Just wondering?

[slinky1]

Watched that episode on Seinfeld last night about being 'master of your domain' and while we watched it, I constantly teased my hubby about his lifelong, obsessive compulsive behaviour to frequently masturbate.

Would love to know, what sort of frequency do the cucks here jerk off. Are there any here with what would be considered habitual, excessive or have a chronic obsession with masturbation.

If so do you have an issue with it? i.e. do you or your wife consider it an addiction? Does she have issues with it, or happy for you to wank away? Do you hide or lie about how often you jerk off?

Do you have a particular technique? Where do you cum?...tissues, condom, hand, mouth, Fleshlight etc.?

 

[cuck4Beth]

Since going black, she has me do supervised masturbation, so it is controlled.

 

[dakotdik]

I constantly and obsessively masturbate. I offered to let my ex put it in a chastity cage, but she did not take me up on it. One of my favorite things to do is to go to a chat room and find somebody into female domination and share a mutual fantasy until presumably, we both cum. Often I read the more interesting posts or watch videos from on here and then I just jerk into my hand and wash up afterwards. I find masturbation to be deeply personal and do not want to share it even if I am in a relationship. You think about some of your most extreme fantasies and if you are fantasizing about another woman, you don't want to tell her something that offends her.

 

[donnysub]

Watched that episode on Seinfeld last night about being 'master of your domain' and while we watched it, I constantly teased my hubby about his lifelong, obsessive compulsive behaviour to frequently masturbate.

Would love to know, what sort of frequency do the cucks here jerk off. Are there any here with what would be considered habitual, excessive or have a chronic obsession with masturbation.

If so do you have an issue with it? i.e. do you or your wife consider it an addiction? Does she have issues with it, or happy for you to wank away? Do you hide or lie about how often you jerk off?

Do you have a particular technique? Where do you cum?...tissues, condom, hand, mouth, Fleshlight etc.?

Hi, my wife caught me jerking off to interracial porn numerous times and eventually found a black lover and left me. Now single, I jerk off every day while watching black men on the web. I like to tie my genitles in rope and tease myself for hours so I get more horny. That way when I cum it is more pain and pleasure. Am I sick? No, I don't think so. Would I rather have sex with a woman or a black man? Of course. I am just a normal male with a normal sex drive.

 

[donnysub]

I constantly and obsessively masturbate. I offered to let my ex put it in a chastity cage, but she did not take me up on it. One of my favorite things to do is to go to a chat room and find somebody into male domination and share a mutual fantasy until presumably, we both cum. Often I read the more interesting posts or watch videos from on here and then I just jerk into my hand and wash up afterwards. I find masturbation to be deeply personal and do not want to share it even if I am in a relationship. You think about some of your most extreme fantasies and if you are fantasizing about another woman, you don't want to tell her something that offends her.

This is a great way to get your rocks off. I will try that.

 

[donnysub]

Since going black, she has me do supervised masturbation, so it is controlled.

I wish I had someone to do that to me. Keep me horny for long periods of time.

 

[donnysub]

Watched that episode on Seinfeld last night about being 'master of your domain' and while we watched it, I constantly teased my hubby about his lifelong, obsessive compulsive behaviour to frequently masturbate.

Would love to know, what sort of frequency do the cucks here jerk off. Are there any here with what would be considered habitual, excessive or have a chronic obsession with masturbation.

If so do you have an issue with it? i.e. do you or your wife consider it an addiction? Does she have issues with it, or happy for you to wank away? Do you hide or lie about how often you jerk off?

Do you have a particular technique? Where do you cum?...tissues, condom, hand, mouth, Fleshlight etc.?

If I lived near Santa Rosa I would invite you to control my masturbation.

 

[slinky1]

Hi, my wife caught me jerking off to interracial porn numerous times and eventually found a black lover and left me. Now single, I jerk off every day while watching black men on the web. I like to tie my genitles in rope and tease myself for hours so I get more horny. That way when I cum it is more pain and pleasure. Am I sick? No, I don't think so. Would I rather have sex with a woman or a black man? Of course. I am just a normal male with a normal sex drive.

It seems more common than people realise. Cucks seem to relish in masturbating to well endowed, dominant, potent men satisfying women like they'd never be able to. Watching men, they'll never be, fucking women they never will. I never understood it when I met my cuck, but 10 years on I do, and encourage him to masturbate as much as he likes or as much as he always has.

