Okay going to go for short and sweet so I don't write a book here. Been married for 11 years and did 1 threesome with a white guy year two of our marriage. Great time was had by all. I've been trying to get BBC in her mind with the willingness to try since she had it once before I knew her and claims to have loved it. We have watched IR porn, she has a realistic BBC dildo that we enjoy using on her and she talks about it during sex because she knows it gets me off crazy good. She likes to talk and play with the idea in bed. Months ago I let the talk get a little extra wild and I made her uncomfortable asking her to cheat on me. Next day she is telling me that it's hard to just have sex with someone and that she worries about gaining feelings for a bull and that she doesn't need anyone else. So my question is, if you were in my shoes, what would you do? Should I talk about it more and try to encourage her more? We're happy and in a good place. I find IR hot and I want her to be totally satisfied and mind blown. It's a huge fantasy of mine but I don't want to be pushy. I don't talk about it too often anymore but I think about it daily. So be honest and speak your mind. What would you honestly do?