Looking for professional advice. Is it better to keep cheating? or to open up fully to my boyfriend about the kink?

For professional advice… You should seek a professional counselor for yourself who is open to conversations about non-monogamy.

Cheating involves deception and lying. When discovered it is the deception and the dishonesty that will ruin the relationship… Not the sex.

Best wishes. Mr.
 
Here's a couple of quick question for you. Do you love and care about your boyfriend?

Do you want a future relationship with him?
 
i'd say be up front, if he isn't down for it let him walk, the more lies and hook ups behind his back will only make it worse and probably cause him to react negatively. In my case wife cheated on me for 6 mos, but we'd been swingers so it was less of a big deal, now i've been her faithful, fully on board cuck for over 15 yrs, but all guys are different. As they say in commercials, "Your results may differ..."
 
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