Moving from fantasy to reality

Hi everyone,

me and my gf are newbies to this. We added a bbc dildo to our role play about 12 months ago and it seems to have took our sex life to a new level. We’ve constantly spoke about how we’d like the fantasy to play out and I’ve never seen her orgasm so much.

Any advice for moving from role play to reality?
 
Hi,

If you decide to go for it then my advice would be to ensure you have lots of communication between you both. Set some rules or boundaries, agree what you'd both like to happen on a first date or night with a guy. We usually opt for a social first - meet in a busy pub and see how the chemistry is.

Be open and honest about what you'd like to happen - try to look at it more practically rather than just as a fantasy or a porno setup.. My wife and I talked a lot before the first meet about how we wanted it to go and talked a lot afterwards too. As a male cuck there's the intoxicating mix of pride, erotism and jealousy of seeing your gf/ partner with someone else and you have to keep your feelings balanced. Especially when you're new to the reality of seeing your girl orgasm with others. For me it took a couple of meets to fully relax and let go and enjoy the moment. You may be completely different though.

Be open, honest and keep talking with your gf and you'll have some incredible experiences
 
Some great advice there! I think we’d both be nervous before due to it being our first time and it would take me a few meets before I felt fully comfortable. Communication is essential though, we are very open with each other.
how did you go about arranging your first meet etc?
 
To be honest we use the internet and forums to arrange socials and meets. That's where the majority of our meets come from.

Obviously the nerves are high but with it being a social you can watch them flirt without it going to far and then go home and talk about whether you want to take it further with that guy ..
 
It’s a good point I’ll keep it in mind moving forward!
it’s definitely something we’re gonna pursue this year, it’s just about find the right person for the first time
 
To be honest we use the internet and forums to arrange socials and meets. That's where the majority of our meets come from.

Obviously the nerves are high but with it being a social you can watch them flirt without it going to far and then go home and talk about whether you want to take it further with that guy ..
What do you yourself say if you aren't interested? Do you say anything before the social meet to reduce expectations for later? Thanks!
 
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