I know my situation is not unique. We are a white married couple in our early 50's. My wife has been true and faithful to me for the 25 years we have been together. She is very conservative and want to remain with only me as her sexual partner. I am much more adventurous and have been wanting to have her bedded by black men. I have told her my desires and she seems to be more accepting of my fantasy but still wont agree to do it. I need advise and to be frankly told of the benefits and more importantly, the downfalls of my fantasy.