Leave your Husband at home

My wife would lose interest in playing in the lifestyle if I constantly put roadblocks on how she gets to enjoy it. And when she goes out without me? Odds are I'm going to get a text of a pic of her with a big cock in her moth or her pretty face plastered with cum anyway. A little souvenir. And that's ALWAYS enough to shut me up and make me happy. The guys are always more than happy to do that so they can get me out of the way and have a fun night. Everyone wins.
 
My wife would lose interest in playing in the lifestyle if I constantly put roadblocks on how she gets to enjoy it. And when she goes out without me? Odds are I'm going to get a text of a pic of her with a big cock in her moth or her pretty face plastered with cum anyway. A little souvenir. And that's ALWAYS enough to shut me up and make me happy. The guys are always more than happy to do that so they can get me out of the way and have a fun night. Everyone wins.
My point Exactly. There are MANY ways a husband can enjoy when his wife goes on a one on one and vice versa. Your last post put it best. Your wife is already nervous to be doing this so the last thing should be barriers. Now I know not all wives are up for one one one. That's fine. But I do know of several wives that would like to do a one on one but their husband blocks them. This even when he "doesn't have time" for sex. So she is to sit there and just not had sex until you "feel like it".

All I'm simply saying is at least a husband would entertain the idea of spoiling his HOT wife to a one on one date with a trusted BBC. I don't think that's asking much at all. She is Not only fucking a guy in front of it and letting you post photos on this site but she also is a hot wife who tajes care of the family. The least you can do is let her have a good ladies night out without your input. Let her decide.
 
My point Exactly. There are MANY ways a husband can enjoy when his wife goes on a one on one and vice versa. Your last post put it best. Your wife is already nervous to be doing this so the last thing should be barriers. Now I know not all wives are up for one one one. That's fine. But I do know of several wives that would like to do a one on one but their husband blocks them. This even when he "doesn't have time" for sex. So she is to sit there and just not had sex until you "feel like it".

All I'm simply saying is at least a husband would entertain the idea of spoiling his HOT wife to a one on one date with a trusted BBC. I don't think that's asking much at all. She is Not only fucking a guy in front of it and letting you post photos on this site but she also is a hot wife who tajes care of the family. The least you can do is let her have a good ladies night out without your input. Let her decide.

Why aren't you in NH?!?
 
For us, cuckolding is the husband NOT being in control of what his wife does. When the husband calls all the shots, picks the guy, makes the plans, demands all the attention in the room, tells them how to pose or what positions to fuck in for the right shots...how is he getting cucked?

Jen had enough of my ******* years ago. And I noticed how much more she was into it when she got to do her own thing. To me there's no point doing it if it's to make ME happy. I want her to crave it whether I have anything to do with putting it together or not. And I find the psychological side of cuckolding is much hotter when I don't call the shots. We now play "cheating games" where she tricks me or keeps it a secret from me until she is done and I can't do anything to stop it. Many times I'm at work and get a surprise text pic on my phone of Jen with a big cock in her mouth with a witty caption under it like "guess who got cucked at work today? You did asshole!" I LOVE that kind of thing! It's all psychological, and it always allows her to do her thing without me there.

Say what you want about the OP, but he knows what he is talking about.
 
I'm sorry but there are far too many small dick white boys on this site trying to fulfill their own fantasy over their wife's needs. This isn't about you cuck. This is about your failure to satisfy your wife. You're lucky to even have a hot wife and now you want to tell me that I have to let you watch and perhaps join in? Fuck that.

Your husband has failed you. That's why you are here. He's not enough for you so some interracial porn has got your mind curious about a well endowed more aggressive man.

My advice from experience? Leave your man at home and go on your date. This is about the woman's satisfaction. It should be dictated by her terms not your husband. Letting your husband watch dilutes the experience. It is far more humiliating to allow your man to help you get dressed to spend the weekend with me. Treat yourself. You've earned it. You work hard, work out, take care of the family and for what? So you can have silent sex with a small penis ?
well said sir
 
For us, cuckolding is the husband NOT being in control of what his wife does. When the husband calls all the shots, picks the guy, makes the plans, demands all the attention in the room, tells them how to pose or what positions to fuck in for the right shots...how is he getting cucked?

Jen had enough of my ******* years ago. And I noticed how much more she was into it when she got to do her own thing. To me there's no point doing it if it's to make ME happy. I want her to crave it whether I have anything to do with putting it together or not. And I find the psychological side of cuckolding is much hotter when I don't call the shots. We now play "cheating games" where she tricks me or keeps it a secret from me until she is done and I can't do anything to stop it. Many times I'm at work and get a surprise text pic on my phone of Jen with a big cock in her mouth with a witty caption under it like "guess who got cucked at work today? You did asshole!" I LOVE that kind of thing! It's all psychological, and it always allows her to do her thing without me there.

Say what you want about the OP, but he knows what he is talking about.
More men on this site should follow your example. Does she come to NYC for work or play?
 
I'm sorry but there are far too many small dick white boys on this site trying to fulfill their own fantasy over their wife's needs. This isn't about you cuck. This is about your failure to satisfy your wife. You're lucky to even have a hot wife and now you want to tell me that I have to let you watch and perhaps join in? Fuck that.

