I know there is reality and then there is fantasy, but it's hard as a white male not to get carried away with fantasy thoughts and ideas.....For example I love the way the original poster thinks. I wish more women felt this way, but if she gets caught cheating and they divorce, she may stand to lose a lot of her livelihood.....that's where my fantasy thoughts start and I think wouldn't it be sexy if states truly punished men in the court system during divorce, even if there was infidelity? Call it the "for better or worse" penalty to where you would owe your wife a year's salary (paid in installments) as like a severance lol....Also spousal support wouldn't be nullified due to infidelity. I'm crazy I know, ive been edging all day
. But think of how much it would empower women to truly do what they want without consequence.