Sorry, I guess that would help lol.
So within the last few months Iv been really pressing her on the subject and she was supportive but always hesitant and then with the last few weeks the play talk shifted toward more serious talk. So she got a tinder and we started scouting for men, it was pretty fun to do together, lots of idiots out there on that app lol. She came accross one man she really liked. Older black male (im 38 she's 27), real dangerous looking guy, big bulky tattoos all over the place. She was immediately into him because of the taboo of his lifestyle. So he said he knew about the lifestyle and could help us. Fast forward to a couple days ago, I was pressing her more about getting it done and she said ok but I thought it was more in a playful joking kind of way. Well she decided it was something she could give me as an early xmas present and that's what happened last night.