Leave your Husband at home

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by NYC BBC, Dec 13, 2015.

  1. NYC BBC

    NYC BBC Member Real Person

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    I'm sorry but there are far too many small dick white boys on this site trying to fulfill their own fantasy over their wife's needs. This isn't about you cuck. This is about your failure to satisfy your wife. You're lucky to even have a hot wife and now you want to tell me that I have to let you watch and perhaps join in? Fuck that.

    Your husband has failed you. That's why you are here. He's not enough for you so some interracial porn has got your mind curious about a well endowed more aggressive man.

    My advice from experience? Leave your man at home and go on your date. This is about the woman's satisfaction. It should be dictated by her terms not your husband. Letting your husband watch dilutes the experience. It is far more humiliating to allow your man to help you get dressed to spend the weekend with me. Treat yourself. You've earned it. You work hard, work out, take care of the family and for what? So you can have silent sex with a small penis ?
     
  2. laphanatic

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    Small penis? Dude, you're wrecking the myth that all black men are hung. Have you ever been married, 10,20, 30 years? Things can get stale after a long relationship so you bring other ideas to the table to switch it up. This is one small portion of our sex life, we also play with single females and couples. 99% of the time it's just us . IMO, It takes extreme confidence to allow another man into your relationship and most men want to believe they are the only ones capable of giving their wife an orgasm. Very few husbands can't satisfy their wife, nobody knows my wife's body better then myself and I have yet to see another man bring her to the orgasms I give her.

    Do yourself a favor, listen to what the couple wants and don't try to tell them what they need. Haha single men telling married couples how things should be.
     
  3. mmbbc

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    We agree 100%. The the tone of disrespect towards the husband is a definite turn off. And he wants to kiss our wives with that mouth?
     
  4. NYC BBC

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    Most black guys in this site have a bigger dick than most white guys on this site. I never questioned that fact. You did. I don't act like anything. I KNOW I HAVE A BIGGER COCK THAN YOU.

    This isn't a bigger cock contest for you would lose in a landslide. This is about leaving your husband at home while your wife goes on dates. I know marriages get stale dude. The wives I fuck tell me all the time how they are tired of the boring sex over and over and over.
     
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  5. NYC BBC

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    It's not disrespect. It's a fantasy that I've already done in NYC several times. If you don't like the fantasy then move forward with someone else. This post is for those women who at least are open to the idea of going on one on one.

    You think it ok for a husband to login this site and simply just say what he wants and not what the wife wants!?? I find that disrespectful. Not to mention many husbands want to suck your bbc too. So now I have to turn bi to suit your husbands stupid fantasy?

    Nah id rather treat you with respect on my own.
     
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  6. mmbbc

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    I agree with you on the point of the husbands interjection of the their own fantasy or desires on behalf of their wives being wrong. We are not into the cuckold, sissy white boi lifestyle. To each his own. When did this become a dick measuring contest?
     
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  7. NYC BBC

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    It became a dick measuring contest when that white husband took it personally. He was the first one to try to act as if I was insulting his small size. The fantasy is more that just dick size. It's about contrast and something new. It's about expressing yourself discretly

    I agree with you. To each his own. I'm fine with your husband not being a sissy or having a small dick.

    But I'm not ok with husbands coming in here (which SEVERAL DO) and simply stating their fantasy or their needs. Some do it even without the wife knowing because they are too scared to ask her.

    In the end the wife is the one that will be the most intimate with a stranger. So shouldn't she get her input too? In my perfect world, only the wives and black men would be on this site. Husband would be consulted offline.. I'm not fucking your husband. I'm fucking the wife. I don't care what he wants. I care about satisfying you to bliss. In the way YOU want.
     
  8. mmbbc

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    The flakes and weirdos are a big pain on this site. The wife should have the ultimate input on what goes on in this type of lifestyle. That being said, we as a couple discuss and agree on what or who happens next. Happy wife happy life as they say. Who said hubby had a small dick? Got into this lifestyle as a way of spicing things up, not because of being unsatisfied.
     
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  9. Alanm

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    I would be happy to stay home. I unfortunately have not been able to convince my wife of the pleasures of bbc, even though she does find certain black guys attractive.
     
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  10. laphanatic

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    Small dick white boys, failure to satisfy your wife and you'll decide how I'll share my wife are just a few of your comments from the OP but they should NOT offend anyone. In the cuckolf forum these quotes would probably get more than a few men excited but this is the interracial forum. The only thing I'm trying to show you is not all couples play the same, we both love the color contrast of interracial sex but neither of us have any interest into humiliation or any other cuckolf BS. My wife has little interest in meeting somebody without me present. I'm the person who initiates things when we're with other men, I understand my wife and know when and how she wants it. I'll assume you've never been married since you didn't answer my question. It's hard work keeping your sex life hot when you're dealing with all the other day to day crap but if you can manage to have a great sex life 10, 20, or 30 years into a marriage then you're obviously doing something right and a man who hasn't done the above should STFU. It's fairly easy to make sex hot when you've only been together with someone for 6-12 months. You should realize how fortunate you are to be included in a married couples relationship and follow the rules closely.

    Penis size? I have a 6" penis so I'm afraid I won't be able to brag about it but I'm a white boi. What's your excuse???
     
