I've been hosting parties for 4 years now and 1 thing that I quickly noticed is how well I bond with the husbands of the wives who attend the parties. Be they hotwife or cuckold couples the result is the same. One thing I've said from my very first party is that the majority of the black men who attend my parties, if they had a woman in their lives who was in the lifestyle, they wouldn't bring her to my parties. Now I'm not talking about a slut that they use or a fwb....I'm talking about a woman who they love and cherish. A woman with whom you hold in your arms each night when you go to bed. A woman who you would give your life for. What I've learned in my time in the lifestyle is that there is a very small percentage of black men who are truly built to share this type of woman. Don't get me wrong, they will play with another couple, that's easy for them. Kinda like a "I'll let you play with mine if I can play with yours" type of thing. But a party where it's a lot of guys fucking a few women..or her having a gangbang..nope, they're not with that. And that is where I notice the difference with me. You see, I own a slave, a white female. She is a stunning, gorgeous woman, 6 feet tall in her bare feet...wears 5 inch heels, beautiful fit body. The type of woman that commands attention each time she enters a room. She is not my wife, nor my gf, nor my lover...she is my slave..owned and collared and living with me for the past 6 years. However, regardless of our dynamic, I could not love this woman anymore if were my wife. My commitment and bond to her run that deep. I take my role as her Daddy and Owner quite serious. Basically what I am saying is that I love my slave with all I have. And yet, nothing turns me on more than sharing her. I have had her gangbanged numerous times, the last time being last night. I can go to a party and not play at all myself and just enjoy seeing her getting used all night. I just love the feeling of beating up her sore pussy at the end of the night. Making her moan and squirm even more but knowing that she will endure it all for me because she belongs to me. This is where my bond with the husbands comes in. You see, I'm like many of you....I get it. We all have that thing in our brain that makes us enjoy this type of activity. Which is why I will tell any Bull who will listen....Don't EVER assume that just because a man likes seeing his woman fucking other men that he is a cuckold. You make that assumption and treat one of these men like a cuck and your night can quickly go downhill....trust me. I am the furthest thing from a cuck but yet that is something that we definitely have in common, although we approach it from different perspectives. Just a little something from a Bull's perspective. Feel free to comment or ask any questions you'd like.