Had she stated her location info
there?
Were those groups/communications moderated and/or did they rely on some sort of verification?
Did she verify the guy(s) in person in a reliable manner? (video live chat, etc.)
A suitable communication breakdown would be:
1. Where are you located (greater area / vicinity)?
2. What are your DOs and DONTs?
3. Show face =
verify! (
Not "send a pic."
)
4. What are the next three possibilities with a free schedule for two hours (at least).
5. Agree on a first meeting at a "neutral" public place for face-time (no sex).
Break communication at each point (in a polite way) immediately, if applicant is
not according to your expectations, and expect that he may do the same.
Also, try your luck on different platforms. (So fill in your profile details on
B2w too.
) Good luck!