I started by putting on IR movies when we were in bed. Then started openly joking about black guys sizes. We started sharing stories of girls we both new that ended up going black. I looked for ways to point out white celebrities that went black (thanks Kim K). Last year I got her a black dildo (we have since gone 2 sizes bigger since the first). We use the bbc toy every time in bed and she loves it. I have been careful to go slow and not push to hard to get her introduced into bbc lifestyle. The latest BBC toy has brought us to a new peak in sex lives. I think she is ready for first real bbc sex encounter. We sometimes even joke about the idea. She is very reserved and I think might be uncomfortable actually being with another person. With the new BBC toy though I have definitely discovered her inner slut. Not sure how to introduce the next step. Should I just bring the idea up, should I stage an introduction or just take her to a dance club here in Dallas and let a black dude take over. Any recommendations?