Thanks for your reply. She does watch porn with me on my suggestion . I chose mostly foreign guys wit japanese women and she likes it
What she needs now is
not a "foreign" dick. She better feel comfortable. first. and last. and always. With herself. with the thought of your suggestion. with the "simulation run". the repeat.
She better experience sexual development and success. Feel desirable by men as the Woman She is. at all time. Have desires herself. and express/communicate those. with success. Know she is a lust object. while she is no less of a lust
subject at the same time.
Does she watch porn with you? - Or do you watch porn together?
...On your suggestion? You choose ...? - What about letting Her choose what She suggests?
If you like a woman,
your woman to make the step of being with another man (or whatever step, really) - which may be a small step or a big step - depending on the Woman, she needs to have a lot of courage and
confidence to do so. It is a
decision She actively makes. She better be used to decision-making for sexual/lustful things. Like selecting porn. Or selecting lingerie she feels most desirable in. Or selecting an environment for roleplay - with you ( perhaps
) - that follows Her "script". and so on.
Depending on the Woman (her personality) she will ask for more or less approval and support from you, her husband. Give it
before She asks. so that her asking renders completely unnecessary.
Between two lovers (wife and husband) there is no wrong. there is no shame.
Never will she have to justify herself before you. never will you correct her. noone can improve a thing so precious that it's already perfect.
Only if she opens up completely and lets her innermost sexual being shine from the outside, she will be able to not only receive the thought of your suggestion but also embrace it, accept it and make it her own. without hiding it from you, her husband.
...Now, that was a whole bunch of blatherfest that can easily be summed up in one sentence... Like the ol' Sting song goes...
"If you love somebody, set them free!" Good luck!
p.s. Please excuse my writing style. i'm in a drooling mood.
