I have been dabbling with chastity now for two years putting him in it off and on. I have found it to be really humbling on him to get him to do things for me easier and to be more receptive to whatever I say. My questions is this, I am still conflicted because on the one hand I have found that I really like how he behaves while in his cage, but grapple with how this might affect him in the long run. I do not want a sissy bitch boy, but I do want control. Is there a good balance? Thank you, Angela