  11. LebanonBBCLover

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    Both of you have some points that are right and both of you misunderstand each other. Some white wives love to fuck black guys on their own, they want to choose the guys they fuck not their husbands choose for them, they want to enjoy fucking their black bulls alone and no husband watching and on the other hand there are those dominant white husbands who insist in being there all the time just to watch their wives being fucked by black bulls or even those who like to join.Some bulls are not relaxed with that either and I know many black guys want to fuck me alone where no one is watching me and i told my hubby about it and he agreed to it so when the black bull comes to our home my husband leaves us alone or sometimes he will drive me to my bulls house and come just when I am finished. But of course there are times that he likes to be there to watch and take pics and videos and I can't deny him that cause he was the one who introduced me to interracial sex with black men. So it all depends on how the wife communicate with her husband, it is not something forced by one on the other and it is a mutual understanding.My husband usually insist to be there if the black guy is new to us and if it is my first time fucking with him just to make sure that I am OK and safe as there are so many weird guys around too blacks and whites and you don't know what will happen if you are left alone with such guys so husbands sometimes care about the safety of their wives too and that's why they insist to be there to watch.
     
  12. NYC BBC

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    I could easily convince your wife especially if she already finds us curious. I have helped husbands treat their wives to their first bbc experience. I'll send you a PM.
     
  13. NYC BBC

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    I agree. You make several good points. Makes me want to make a blog out of this thread. How long have you been in the lifestyle?
     
  14. NYC BBC

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    I have an 8 1/2 inch thick penis. No excuse needed. Also please stop making this a dick contest. You'll lose.

    This thread is about your wife. Not you. It's not insulting you and I agree the cuck forum is where I'll go post this in the future. The main fantasy on this site is cuckold / bbc aggressive fantasy. I've already been sent messages asking to meetup because of this thread so I'll continue to express my view that the Wife should be more in charge in the fantasy if she is the one being intimate and photographed.

    I understand your marriage sex life got stale and that's why you are here. That happens and I know many married couples that have the same problem. However let's be real, you may not be a cuck but all the black guys who fucked your wife were bigger than you, more aggressive and your wife enjoyed it in a different way. That's just a fact. Otherwise you wouldn't be here.
     
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  15. JenCucksDave

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    The OP has a good point. How much fun is the wife going to have with the husband there every time, up her ass, directing traffic with a camera? I used to do that to my wife years ago and we just changed over time with experience. She loves to have play time with AND without me there and we do both. She doesn't want it only one way.

    We're pretty active in the lifestyle and I'd have to say Jen plays with me there about 1/3rd of the time. The other 2/3rds I'm at home or at work. Those times she typically has more fun because the guy is more comfortable, less nervous, performs better, and they just have more fun. Plus, being cucked isn't all about what you see visually. It's about your wife cheating on you and putting a big ol' set of horns on your head.
     
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  16. Debblacked

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    Unfortunately you're coming across like a HUGE dick too.
     
  17. laphanatic

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    You already clearly stated how you feel about your husband so we have a much different view on this lifestyle, and our relationship, than you and your husband. https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...ur-husband-for-a-bbc.54585/page-2#post-899857 . This has NOTHING to do with a dominant husband NOT willing to allow a wife to play be herself. Once I know a man is somewhat sane, and my wife feels safe with him, I'm fine with her going out by herself and she has several times. The problem is she doesn't care for playing by herself and she enjoys when two men are working her over together. I'm not misunderstanding anything he's typing. His thoughts are very much a part of the cuckold scene and I would have never questioned his thoughts on the cuckold forum.
     
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  18. laphanatic

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    I already lost the contest. I stated I have 6" and you claimed you have 8.5" Contest over!!! I would only suggest posting a pic of your cock instead of the small one on your profile..

    NO, you're wrong again on almost your entire second paragraph. My has been with six black men in her life, two were smaller than me, two were horrible(jackhammers), had no clue how to please a woman in her opinion and she never met up with them again and all men are different. Her favorite black man she was ever with was also her smallest, he knew how to work her body perfectly and read all her signs, too many orgasms to count. He was never aggressive with her, same goes for most of the other guys. Get over this lame thought that all black men are great lovers with huge cocks, they are no different than the white or Hispanic men she's been with. Some are great, others lousy and most fit in between. Our sex life is NOT stale because we always try different things, not just interracial sex which is a very small portion of our life. I will say the black men we've met in the lifestyle have been much better than the white single guys. The black guys have always been respectful when approaching us and always comfortable in any scenario. White guys wait for you to walk away from your wife before approaching and then run off once the husband reappears.

    It's been fun but I'm done. I'll continue the conversation with you in private if you would like to add anything.
     
  19. NYC BBC

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    Thank you cuck. You're a good man. You understand that part of your satisfaction is seeing your wife satisfied. You clearly understand that your wife is engaged with her body with another man. Therefore she should be at least apart of 60 percent of the decisions when it comes to her being involved with being video taped or photographed or made love to in general.

    I mean how does a husband normally participate in this fantasy? His options are to watch, help fuck his wife , or allow her to go on a date. In all 3 options the wife is having sex every time. 2/3 the husband is sitting on his ass.
     
  20. NYC BBC

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    Unfortunately I don't care what you think. This is a forum to express my ideas. You can agree or disagree or debate. It's kinda funny that the couple accounts where the men login more are the ones saying I'm a dick but the females and true cucks are agreeing with me. Ironic?

    How about this? Let your wife tell You what she wants and you only do what she wants for a few times. Not saying all but at least a few times. She's already satisfying your fantasies so why are you afraid to allow her a one on one? Sounds pretty selfish? You can demand she fucks some guy while you watch but she can't go on her own date to express herself in a different way?