How to get wife to want real BBC, please help!

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mt11124

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I am 28 she’s 31, I introduced a BBC dildo into our sex life a few months back after finally growing a pair to try and fulfill my fantasy of becoming a cuck for BBC, and it’s been absolutely perfect, it’s a Shane Diesel Cock Sleeve, and it’s huge! I finally got her to watch some BBC porn too, and she came so hard while watching as I fucked her with it. My dick being only 5” is nowhere near the size comparison, her pussy feels constantly stretched. I keep telling her I want her to try the real thing… and she just gets annoyed, she said she doesn’t want to do anything with anyone else. Since that was said a few weeks back, I really backed off with all the BBC talk in bed, and trying to convince her. Through the several times we’ve used this in the bedroom, I was the only one who ever brought it up during sex to she if she was game for me to go grab it, almost 99% she said yes, and had amazing orgasms with it, and trust me, the sloppy seconds are the best, most men probably don’t like a loose hole to fuck after a huge cock has been in their woman, but I absolutely love it, she always mentions how small my cock feels after getting fucked with the dildo. Now that I backed off a little and stopped pushing it, the last 2 times we’ve had regular sex, she stops and asks if I want to go grab the BBC dildo while in the middle of regular sex, and last night she mentioned and moaned how much she loves black cock and how she’s addicted to it while I was fucking her, and plenty of other stuff about it etc. this has to be a good sign right? Especially since SHE is the one asking for it now. How the hell do I make this actually become a reality? I feel like I’m getting close but I don’t want to be to pushy. This is comical that I’ve kept track, but a quick statistic that I’ve been tracking since I introduced the BBC Dildo back in July.. out of the 39 times we’ve had sex since the first time I brought it in the bedroom, 26 times were with the BBC dildo, with the other 13 being regular sex, she’s orgasmed 24 times with the BBC dildo, and 15 times with regular sex two of those times she came were after she got done getting off on the BBC first. Statistically speaking the dildo is the majority winner here. Would love any honest feedback/advice, so sorry for the long post.
 
Be patient and don’t ******* anything. Being pushy will turn her off. It’s not normal to fuck other men. It takes a lot of trust and self confidence to take that path. There are a lot of risks as well.
Basic start would be finding some quality cuck porn. Something more sensual than raw pounding. Many women prefer the fantasy vs the visual. During non sexual times have an open conversation about your fantasies. Don’t be pushy there either. Be open and honest, but then give her time to absorb it and think. It may shock her at first. But she may then come around. Stick w small steps like the dildo or porn. If you’re out and see a hot black guy just point him out and say he’s hot. Leave it at that. Her mind will already be thinking about your past fantasy talk. It exposes her to real life options and makes it real. This site may work for actually finding someone, but single guys on swinger sites is good too. Search together and expose her to how many others do the same. It makes it more normal and not just fake porn.
Again, be patient and talk about it.
 
mt11124 said:
I am 28 she’s 31, I introduced a BBC dildo into our sex life a few months back after finally growing a pair to try and fulfill my fantasy of becoming a cuck for BBC, and it’s been absolutely perfect, it’s a Shane Diesel Cock Sleeve, and it’s huge! I finally got her to watch some BBC porn too, and she came so hard while watching as I fucked her with it. My dick being only 5” is nowhere near the size comparison, her pussy feels constantly stretched. I keep telling her I want her to try the real thing… and she just gets annoyed, she said she doesn’t want to do anything with anyone else. Since that was said a few weeks back, I really backed off with all the BBC talk in bed, and trying to convince her. Through the several times we’ve used this in the bedroom, I was the only one who ever brought it up during sex to she if she was game for me to go grab it, almost 99% she said yes, and had amazing orgasms with it, and trust me, the sloppy seconds are the best, most men probably don’t like a loose hole to fuck after a huge cock has been in their woman, but I absolutely love it, she always mentions how small my cock feels after getting fucked with the dildo. Now that I backed off a little and stopped pushing it, the last 2 times we’ve had regular sex, she stops and asks if I want to go grab the BBC dildo while in the middle of regular sex, and last night she mentioned and moaned how much she loves black cock and how she’s addicted to it while I was fucking her, and plenty of other stuff about it etc. this has to be a good sign right? Especially since SHE is the one asking for it now. How the hell do I make this actually become a reality? I feel like I’m getting close but I don’t want to be to pushy. This is comical that I’ve kept track, but a quick statistic that I’ve been tracking since I introduced the BBC Dildo back in July.. out of the 39 times we’ve had sex since the first time I brought it in the bedroom, 26 times were with the BBC dildo, with the other 13 being regular sex, she’s orgasmed 24 times with the BBC dildo, and 15 times with regular sex two of those times she came were after she got done getting off on the BBC first. Statistically speaking the dildo is the majority winner here. Would love any honest feedback/advice, so sorry for the long post.
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If she keeps asking for it, seems like she's ready. Ask her if she would like the real thing for a change. Let her know that you support her fantasy and want to help her realize it. In my case it was like that as long as I get to watch, very hot.
 
