Absolutely not, I really loved sex. Doing it not watching it, jealousy might have something to do with it. I had females contact me more than once wanting to come to one of my parties. You know i always said no. I did attend a couple where i was invited to help with a group of guys. That's a no brainier. Both times i made like the energizer bunny and kept going after the other female stopped. It was obvious why they had invited help. One a first timer working a good sized bachelor party who wanted to be sure the guys would be pleased. I thought she did well for a first time they were a horny bunch of guys. The other well I'll just say the guys at that one were glad she invited help.