I kiss when it feels right, or the man initiates it. I’ve never turned a kiss away, that’s for sure
This is what my wife and I have discussed. I was the one who brought it up, of course. She also says it has to feel right and the man must initiate it. However there is this one guy she used to work with that she says she might be the one to initiate kissing with because she thinks he's handsome and loves the idea of being with him.