I do think though, once your brain is rewired sexually to masturbating to other men with big cocks, i'm sure you will stay emasculated forever. Can't see my hubby ever waking up one day and telling me big cocks don't turn him on any more. At least when we masturbate together, we do to the same dominant, well hung men

 

[donnysub]

You hit the nail on the head.

 

[pantiejim]

It seems more common than people realise. Cucks seem to relish in masturbating to well endowed, dominant, potent men satisfying women like they'd never be able to. Watching men, they'll never be, fucking women they never will. I never understood it when I met my cuck, but 10 years on I do, and encourage him to masturbate as much as he likes or as much as he always has.

I do think though, once your brain is rewired sexually to masturbating to other men with big cocks, i'm sure you will stay emasculated forever. Can't see my hubby ever waking up one day and telling me big cocks don't turn him on any more. At least when we masturbate together, we do to the same dominant, well hung men

The look and sound of a woman in sexual ******* is amazingly arousing. When you have a littledickie that is short-lived, fantasy and masturbation is often much preferred to having a disappointed and frustrated partner in bed. This activity has been going on for time in memorial.

 

[slinky1]

The look and sound of a woman in sexual ******* is amazingly arousing. When you have a littledickie that is short-lived, fantasy and masturbation is often much preferred to having a disappointed and frustrated partner in bed. This activity has been going on for time in memorial.

I agree. As much as my cuck loves my pussy, he has limited control and thus his enjoyment is limited also. For him, with masturbation he has a lot more control, so he can play with himself for ages, bring himself to the edge, stop and start all over again, sometimes for hours. So for him masturbation is almost preferred to sex with me or any woman. Obviously not as intense for him, but its like a comfort food for him, and enjoys how he can enjoy it for hours rather than minutes with myself.

 

[justaguy169]

I agree. As much as my cuck loves my pussy, he has limited control and thus his enjoyment is limited also. For him, with masturbation he has a lot more control, so he can play with himself for ages, bring himself to the edge, stop and start all over again, sometimes for hours. So for him masturbation is almost preferred to sex with me or any woman. Obviously not as intense for him, but its like a comfort food for him, and enjoys how he can enjoy it for hours rather than minutes with myself.

This is a great topic. I would consider myself excessive, borderline chronic obsessive. That is the primary reason why I put myself in chastity a month and half ago. I'm newly single so I'm trying to prevent myself from just hanging around my apartment when I'm not working and jerking off 5 times a day. I could jerk off for hours and hours and hours. Your comment about comfort food is spot on because that's exactly what it's like. I think what drives it for me is my shortcomings in the penis department. I'm really small - about 3.5 inches on a good day. Flaccid I'm about an inch. I'm VERY self-conscious about it and have been since puberty. Growing up and into college I was a jock so I grew up in locker rooms and that didn't help my confidence in the least. Dating and hooking up till I got married was stressful because there was always that moment, dropping my pants for a new lady ... beyond stressful. I did have some bad experiences. I'm now back in the dating pool so it's all fresh on my mind a lot nowadays. Anyway, I've always sought solace in jerking off ... it's my sexual safe place. No stress or anxiety about my lack of size, no "what if she makes a comment" or "what if I can't please her." Just me and my pleasure without judgment or worry. It's bliss for me.

And for the record, I do NOT get off on SPH at all. In a setting like this I feel like I can be truthful, so when I talk about my little dick I'm just being honest ... I'm not playing it up to get off or anything like that. Having a little penis is no cakewalk. It's probably served me well in other areas of my life by driving me to compensate professionally, athletically etc. But it's something I can't ever be comfortable with when it comes to women and sex.

 

[slinky1]

This is a great topic. I would consider myself excessive, borderline chronic obsessive. That is the primary reason why I put myself in chastity a month and half ago. I'm newly single so I'm trying to prevent myself from just hanging around my apartment when I'm not working and jerking off 5 times a day. I could jerk off for hours and hours and hours. Your comment about comfort food is spot on because that's exactly what it's like. I think what drives it for me is my shortcomings in the penis department. I'm really small - about 3.5 inches on a good day. Flaccid I'm about an inch. I'm VERY self-conscious about it and have been since puberty. Growing up and into college I was a jock so I grew up in locker rooms and that didn't help my confidence in the least. Dating and hooking up till I got married was stressful because there was always that moment, dropping my pants for a new lady ... beyond stressful. I did have some bad experiences. I'm now back in the dating pool so it's all fresh on my mind a lot nowadays. Anyway, I've always sought solace in jerking off ... it's my sexual safe place. No stress or anxiety about my lack of size, no "what if she makes a comment" or "what if I can't please her." Just me and my pleasure without judgment or worry. It's bliss for me.

