From Helen: A lot of my girlfriends hid how their image had changed from their hubby... Until they were ready to make a choice between accepting and being a part of it, or go the fuck out! Some of those who left Then begged on their knees to take them back...
Is being "pussy free" a must for a successful BBC ownership to occur?
- Thread starter scleat
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Yes, that's exactly what we had to put up with! The main thing to remember about the hierarchy in the family
This is the way it should be, IMO. If she wants to let him out of chastity when the bull is done, that's her business (unless she agrees with her bull and they decide he shoudln't be released). You don't want your cuck playing wiht himself or cumming whil the bull is with her. Sometimes that post-nut clarity can screw things up for everyone. It's just safer and more practical to keep the cuck locked up when the cuckoldress is playing.
Raymond1963
Couple
FROM CHRISTINE - I know what you mean about "post-nut clarity". Sometimes I would jerk or peg Ray
before my date. This proved to be a problem. He would then proceed to beg me not to go.
When my bull came over to our house, Ray would typically fluff me and sometimes "usher" (guide) the
cock into me. This is where the bull took over. In no uncertain terms he made it clear to Ray to
leave the room, saying "Git the fuck out the room!"
At that point, nobody really cares what the cuckold does. He can beat-off, he can take the children out,
he can go to the adult bookstore. Between getting high and getting fucked, I'm pretty distracted.
I actually prefer hubby gets off, so after he shows the bull to the door,
he doesn't come back to the room and bug me about helping him cum.
I usually just want to go to bed.
before my date. This proved to be a problem. He would then proceed to beg me not to go.
When my bull came over to our house, Ray would typically fluff me and sometimes "usher" (guide) the
cock into me. This is where the bull took over. In no uncertain terms he made it clear to Ray to
leave the room, saying "Git the fuck out the room!"
At that point, nobody really cares what the cuckold does. He can beat-off, he can take the children out,
he can go to the adult bookstore. Between getting high and getting fucked, I'm pretty distracted.
I actually prefer hubby gets off, so after he shows the bull to the door,
he doesn't come back to the room and bug me about helping him cum.
I usually just want to go to bed.
Cuckcowboy
Male
No! You're not strange at all! I think that's great. The only thing better than that would be for you to be taken anally and please cock your self!
Honestly you probably don't deserve pussy anymore anyways.
We also use erection pills whilst I'm wearing my chastity, although only when it's just me and my wife and some IR porn.
For me it's ultimate torment, I spend several nights satisfying my wife in different ways before I'm released to blow my load, by which time my dick will have dripped so much pre cum over the couple of days and my dick is aching so bad, I tend to struggle with lack of sleep due to frustration.
party4candi
Couple
what pills do you use, that work?
Viagra work just fine for me.
For me it was enough that I could have my bulls whenever I wanted, while they were there they owned my husband’s pussy, but am I supposed to sit around and wait for a bull to show up? Dat to day sex is what my hub is there for, the bulls are a treat for me, watching my hub eat their pies and fluff them is a special treat, but having daily orgasms as opposed to haphazardly getting the odd good time is what I prefer,,,if the other way around was mandatory than I guess I’d have to opt for plain old vanilla sex. I also don’t agree caging my hub or denying him, but that’s just me, you do you!
herlittleguy
Male
so now you are in Maine ?
herlittleguy
Male
My wife felt the same way for almost 30 years and we enjoyed our lives together
This April will be our 38th anniversary.
For us it was a must. We often talked about it as we got deeper into the lifestyle and agreed that black only means no white penis anymore.
chrisritika
Couple
So we are a mix on this ..we’ve dabbled in chastity and denial but don’t do so permanent …but when she is with our “bull”…yes I do chastity cage…his rule …sometimes there’s other conditions ..as far as total cut off ..none of us want that …he’s got two other wives he services along with mine and doesn’t really feel need to disrupt our connections..that being said it’s now less frequent for us
Cuckcowboy
Male
I couldn't agree with you more! I find it odd also when the cuck/husband/sub still has sex with the owned wife.
