Kissing before cock size for me. I've jumped on big ones where the guy was the worst kisser and it was ho hum, but had average size gents where the guy was a great, take charge kisser and just melted around his cock. My passion meter goes to 11 with a great kisser and then so does his. The two gents I've felt something emotionally for, were great, passionate kissers. They were the only two that had hubby a little worried I might seek greener pastures
imho, a white wife kissing her black lover completes the path of infidelity to interracial fucking to interracial love making. Or something like that