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[the breeze 81]

As the thread implies I’m here to introduce myself. I’m happily married to an inactive hotwife and can’t ask for much more than I have. With that being said…

At about 18 years old I started watching interracial porn and grew a love for it which has lasted close to 25 years. At about 25 I met what eventually became my wife. Shortly after moving in with me she looked at my laptop history while I was out of town. She confronted me when I got back and I was open and honest with the enjoyment I got from it. She was more than a bit surprised. Whether the subject matter or my honesty, she seemed to appreciate it.

After asking me why I was so into it she told me she had a black casual sex partner who played pro football. It had been a couple years since she had been with him but I’ll never forget her telling me how she was very inexperienced and that he barely fit inside her. Just as intriguing was a story involving the same guy where her friend and her had wed with him and another player. Immediately the topic became our go to for sex talk.

Not long after I introduced her to my old roommate and neighbor who was a stud black athlete while we were in college. He became the first of many black men I watched fuck and please my wife. After our engagement we “got serious” about monogamy. A couple months before our wedding date we ended up hooking up with a guy she’d known for years. It was my first experience being involved and having direct contact with a man. He and another friend of his fucked my wife on and off all the way up to the night before our wedding.

We committed to monogamy and have kept it that way for the last 14 years. Interracial sex is still our focus but is limited to role playing and toys and such. The reality is we have a full house and getting back into the game at this point, if it were an option, isn’t an option. We’ve talked about getting back into it when we are empty nesters but we’ve got another 10 years or so to go.

I guess to summarize I’m here to read stories and posts and such as I miss the lifestyle and miss watching my wife with a black man. I consider myself lucky to have what we have of it left but more would be better. Nice to meet everyone.

 

[Rubyredslipper]

As the thread implies I’m here to introduce myself. I’m happily married to an inactive hotwife and can’t ask for much more than I have. With that being said…

At about 18 years old I started watching interracial porn and grew a love for it which has lasted close to 25 years. At about 25 I met what eventually became my wife. Shortly after moving in with me she looked at my laptop history while I was out of town. She confronted me when I got back and I was open and honest with the enjoyment I got from it. She was more than a bit surprised. Whether the subject matter or my honesty, she seemed to appreciate it.

After asking me why I was so into it she told me she had a black casual sex partner who played pro football. It had been a couple years since she had been with him but I’ll never forget her telling me how she was very inexperienced and that he barely fit inside her. Just as intriguing was a story involving the same guy where her friend and her had wed with him and another player. Immediately the topic became our go to for sex talk.

Not long after I introduced her to my old roommate and neighbor who was a stud black athlete while we were in college. He became the first of many black men I watched fuck and please my wife. After our engagement we “got serious” about monogamy. A couple months before our wedding date we ended up hooking up with a guy she’d known for years. It was my first experience being involved and having direct contact with a man. He and another friend of his fucked my wife on and off all the way up to the night before our wedding.

We committed to monogamy and have kept it that way for the last 14 years. Interracial sex is still our focus but is limited to role playing and toys and such. The reality is we have a full house and getting back into the game at this point, if it were an option, isn’t an option. We’ve talked about getting back into it when we are empty nesters but we’ve got another 10 years or so to go.

I guess to summarize I’m here to read stories and posts and such as I miss the lifestyle and miss watching my wife with a black man. I consider myself lucky to have what we have of it left but more would be better. Nice to meet everyone.

Reminiscing on past experiences is a great way to keep the desire and hunger for it alive, not that it appears either of you need much encouragement in that direction.

We made certain concessions to get into and maintain the lifestyle. It meant that for much of it I was an outside observer. So long as the trust and communication is there, having a young family does not have to be a roadblock. Just ensure that both of you are having your needs met.

Just my two cents. I’m sure this is something that has more than likely be discussed. As for my wife and I, I am hopefully that I’ll be able to get her back into the lifestyle at some point.

 

[the breeze 81]

Reminiscing on past experiences is a great way to keep the desire and hunger for it alive, not that it appears either of you need much encouragement in that direction.

We made certain concessions to get into and maintain the lifestyle. It meant that for much of it I was an outside observer. So long as the trust and communication is there, having a young family does not have to be a roadblock. Just ensure that both of you are having your needs met.

Just my two cents. I’m sure this is something that has more than likely be discussed. As for my wife and I, I am hopefully that I’ll be able to get her back into the lifestyle at some point.

Your sincere input is appreciated and yes it’s been discussed quite a bit.

My wife had an interesting and less than desirable upbringing with her parents. Her dad was married twice but her mom has been married 4 times. There’s some roots of desired monogamy firmly planted.

At the same time we get extremely deep into getting back into it. If the time is right than great. If not it’s the status quo which ultimately is ok as well.