I haven’t “pulled the trigger” yet either...I can relate to one of her fears...I find it a bit intimidating to see what I’m “up against”. As women, we are always going to be our worst critic. I often find that I’m comparing myself to the women in pics/vids of the guy that I’m chatting with, wondering “umm, I’m not petite like the other girls in his vids, so why is he interested in me?” Yes, I know that’s probably dumb and I don’t need to do that, but that’s easier said than done, and it’s a natural thing for women to do, unless they don’t have any self-confidence issues
![Woman shrugging: light skin tone :woman_shrugging_tone1: 🤷🏻♀️](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/7.0/png/unicode/64/1f937-1f3fb-2640.png)
With that said- she probably is also worried about becoming addicted. I would be lying if I said I didn’t think that will happen too!