Just purchased 8 inch black dildo for girlfriend without her knowledge !

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  1. Wannabecuck1989

    Wannabecuck1989 New Member

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    Asked the girlfriend to pick something sexy to wear off of love honey and let me me know so she can wear for me this weekend. Iv also added a 8 inch black dildo , I'm slightly nervous of her reaction now lol. I'm about 6 inches by the way..
    What's the best way to "give it her"
     
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  2. dunacouple

    dunacouple Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Well if you have never discussed your kink (liking BBC to the extent you want to see your wife use a big black dildo) I would start with that and avoid the awkward reaction that is surely to follow an out of the blue dildo surprise...
     
  3. Wannabecuck1989

    Wannabecuck1989 New Member

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    I'm sure she'll get over it , once she realised 6 inches of white dick isn't enough ...
     
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  4. Wannabecuck1989

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    Okay so I received the order I made from love honey. It's had in it the lingerie I had ordered for her and the black dildo. I told her a had ordered a vibrator and she said she did not want one but when she opened the box and seen the 8 inch black dildo she did not act shocked at all she just playfully chucked it at me and said that's yours.. Later on in the night we was getting playful and she was saying who has a dick that big??? I started vibrating it on her clit and she was saying just do it with your hand I don't like it... But I carried on a bit more. BUT the she whispered just put it in to see what it feels like !!! I nearly exploded there and then !! So I slowly put it in and was expecting it to be tight but it slid in so easy must be because she was wetter than I can ever remember seeing her to be honest .. We did that for about 10 minutes but she didn't seem to orgasm then made be fuck her and wouldn't let me use it again .. I suppose this is a start would like people's opinion on if I went wrong and how I can move on from here.. Thanks
     
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  5. jdflacpl

    jdflacpl Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    sounds like you did it right. Just keep doing what you did and she will take to it
     
  6. Happywhitecuck

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    You did it exactly right. She will want it more and more now. Tell her how good it looks in her and how good it feels when it's your turn. You will last about 3 strokes after feeling her stretched out
     
  7. Happywhitecuck

    Happywhitecuck New Member

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    My girl knew that I was into interracial so it broke the ice but she was the same way, she'd stop using it before she orgasmed. I think they know they will be hooked if they cum with a black dildo but I told her I wanted her to orgasm with it inside her. Your on the right track! It is very exciting!!
     
  8. 1Couple4Fun

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    Great approach, similar to how we started, just keep at it and she will crave it more and more.
     
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  9. jdflacpl

    jdflacpl Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    heres a few pics of my wife using hers the . These are close to 20 year old pics

     
  10. dakotdik

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    Actually my cock is about that size, but only 20 percent of men are, so she may have never encountered one. If my goddess had told me that a 8 inch dildo belong to me, it would have ended up in my asshole. You can start teasing her with the fantasy of getting her a bull that big, but she sounds fairly vanilla. For the sake of the relationship, you might never want to take it to reality. She sounds like the type of woman who won't be able to play and then walk away. She might play and then say he needs to stay.
     
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  11. Wannabecuck1989

    Wannabecuck1989 New Member

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  12. Wannabecuck1989

    Wannabecuck1989 New Member

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    Okay so since the first initial post I have not succeeded in using the dildo on her again. I have been away quite abit so not had much of a opportunity , while being away I did mention that I put that black dildo in your bag to play with and she didn't really respond well. She just said why do you keep talking about it your obsessed .. How can I progress from this !'
     
  13. Happywhitecuck

    Happywhitecuck New Member

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    I would personally not bring it up for a while. I'd wait on her bring it up or use it when she wants to, and I'm almost positive she will. Her attitude sounds very similar to my girl. In my experience, once the awkwardness is over they miss it as much as you or I miss seeing it
     
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  14. Wannabecuck1989

    Wannabecuck1989 New Member

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    I hope your right , iv subscribed here email to some interracial swinging site that might get her thinking ....
     
  15. Happywhitecuck

    Happywhitecuck New Member

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    That might be too much. I would try to be more subtle. Thats just my opinion
     
  16. Wannabecuck1989

    Wannabecuck1989 New Member

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    Too late I can't unsubscribe without knowing password .. Im going to be straight with her soon I can't keep it to myself for much longer I need her to know. I know she won't break up with me we've been through a lot, she will either dismiss it completely or slowly come round
     
  17. whiteshadoe

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    You really need to chill out with it or she will run in the opposite direction.
     
  18. Dustin314

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    Sounds familiar. I had a surprise approach with mine. Mr. Marcus. Asked her to use it about 5 times... Was told I was obsessed. 3 months later I found out she threw it away. What a waste of $60.
     
  19. Wannabecuck1989

    Wannabecuck1989 New Member

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    I really don't know how to progress from here , if I can't get her to use a "free toy" we got sent how can I get here to watch ir porn ect...