mt11124 said:
I am 28 she’s 31, I introduced a BBC dildo into our sex life a few months back after finally growing a pair to try and fulfill my fantasy of becoming a cuck for BBC, and it’s been absolutely perfect, it’s a Shane Diesel Cock Sleeve, and it’s huge! I finally got her to watch some BBC porn too, and she came so hard while watching as I fucked her with it. My dick being only 5” is nowhere near the size comparison, her pussy feels constantly stretched. I keep telling her I want her to try the real thing… and she just gets annoyed, she said she doesn’t want to do anything with anyone else. Since that was said a few weeks back, I really backed off with all the BBC talk in bed, and trying to convince her. Through the several times we’ve used this in the bedroom, I was the only one who ever brought it up during sex to she if she was game for me to go grab it, almost 99% she said yes, and had amazing orgasms with it, and trust me, the sloppy seconds are the best, most men probably don’t like a loose hole to fuck after a huge cock has been in their woman, but I absolutely love it, she always mentions how small my cock feels after getting fucked with the dildo. Now that I backed off a little and stopped pushing it, the last 2 times we’ve had regular sex, she stops and asks if I want to go grab the BBC dildo while in the middle of regular sex, and last night she mentioned and moaned how much she loves black cock and how she’s addicted to it while I was fucking her, and plenty of other stuff about it etc. this has to be a good sign right? Especially since SHE is the one asking for it now. How the hell do I make this actually become a reality? I feel like I’m getting close but I don’t want to be to pushy. This is comical that I’ve kept track, but a quick statistic that I’ve been tracking since I introduced the BBC Dildo back in July.. out of the 39 times we’ve had sex since the first time I brought it in the bedroom, 26 times were with the BBC dildo, with the other 13 being regular sex, she’s orgasmed 24 times with the BBC dildo, and 15 times with regular sex two of those times she came were after she got done getting off on the BBC first. Statistically speaking the dildo is the majority winner here. Would love any honest feedback/advice, so sorry for the long post.
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I haven’t had the courage to buy a dildo, but when I do, I’ll definitely buy a black one so she associates it with true dominance
 
mt11124 said:
I am 28 she’s 31, I introduced a BBC dildo into our sex life a few months back after finally growing a pair to try and fulfill my fantasy of becoming a cuck for BBC, and it’s been absolutely perfect, it’s a Shane Diesel Cock Sleeve, and it’s huge! I finally got her to watch some BBC porn too, and she came so hard while watching as I fucked her with it. My dick being only 5” is nowhere near the size comparison, her pussy feels constantly stretched. I keep telling her I want her to try the real thing… and she just gets annoyed, she said she doesn’t want to do anything with anyone else. Since that was said a few weeks back, I really backed off with all the BBC talk in bed, and trying to convince her. Through the several times we’ve used this in the bedroom, I was the only one who ever brought it up during sex to she if she was game for me to go grab it, almost 99% she said yes, and had amazing orgasms with it, and trust me, the sloppy seconds are the best, most men probably don’t like a loose hole to fuck after a huge cock has been in their woman, but I absolutely love it, she always mentions how small my cock feels after getting fucked with the dildo. Now that I backed off a little and stopped pushing it, the last 2 times we’ve had regular sex, she stops and asks if I want to go grab the BBC dildo while in the middle of regular sex, and last night she mentioned and moaned how much she loves black cock and how she’s addicted to it while I was fucking her, and plenty of other stuff about it etc. this has to be a good sign right? Especially since SHE is the one asking for it now. How the hell do I make this actually become a reality? I feel like I’m getting close but I don’t want to be to pushy. This is comical that I’ve kept track, but a quick statistic that I’ve been tracking since I introduced the BBC Dildo back in July.. out of the 39 times we’ve had sex since the first time I brought it in the bedroom, 26 times were with the BBC dildo, with the other 13 being regular sex, she’s orgasmed 24 times with the BBC dildo, and 15 times with regular sex two of those times she came were after she got done getting off on the BBC first. Statistically speaking the dildo is the majority winner here. Would love any honest feedback/advice, so sorry for the long post.
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Just ask tell her that you’d love for her to try the real thing and see how she responds.
 
