I think my gf secretly likes bbc but doesnt admit it. I need some help unleashing her inner QOS.

[holygrail1999]

Ive been training her with dildos but im trying to push her for the real thing. shes just super shy. I just need some advice.

 

[Subwhitecuck]

I think mine does too she just don't wanna admit it

 

[MissJenna]

Rule #1 don’t try and “push” her for the real thing. She’ll either be interested in fucking bbc or she won’t be, if she is happy days, if she isn’t, I wish you all the best suppressing your kinks and desires until seething resentment creeps in and you question the whole relationship.

That first pagraph is only me but talk to her about it and see what her thoughts are, anything other than a point blank “NO!” Is a good start. Then you buy big black dildos and role play during sex and then hopefully she’ll want the real thing.

Does she have any kinks of her own you can induldge and get her used to more abstract sex?

 

[holygrail1999]

Does she have any kinks of her own you can induldge and get her used to more abstract sex?

Shes already admitted shes open to a mmf threesome, and she definitely loves kinky sex. I think she just psyches herself out.

 

[IR Dreams]

Don’t push the subject. Give her time to make a mind-body connection. Keep training by using the dildo- make sure it’s big, black and give it a strong name such as Luther. Also when using the dildo make sure you perform oral simultaneously while she watches IR porn. Continually tell her how much you love her and how lucky you are to have such a beautiful girlfriend. Tell her how gorgeous her pussy looks when you are stuffing her pussy with the bbc-dildo. Good luck!

 

[taco2310]

In the same boat, wife has done a great job dressing sexy in the summer with daisy dukes with high heels, also a people person enjoys conversation, just waiting patiently for that one opportunity, what helps I think in our situation is let her roam freely and point out other guy's checking her out make her feel sexier. Hasn't happened over night, but motivation is key I think.

 

[IR Dreams]

Try having her listen to the “Keys & Anklets”-podcast.