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#5
Perhaps you need the treatment usually reserved for Blue Balls. If a guy is super horny and cannot obtain sexual relief, the best alternative is to find a 1957 Chevy Pickup ['58 will do in a pinch] set your legs about a foot apart, and try as hard as you can to lift the southwest end. Strain for ten seconds, and then repeat five times.
This is also known, if you do not lift properly, to render hernias, which will take your mind off sex for awhile-an alternative form of relief.
If nothing else, you may start gazing fondly on 1950s Chevy pickups, instead of your present preoccupation with watching interracial sex.
 

MacNfries

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#6
radouane, it sounds to me that you may have a porn addiction. You can take the self-test to determine if you do, but doing something about it requires that you address it. Here are a few legit links on the topic. I believe, after you have, you'll be able to answer your own Q:

http://www.projectknow.com/research/porn-addiction/
http://www.recoveryconnection.org/pornography-addiction-treatment/

A person can become addicted to most anything. It's nothing to be ashamed of if, in fact, you are addicted. It's ignoring it that is the concern. Understand what an "addiction" is, then decide if you are willing to address it. Good luck ... Mac
 
#11
radouane, it sounds to me that you may have a porn addiction. You can take the self-test to determine if you do, but doing something about it requires that you address it. Here are a few legit links on the topic. I believe, after you have, you'll be able to answer your own Q:

http://www.projectknow.com/research/porn-addiction/
http://www.recoveryconnection.org/pornography-addiction-treatment/

A person can become addicted to most anything. It's nothing to be ashamed of if, in fact, you are addicted. It's ignoring it that is the concern. Understand what an "addiction" is, then decide if you are willing to address it. Good luck ... Mac
Here's the self test . . .
  1. Do you feel guilty or ashamed after looking at pornography?
  2. Do you look forward to being alone so you can look at pornography?
  3. Has pornography negatively affected your personal relationships, your job, or your finances?
  4. Do you find that you have been looking at an increasing amount of pornography over time?
  5. Do you look at pornography when you are bored, anxious, or lonely?
If you have answered these questions honesty, is this an addiction like an addiction to sugar or coffee or something else that DOESN'T negatively affect your life vs, an addiction to drugs or alcohol that DOES negatively affect your life? Answer this question . . . then act accordingly. You may just need to come clean to those close to you, or you may need to seek professional help.

On the other hand, you may just find that watching porn is as enjoyable for you as actually have sex yourself. If you are not in a relationship, this may not be a bad thing at all. If you are in a relationship, then this could present a problem between you and your partner. If watching IR porn is negatively affecting your work or personal relationships, then this could be a problem.

What may be a mountain to some, to others it may be nothing at all.
 
#12
Maybe because people need a cold dose of reality when porn and fantasy becomes their reality.
The reality is he does have a small penis and in my experience size matters greatly to women. He probably has been made to feel inadequate before. I'm sure on some level this is unhealthy but he seems to get off on talking about it, so I say let it be.
 

syscom3

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CA, US
#13
The reality is he does have a small penis and in my experience size matters greatly to women. He probably has been made to feel inadequate before. I'm sure on some level this is unhealthy but he seems to get off on talking about it, so I say let it be.
But we can learn much from him. From a psychological perspective. Maybe it will be a therapeutic for him.