Your husband has failed you. That's why you are here. He's not enough for you so some interracial porn has got your mind curious about a well endowed more aggressive man.

My advice from experience? Leave your man at home and go on your date. This is about the woman's satisfaction. It should be dictated by her terms not your husband. Letting your husband watch dilutes the experience. It is far more humiliating to allow your man to help you get dressed to spend the weekend with me. Treat yourself. You've earned it. You work hard, work out, take care of the family and for what? So you can have silent sex with a small penis ?

This thread has me LMFAO becuz it shows the glaring misconception of this lifestyle :bounce:! I can say a lot to all the above, but I'll stick to the OP.

I'm sorry but there are far too many small dick white boys on this site trying to fulfill their own fantasy over their wife's needs. - This is true, sometimes. White bois can def be a nuisance. Nothing annoys me more than the abundance of emails I get from wanna-be cucks. Most times their woman isn't even aware of their fantasy. And I agree - how in God's name do these wimps manage to bag these HOT white women in the first place???? Smh... :unsure:

Your husband has failed you. That's why you are here.
- LOL okay thats just not true at all. Most couples in the lifestyle are not involved because of 'failure', but rather 'enhancement'. There IS a small segment of the LS where hubby is completely incapable of pleasing the wife and has gladly accepted his role as a cuck. But in other cases, the couple are swingers and Wife just wants BLACK COCK. ;)


My advice from experience? Leave your man at home and go on your date.
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This is shitty advice lol. Hey, I'm all about slingin' dick and laying big pipe. But...I'm not about fuckin up relationships lol! Again, in SOME cases the Woman calls the shots for her cuck and does have free reign. She also has a career, bills, *******, family, and a Life outside of BBC. I don't think anyone who has been married/divorced would give this kind of advice. Damn, bruh.

Letting your husband watch dilutes the experience. -
I'm thinking that the OP is intentionally facetious :unsure:...this part is absolutely untrue! Maybe you've only dealt with one side of this LS? While I admit I love having a hotwife/FWB one-on-one, Sometimes I prefer Hubby is there; SOMEONE has to hold the camera! lol

You work hard, work out, take care of the family and for what? So you can have silent sex with a small penis
- This part I can relate to ;). Check out my video 'Her First BBC'. Very hot young white girl with a perfect gym body, upset because her white boy-toy is incapable of fucking her properly...so she finds my BBC group on KIK. We gave her the pounding of her young life! I cannot wrap my head around how these young hot white girls find themselves in relationships where GOOD SEX is compromised?? How do you go your entire peak sexual years and NEVER experience earth-moving sex?? Smh....


The OP made a blanket statement that doesn't represent this LS at all...but also made some decent points that I've experienced myself. White bois can be very annoying. But thats really just a certain fraction of the LS and does NOT represent the entire reason why this site exists. There are some white guys out there packing some SERIOUS meat. I know because I've met them. Most of the couples I play with are not in the LS because they are unhappy; they play to enhance their sex life.
And on the other hand....some guys are truly pathetic lol - and yet somehow managed to snag a hot trophy wife and is totally incapable of pleasing her sexually.
I've met those couples as well :blackgrimace:

If i had to give my years of experience a percentage for Couples who ARE completely happy but want to enjoy BBC to enhance their sex life? I'd say a whopping 70%. The other 30% can vary in many categories of cuckolding, shame, humiliation, BBC breeding, cheating, Dom Wife, naughty girlfriend, etc...

Two Case Studies:
(1) 'FWB' - My sexy FWB I've had for about 3 years, her BF is a very cool white guy. he is definitely NOT a wuss in all categories of life EXCEPT sex. Most women would want him but he doesn't fuck her as like SHE wants it. And for whatever reason he is very submissive sexually, especially to Black men. Therefore, I've been fucking his hot GF like a maniac and she calls the shots. She has free reign of her sexuality and he happily submits. I've fucked her all over Austin, indoors/outdoors, and even in their house. It is not a disrespect thing - they've come to the realization that he is a sexual cuck and she is His sexual Dom. Hey works for me. :cool:

(2) 'Power Couple' - White fitness couple here in Austin. The guy is a STUD by every definition. Older, Marine vet who can fuck like its going out of style. He is a beast in the bedroom BUT....it just so happens his very hot GF loves Black cock lol :blackgrimace: so they enlist the services of Yours Truly to come over from time to time and lay waste to her body. We take photos and make discreet videos. Usually after I'm done with her, he continues plowing her pussy well into the early morning. This guy is NOT a cuck and would probably put most Black men to shame. He's just gracious enough to share his (smoking) hot GF with Black men and I am definitely grateful!

End of the day, the longer people are in this LS, the more different situations there are to encounter. Hell, I've even met Black cucks! I've met possibly every imaginable LS situation...the most EXTREME being a handicapped pervert guy who wanted to impregnate his sexy nympho wife. She ended up getting knocked up by an unknown Black sperm donor who was NOT me. Ha!

Have fun ya'll and play safe :blackgreedy: :threesome:
 
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My husband and I usually play alone with whoever we want because it works better for us since we have different work schedules.
 
My hubby is always around during initial meetings and hookups but he makes himself invisible if the scene starts getting intimate. The guy usually becomes a good friend of his after a couple of visits and us going out together without hubby becomes a common occurrance.
 
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