At best the only sexual contact should be hand job and orient all orgasms to her or the bull. Complete submission is the best way.
But ya your comment is spot on!!
Cuckcowboy
Male
Wow...you're very fortunate!!
I admire your honest statement about your relationship. So many talk 'around it' or 'about it' but you two seem comfortable and happy about actually living it.
Cuckcowboy
Male
Well I'm not trying to dismiss your situation but at least you're still married! You have a great relationship and can still find stimulation and support your wife!
I was dismissed without any recourse after 8 years. Moreover reinforced by her oldest that told me under no circumstances to return.
I am pussy free and only think about the sex my ex is having with her BBC lover all over the house, pool, jacuzzi that I was in for years.
It's completely got me captive to her. I haven't even seen her since that day. I hope she's sexually fulfilled tho.
party4candi
Couple
Unbelievable how much we love our girls that do or will or want to take black lovers. It’s hard for them to process. I wish I had it in reverse, that my bbc owned cunt wife was lusting for me to fuck hot black hotwives.
As with all fetishes, there’s a lot more to this than what’s on the surface,,,if some soul searching is done one can usually come to a certain point where it began, and a few others along the way till you eventually wound up where your comfortable, where one way or another, you’ve arrived at where you always wanted to be sub-consciously, even if you weren’t aware of it.
I had a friend that was 37, who was a total masochist, after months of idle conversation he told me when he was 9 his parents were killed in a car accident and he went to live with his Aunt. When he was naughty she would pull down his pants, lay him across her lap and spank his bare bottom,,,by the time he was eleven he began getting hardons. Once she became aware she announced to him that he was becoming a man. The next time he did something punishable she did the usual, except this time she brought out a leather paddle. When he was 16 she just happened to be wearing shorts and felt his dick between her legs, he was afraid she’d feel it and hit him harder, but she reached under her legs and began jerking him off,,,they had sex for a year and a half before he joined the Army to get away from her. To this day if he walks into a Harley Davidson store and goes over to the section where they sell leathers and motorcycle jackets he gets a chubby, in his regular sex life he’s totally submissive and if you want to fuck him he has to be spanked, preferably with some sort of leather paddle. To those who haven’t made peace with what and why they’re effected in different ways by different things, look to you past and try to establish various turning points in your life,,,”as the twig is bent, so grows the tree”! Just remember, whatever conclusion you come to, just do you, it’s your life, you probably don’t get another one, so make sure you live this one,,,it’s kinda a balancing act, but once you begin it gets a lot easier, especially if you adopt the mantra of “it’s MY life damn it”!
I had a friend that was 37, who was a total masochist, after months of idle conversation he told me when he was 9 his parents were killed in a car accident and he went to live with his Aunt. When he was naughty she would pull down his pants, lay him across her lap and spank his bare bottom,,,by the time he was eleven he began getting hardons. Once she became aware she announced to him that he was becoming a man. The next time he did something punishable she did the usual, except this time she brought out a leather paddle. When he was 16 she just happened to be wearing shorts and felt his dick between her legs, he was afraid she’d feel it and hit him harder, but she reached under her legs and began jerking him off,,,they had sex for a year and a half before he joined the Army to get away from her. To this day if he walks into a Harley Davidson store and goes over to the section where they sell leathers and motorcycle jackets he gets a chubby, in his regular sex life he’s totally submissive and if you want to fuck him he has to be spanked, preferably with some sort of leather paddle. To those who haven’t made peace with what and why they’re effected in different ways by different things, look to you past and try to establish various turning points in your life,,,”as the twig is bent, so grows the tree”! Just remember, whatever conclusion you come to, just do you, it’s your life, you probably don’t get another one, so make sure you live this one,,,it’s kinda a balancing act, but once you begin it gets a lot easier, especially if you adopt the mantra of “it’s MY life damn it”!
