Okay going to go for short and sweet so I don't write a book here. Been married for 11 years and did 1 threesome with a white guy year two of our marriage. Great time was had by all. I've been trying to get BBC in her mind with the willingness to try since she had it once before I knew her and claims to have loved it. We have watched IR porn, she has a realistic BBC dildo that we enjoy using on her and she talks about it during sex because she knows it gets me off crazy good. She likes to talk and play with the idea in bed. Months ago I let the talk get a little extra wild and I made her uncomfortable asking her to cheat on me. Next day she is telling me that it's hard to just have sex with someone and that she worries about gaining feelings for a bull and that she doesn't need anyone else. So my question is, if you were in my shoes, what would you do? Should I talk about it more and try to encourage her more? We're happy and in a good place. I find IR hot and I want her to be totally satisfied and mind blown. It's a huge fantasy of mine but I don't want to be pushy. I don't talk about it too often anymore but I think about it daily. So be honest and speak your mind. What would you honestly do?
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Cheating is a turn off to many women. Maybe use different terms, tell her it's just for fun. Hubby and I love each other very much and need nothing else. Anything else we bring in is for us to have fun, that's it.
That makes sense and I didn't mean for it to come out sounding bad. Maybe if I explain it differently it will help. I'm trying tonight since we have sexy time planned.
Lick her clit while you use that dildo on her. Make her cum like never before with it, then tell her how much you love to see her cum on big cocks! Definitely helped us make the leap
I do that. I think she is thinking "it's just fantasy" and I'm thinking it could be reality.
Drop “your” fantasy for now and ask her if she has fantasies. Sounds like she wants to experience a black guy again or she definitely thinks about it. This subject is private to her and the only way you will get her to do it is if you are out of the picture. By that I mean no where around her when she does it. This is something she doesn’t want to share with you. If you totally dropped it I don’t think she would cheat but she would keep it a secret thinking about it.
Make any fantasy talk about her and her only. If she says she has no fantasies then drop it all together. Either keep it to yourself or find another woman. She’s not the right one for you. I understand you having thoughts and getting excited at the thought but to make it happen both of you have to be on the same page.
Make any fantasy talk about her and her only. If she says she has no fantasies then drop it all together. Either keep it to yourself or find another woman. She’s not the right one for you. I understand you having thoughts and getting excited at the thought but to make it happen both of you have to be on the same page.
Thanks. I'll approach it that way tonight when we talk. If she doesn't want it then I'm okay with it. Her talking about it makes me crazy with excitement and I don't understand why she entertains the fantasy if she feels like she'd be against it. We'll see what happens.
My fiancé likes to talk about it but usually around her fertile time. This is biological of course and when shes not in her “Horney stage” as I call it, she tolerates it sporadically and gets revel up if I egg it on. The week or so during her good mood time it’s insane. We went out one night for dinner and while sitting down having a few drinks she out of the blue asked, “Hey why don’t you message one of those guys I picked out on AFF.” I was so mad at myself. I could have set it up that night but hell I didn’t know her mood at that point. No one was available in her small circle of cocks unfortunately. This is most assuredly the issue with your SO. Try to figure out when she’s more open to talking about this, I bet it’s around her ovulation period.
My woman told me that if I surprise her it’s probably good that I get her in her horny time so she would be receptive to her surprise.
My woman told me that if I surprise her it’s probably good that I get her in her horny time so she would be receptive to her surprise.
Thanks for the tip. We had sex last night and of course she brought up BBC again since she knows it gets me good every time. I thought about the responses I received here and decided to ask her and this is how it went.
Me: Can I ask you a question?
Her: sure
Me: That fantasy talk about BBC, is it something you ever think about or is it just fantasy talk?
Her: it's just fantasy. Why?
Me: I was just wondering if you wanted to experience BBC again since you told me how good it was your first time.
Her: no, those are scary.
Me: what? BBC?
Her: you know I got the clap from that remember? (Curable std)
Me: well there are condoms and std tests
Her: yeah but that was the worst experience of my life after the sex.
Me: well don't let one bad apple ruin the whole bushel. It's up to you though, I know you get turned on when we talk about it and if you decide that you want to try again just let me know. I can help get you set up if you'd like.
Her: okay I will.
That's how the post sex talk went last night. So I guess I should let it go and leave the ball in her court. Seems like the best move. As long as she is happy I am too.
Me: Can I ask you a question?
Her: sure
Me: That fantasy talk about BBC, is it something you ever think about or is it just fantasy talk?
Her: it's just fantasy. Why?
Me: I was just wondering if you wanted to experience BBC again since you told me how good it was your first time.
Her: no, those are scary.
Me: what? BBC?
Her: you know I got the clap from that remember? (Curable std)
Me: well there are condoms and std tests
Her: yeah but that was the worst experience of my life after the sex.
Me: well don't let one bad apple ruin the whole bushel. It's up to you though, I know you get turned on when we talk about it and if you decide that you want to try again just let me know. I can help get you set up if you'd like.
Her: okay I will.
That's how the post sex talk went last night. So I guess I should let it go and leave the ball in her court. Seems like the best move. As long as she is happy I am too.
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that is correct - like your cum from her pussy and say you are fantasizing that you are licking his cum from her pussy.
Well if you give her the ideas put black cock in her mind but don’t hound her about it just let her think about and be real submissive let her know that you’ll always be obedient that you won’t ever go with another woman ever. You are ok with her experimenting sexually she free to try what ever she wants