And for the record, I do NOT get off on SPH at all. In a setting like this I feel like I can be truthful, so when I talk about my little dick I'm just being honest ... I'm not playing it up to get off or anything like that. Having a little penis is no cakewalk. It's probably served me well in other areas of my life by driving me to compensate professionally, athletically etc. But it's something I can't ever be comfortable with when it comes to women and sex.

You sound exactly like my hubby. He masturbates for a lot of the reasons you've mentioned, and has had all the stress, anguish and frustrations like yourself over his entire life. He does enjoy SPH but I think that just became a defence mechanism for him and learned to eroticise a lot of the shame and embarrassment of being small, so when he felt down, he'd masturbate to make himself feel better, but it just became a cyclic thing for him and the shame made better with an orgasm changed his mindset permanently.

 

[justaguy169]

You sound exactly like my hubby. He masturbates for a lot of the reasons you've mentioned, and has had all the stress, anguish and frustrations like yourself over his entire life. He does enjoy SPH but I think that just became a defence mechanism for him and learned to eroticise a lot of the shame and embarrassment of being small, so when he felt down, he'd masturbate to make himself feel better, but it just became a cyclic thing for him and the shame made better with an orgasm changed his mindset permanently.

Wow. Oh yeah, totally get it ... sounds just like me. Though my defense mechanism has always been cuckold stuff. I had my high school girlfriend giving me hand jobs while she told me cuckold fantasies. I didn't even know it was called cuckolding then (I grew up pre-internet), I just knew that I fantasized about her fucking other guys with big cocks. Thanks to the internet I became immersed in it and I discovered interracial. I now know that I was drawn to cuckolding and interracial because I was (and still am) in total awe over big penises. I think most guys that are small are like that, though few would admit it. But even more importantly it taps into my fears and shame about trying to please women with substandard equipment my whole life. Jerking off to it is my way of eroticising those fears and shame, just like your hubby. I actually think that at his point it's rewired my sexual brain.

 

[slinky1]

Wow. Oh yeah, totally get it ... sounds just like me. Though my defense mechanism has always been cuckold stuff. I had my high school girlfriend giving me hand jobs while she told me cuckold fantasies. I didn't even know it was called cuckolding then (I grew up pre-internet), I just knew that I fantasized about her fucking other guys with big cocks. Thanks to the internet I became immersed in it and I discovered interracial. I now know that I was drawn to cuckolding and interracial because I was (and still am) in total awe over big penises. I think most guys that are small are like that, though few would admit it. But even more importantly it taps into my fears and shame about trying to please women with substandard equipment my whole life. Jerking off to it is my way of eroticising those fears and shame, just like your hubby. I actually think that at his point it's rewired my sexual brain.

Yes, agree. Its definitely rewired his brain. He will masturbate to pocs and videos of big cocks almost everytime. If that big cock is fucking a woman, even better, but he has quite a lot of vids where the big dicked guy is just jerking off alone and my hubby will happily wank to that as well.

 

[justaguy169]

Yes, agree. Its definitely rewired his brain. He will masturbate to pocs and videos of big cocks almost everytime. If that big cock is fucking a woman, even better, but he has quite a lot of vids where the big dicked guy is just jerking off alone and my hubby will happily wank to that as well.

Same here. It used to be I'd only masturbate to pics and vids of big cocks fucking women, but now I masturbate to that as well as just big cocks alone. Sometimes I actually prefer just the big dicks. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually exploring my submissive side and consider myself bi-curious, which several years ago I would never have thought.

The irony is outwardly I'm very alpha, a sort of "alpha by day" type. I have zero problem in getting women if I want, I live in a big city and I get hit on all the time by women of all races. But I find myself fantasizing about the women that chat me up, thinking how she would look taking a big dick. It's pretty fucked up when I think about it. So I'm not sure where all of this leads to now ...