She said she "keep(s) blowing him off" not she keeps blowing him (as in: giving him blowjobs)
*SmH* You are too funny!
But i agree with you full-heartedly that life goes on and it has to go on. ImO it is a very bad idea to subtract the Woman from the m0ther that the OP is. She is one human being, both (woman and mom) rolled into one person! Denying one of those roles means neclecting herself. Life goes on and time goes by and there will be the day when she will be an empty-nester. Then she will be looking back and see that you can't bring back time. - But of course that does not mean she has to rush anything! Making mature and wise decisions is still key. Flirting and having a crush does not necessarily mean making a good match or being married one day.
But if she likes him, not making the first step means she will never find out and possibly it will be her loss, who knows?!
Other than that i have to say the OP's post is quite ridiculous! Going on a date or not going on a date, having or not having a relationship is not at all related to a person's skin color or the sex of a family member. What a stupid thought! *SmH* In the end it will be her decision and - no matter the upbringing (what values has she, the mom, tought her s0n?
) - he will have to accept it! - Just my two very small pieces of nickles worth.