Just purchased 8 inch black dildo for girlfriend without her knowledge !

#1
Asked the girlfriend to pick something sexy to wear off of love honey and let me me know so she can wear for me this weekend. Iv also added a 8 inch black dildo , I'm slightly nervous of her reaction now lol. I'm about 6 inches by the way..
What's the best way to "give it her"
 

dunacouple

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#2
Well if you have never discussed your kink (liking BBC to the extent you want to see your wife use a big black dildo) I would start with that and avoid the awkward reaction that is surely to follow an out of the blue dildo surprise...
 
#4
Okay so I received the order I made from love honey. It's had in it the lingerie I had ordered for her and the black dildo. I told her a had ordered a vibrator and she said she did not want one but when she opened the box and seen the 8 inch black dildo she did not act shocked at all she just playfully chucked it at me and said that's yours.. Later on in the night we was getting playful and she was saying who has a dick that big??? I started vibrating it on her clit and she was saying just do it with your hand I don't like it... But I carried on a bit more. BUT the she whispered just put it in to see what it feels like !!! I nearly exploded there and then !! So I slowly put it in and was expecting it to be tight but it slid in so easy must be because she was wetter than I can ever remember seeing her to be honest .. We did that for about 10 minutes but she didn't seem to orgasm then made be fuck her and wouldn't let me use it again .. I suppose this is a start would like people's opinion on if I went wrong and how I can move on from here.. Thanks
 

jdflacpl

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#8
I told her a had ordered a vibrator and she said she did not want one but when she opened the box and seen the 8 inch black dildo she did not act shocked at all she just playfully chucked it at me and said that's yours.. Later on in the night we was getting playful and she was saying who has a dick that big???
Actually my cock is about that size, but only 20 percent of men are, so she may have never encountered one. If my goddess had told me that a 8 inch dildo belong to me, it would have ended up in my asshole. You can start teasing her with the fantasy of getting her a bull that big, but she sounds fairly vanilla. For the sake of the relationship, you might never want to take it to reality. She sounds like the type of woman who won't be able to play and then walk away. She might play and then say he needs to stay.
 
#9
Actually my cock is about that size, but only 20 percent of men are, so she may have never encountered one. If my goddess had told me that a 8 inch dildo belong to me, it would have ended up in my asshole. You can start teasing her with the fantasy of getting her a bull that big, but she sounds fairly vanilla. For the sake
Actually my cock is about that size, but only 20 percent of men are, so she may have never encountered one. If my goddess had told me that a 8 inch dildo belong to me, it would have ended up in my asshole. You can start teasing her with the fantasy of getting her a bull that big, but she sounds fairly vanilla. For the sake of the relationship, you might never want to take it to reality. She sounds like the type of woman who won't be able to play and then walk away. She might play and then say he needs to stay.
What makes you think that she wouldn't beable to walk away ?
 
#10
Okay so since the first initial post I have not succeeded in using the dildo on her again. I have been away quite abit so not had much of a opportunity , while being away I did mention that I put that black dildo in your bag to play with and she didn't really respond well. She just said why do you keep talking about it your obsessed .. How can I progress from this !'
 
#12
Too late I can't unsubscribe without knowing password .. Im going to be straight with her soon I can't keep it to myself for much longer I need her to know. I know she won't break up with me we've been through a lot, she will either dismiss it completely or slowly come round
 
#14
Sounds familiar. I had a surprise approach with mine. Mr. Marcus. Asked her to use it about 5 times... Was told I was obsessed. 3 months later I found out she threw it away. What a waste of $60.
 
#16
Update . I left it after my last post.. but I have started working on it again. I have been text messaging here about ordering some more kinky stuff from love honey , she told me to surprise her but "no more bloody dildos!" I said "but why we hardly used that other one and it turns me on so much.." she dismissed it a few more times but then.. I said "I have seen something that isn't a dildo but something that fits on the end of my dick but makes it bigger and thicker.." this got her attention! She asked questions like "how much bigger and thicker?" it's the love honey extra 3 inch , 8.5 inch insertable and 5.45 girth , by the way. She made comments on how the reviews where making her laugh ( it's got extremely good reviews) so I asked her if she likes the look of it , and her reply was " I'll give it a blast :) " !!!! Wow. It's being deliverd tomorrow and I'm super excited ! Also orderd a magic wand which we've never used and she agreed to that too .. which isn't like her to try new things ! I hope I don't screw this up.
 
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