Im tring to convince my gf to have sex with a black guy.

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by mrslave24, Jan 27, 2013.

  1. mrslave24

    mrslave24 New Member

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    Ladies who love bbc please explain why it is better then white dick.she dosent find black men attractive.but ik if she chilled with the right guy and they clicked it would happen.plus she likes big dick.any and all help yous can provide would be a graeat help thank you.
     
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  2. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    In the same boat as you. Been trying to convince my wife for years, although at least my wife does find certain black guys attractive.
     
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  3. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    I believe you answered your own Q with the statement ... "if she chilled with the right guy and they clicked it would happen" ... Contrary to what you read, most women are not exactly thrilled to have sex with strange men. If she's got some suppressed hangups about black men, possibly exposing her to some black men in a relaxed atmosphere would help her. Why not locate some adult lifestyle clubs in your area and plan to attend their hospitality night to meet some guys. Everyone will be clothed, and she can have some conversations with some really nice guys of all colors.
    Here's a link to find them in your area:
    http://www.swinglifestyle.com/swingers/clubs/
     
  4. superdick33

    superdick33 Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Honestly bro there is no better...it is a matter of contrast after all we are the same underneath and all bleed red...but what it is a matter of is fantasy...etc "role playing".

    Bottom Line: If the wife is not into it then do not force it because like with any kink or fantasy if she is not down with the brown she will not do it...it is more of your thing but like Dave said above you can probably ease her into by going to a swing club in a relaxed non forced atmosphere.

    Talk with Her More: Remember a good key to any swingers/cuck/BBC lifestyle is Communication that is the keyword phrase to remember here...ask her why she does not find black men attractive then go from there.Remember not all women like black men so you have to understand that reality and realize the fact it might have to remain a fantasy...because she might run.Just my 2 cents oh ok more like 5 cents...lol :D but that's just my opinion i could be wrong.

    Respect,
    Storm
     
  5. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I know this isn't Dr. Phil, but it is refreshing to read some common sense responses from time to time instead of the usual "come to me and get my black dick bitch" or "you should breed and have 6,000 mixed race kids because it's the duty of white women to be barefoot, pregnant and submissive cum dumps to black men" posts.
     
  6. superdick33

    superdick33 Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I agree with you bro...that whole breeding thing is not for me if i have a kid i am taking care of it...i do not want to be some deadbeat bastard breeding machine pumping [hince...lil wayne] lol out kids i do not know...reality is that some people do not understand fantasy and reality and do not see some of the consequences that all this foolishness will cause in the long run...

    To me this lifestyle is about fun,friendship and great sex that's it not down with all this breeding,black supremacy shit...i am ok with cuckolds and dominance but from a fantasy role playing standpoint...but to each there own....sorry to beat a dead horse:)

    Note: Without common sense we are all doomed to fail and fall flat on our faces...thank southjersey for your intelligence bro good to have someone else of smarts and common sense here.

    Respect,
    Storm
     
  7. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thanks for your kind words. It's a small fraternity, the people on this board who have common sense and know how to separate fantasy from reality.
     
  8. cooly79

    cooly79 New Member

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    write a story of her fucking other men and fill it withnir photos and show he r the site while ur naked and she'll see your dick rise as she reads it
     
  9. 4WivesPussyOnly

    4WivesPussyOnly Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    WHAT????
     
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  10. chocolate thunder

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    nice. very well said...
     
  11. superdick33

    superdick33 Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    What is this guy saying???:bounce:
     
  12. chocolate thunder

    chocolate thunder Member

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    I Agree ....wut is he sayin'
     
  13. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Maybe I can shed some light on the story suggestion, my own take. Men are more visual than women, hence why most porn is made to appeal to men and doesn't really do much for your average woman. From my own experience, I get much more aroused by what goes on in my brain than on a screen. If I read something hot, it turns me on much more than watching a video. It sparks my imagination, which is so crucial to my sexual responsiveness.

    I think it may actually make sense for the guy to try and write a fantasy situation for his gf to read. It may be a good way to stimulate conversation and, potentially, so much more.

    Good luck!
     
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  14. calixto

    calixto Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    In my case it took me 10 years to convince my wife to have sex with a black guy. I had ever wished Susie had sex with her ex black boyfriend Axel, because Susie had told me about him and I knew he had an amazing virility.
     
  15. EDcrheatme

    EDcrheatme Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Hubby here; in my case, BBC/QOS was wife's idea. I play role of "supportive hubby" more than cuck, though. Nothing wrong with cuckoldry but not my fetish.
    Maybe ask your wife what her fantasies are? I fulfill BDSM fantasies for women whose husbands aren't into that (but with their husbands knowledge and consent).
    So, maybe find out what your wife's fantasies are. And, in time, she may help you fulfill your fantasies. Works for us.