To this day, the biggest mistake I’ve made is being with someone who just isn’t into it. Unfortunately I find myself in a relationship where my better half literally has no interest in ever doing it and it’s unlikely she ever will.
I told her about it all, openly and honestly, tried to explain that this was because I wanted better for her and only her pleasure was important and that I have no interest in other women and nothing happened. Out of frustration of the lack of progress I increased the frequency of talking about it which only led to her being snappy and annoyed with me. I bought myself a cage, as it was a long time fantasy of mine to try anyway, but didn’t seem to envoke any feelings of wanting a big black cock in her, and of course, being locked didn’t help with my desire to see her with someone else and again, I started to annoy her as I was horny all the time and she just wasn’t.
I then bought a large black dildo as apparently that was a surefire way to get a girl more interested in bbc, I’ve probably used it on her 2-3 times in the year I’ve had it and she’s still no closer to actually doing it.
I’m now at the stage where I’m suppressing the whole fantasy because it feels pointless, I can’t talk to her about it any more because she’ll just get annoyed, and even if I could talk to her about it there wouldn’t be any point because it’s not something she’s into.
My advice would be trying to find someone who’s either in to it already or is open to trying it at least, for me, nothing else turns me on more than watching a bbc fuck a white girl, it’s not like I can just find something else that sort of turns me on and hope she’s in to it as well, i think once you’ve got the mindset of being a cuckold, nothing else quite cuts it.