mt11124 said:
I am 28 she’s 31, I introduced a BBC dildo into our sex life a few months back after finally growing a pair to try and fulfill my fantasy of becoming a cuck for BBC, and it’s been absolutely perfect, it’s a Shane Diesel Cock Sleeve, and it’s huge! I finally got her to watch some BBC porn too, and she came so hard while watching as I fucked her with it. My dick being only 5” is nowhere near the size comparison, her pussy feels constantly stretched. I keep telling her I want her to try the real thing… and she just gets annoyed, she said she doesn’t want to do anything with anyone else. Since that was said a few weeks back, I really backed off with all the BBC talk in bed, and trying to convince her. Through the several times we’ve used this in the bedroom, I was the only one who ever brought it up during sex to she if she was game for me to go grab it, almost 99% she said yes, and had amazing orgasms with it, and trust me, the sloppy seconds are the best, most men probably don’t like a loose hole to fuck after a huge cock has been in their woman, but I absolutely love it, she always mentions how small my cock feels after getting fucked with the dildo. Now that I backed off a little and stopped pushing it, the last 2 times we’ve had regular sex, she stops and asks if I want to go grab the BBC dildo while in the middle of regular sex, and last night she mentioned and moaned how much she loves black cock and how she’s addicted to it while I was fucking her, and plenty of other stuff about it etc. this has to be a good sign right? Especially since SHE is the one asking for it now. How the hell do I make this actually become a reality? I feel like I’m getting close but I don’t want to be to pushy. This is comical that I’ve kept track, but a quick statistic that I’ve been tracking since I introduced the BBC Dildo back in July.. out of the 39 times we’ve had sex since the first time I brought it in the bedroom, 26 times were with the BBC dildo, with the other 13 being regular sex, she’s orgasmed 24 times with the BBC dildo, and 15 times with regular sex two of those times she came were after she got done getting off on the BBC first. Statistically speaking the dildo is the majority winner here. Would love any honest feedback/advice, so sorry for the long post.
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I guess you have to create the right conditions. In my opinion it's all about context. Plan a holiday to an island where the population is black. Choose a resort close to the beach and where the staff is black also. Start a conversation with a black man who meets your expectations. Get familiar with this man and ask him for a favor. Ask him to seduce your wife when you're not around. Ask him afterwards for his experiences. I guess you'll be surprised.
 
mt11124 said:
I am 28 she’s 31, I introduced a BBC dildo into our sex life a few months back after finally growing a pair to try and fulfill my fantasy of becoming a cuck for BBC, and it’s been absolutely perfect, it’s a Shane Diesel Cock Sleeve, and it’s huge! I finally got her to watch some BBC porn too, and she came so hard while watching as I fucked her with it. My dick being only 5” is nowhere near the size comparison, her pussy feels constantly stretched. I keep telling her I want her to try the real thing… and she just gets annoyed, she said she doesn’t want to do anything with anyone else. Since that was said a few weeks back, I really backed off with all the BBC talk in bed, and trying to convince her. Through the several times we’ve used this in the bedroom, I was the only one who ever brought it up during sex to she if she was game for me to go grab it, almost 99% she said yes, and had amazing orgasms with it, and trust me, the sloppy seconds are the best, most men probably don’t like a loose hole to fuck after a huge cock has been in their woman, but I absolutely love it, she always mentions how small my cock feels after getting fucked with the dildo. Now that I backed off a little and stopped pushing it, the last 2 times we’ve had regular sex, she stops and asks if I want to go grab the BBC dildo while in the middle of regular sex, and last night she mentioned and moaned how much she loves black cock and how she’s addicted to it while I was fucking her, and plenty of other stuff about it etc. this has to be a good sign right? Especially since SHE is the one asking for it now. How the hell do I make this actually become a reality? I feel like I’m getting close but I don’t want to be to pushy. This is comical that I’ve kept track, but a quick statistic that I’ve been tracking since I introduced the BBC Dildo back in July.. out of the 39 times we’ve had sex since the first time I brought it in the bedroom, 26 times were with the BBC dildo, with the other 13 being regular sex, she’s orgasmed 24 times with the BBC dildo, and 15 times with regular sex two of those times she came were after she got done getting off on the BBC first. Statistically speaking the dildo is the majority winner here. Would love any honest feedback/advice, so sorry for the long post.
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It would be a mistake to rush her to do something she is not comfortable with. Give it time.
 
Naughtygators said:
Be patient and don’t ******* anything. Being pushy will turn her off. It’s not normal to fuck other men. It takes a lot of trust and self confidence to take that path. There are a lot of risks as well.
Basic start would be finding some quality cuck porn. Something more sensual than raw pounding. Many women prefer the fantasy vs the visual. During non sexual times have an open conversation about your fantasies. Don’t be pushy there either. Be open and honest, but then give her time to absorb it and think. It may shock her at first. But she may then come around. Stick w small steps like the dildo or porn. If you’re out and see a hot black guy just point him out and say he’s hot. Leave it at that. Her mind will already be thinking about your past fantasy talk. It exposes her to real life options and makes it real. This site may work for actually finding someone, but single guys on swinger sites is good too. Search together and expose her to how many others do the same. It makes it more normal and not just fake porn.
Again, be patient and talk about it.
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Thanks for sharing? I know there are countless thread on this topic already, but any specific videos that you recommend that meet the criteria you discussed?
 
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