spent all day with the hubb. I woke him up with a bj and put him to bed with a bj with a whole lot of filthy behavior in between, Now I am up late cleaning and getting some food together for a picnic somewhere tomorrow, Had a beautiful day today had somewhat of "the talk" with hubby. Told him I just wanted to discuss some recent sexual feelings I have been having and did not act on. Basically I worded it in a way that asked him if he thought having sexual fantasies about strangers was normal. At first he was a little defensive, like he was thinking " what did you do" then I assured him I did absolutely nothing and I was not going to.ever. He told me it is a normal thing to have thoughts, because you really can't control thoughts. anyway we talked for a while, rolled in the sheets and throughout the day pretty much rolled anywhere we could. In other words, I told him I had had some bad thoughts and we talked it out and all is well. Had I broken my vows. I am sure our marriage and both of us would have been broken beyond repair. Thank you SO much to those who talked sense into me, and to those who could have taken advantage and did not. Life is wonderful and sweet and not to be wasted. Love you all.