Wish we were there too.
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Amazing advice.
 
destinybebe33 said:
Thanks for all the comments y’all ! Well I’m not a BBC virgin anymore . We found an experienced huge Black guy . He was ripped up like a damm bodybuilder . I can’t believe my little ass brought him to his knees . Hubby loved recording it and now we are officially a real hotwife couple . Don’t know what will happen now but I can see that hubby has a new love for me like never before . He cherishes me more now he says and is showing it so that’s great ! Also I felt pleasure physically and am honestly thinking of another possible experience with someone else . That guy at the event was too damm rough . Lol
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You have videos?
 
destinybebe33 said:
Thanks for all the comments y’all ! Well I’m not a BBC virgin anymore . We found an experienced huge Black guy . He was ripped up like a damm bodybuilder . I can’t believe my little ass brought him to his knees . Hubby loved recording it and now we are officially a real hotwife couple . Don’t know what will happen now but I can see that hubby has a new love for me like never before . He cherishes me more now he says and is showing it so that’s great ! Also I felt pleasure physically and am honestly thinking of another possible experience with someone else . That guy at the event was too damm rough . Lol
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Congrats to both of yoou
 
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