How would you conclude a Real Meeting with someone of here

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Mootje, Dec 6, 2015.

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How to verify that a person is serious about meeting?

  1. Face Pic with a name and or body Pic with a name

    7 vote(s)
    29.2%
  2. Phone call

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    62.5%
  3. Skype cam Chat

    7 vote(s)
    29.2%
  4. Other

    6 vote(s)
    25.0%
  5. non of the above

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  1. Mootje

    Mootje Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I have been trying to hook up with some serious white women on here, i had some very possible leads , i started to only try to hook up with Real verified members to decrease the risks, at least they are verified as REAL, then i started to look around in Europe as its in my reach, few hours flight I can be anywhere within Europe.
    I sent all my possible leads which have been talking with, verification personal pics for them, face pics, naked pics with their names on a paper holding it in hands lmao.. gave out my personal phone number, and when it comes to be concluded they don't Verify them selves..
    Though, i know even after verifying each other they might not show up, there is still a chance, but at least you got to know that the Real person you supposed to meet is the one you been talking with. in Simple what you see is what you will get.

    Will appreciate the community to help me out and please share your experiences / thoughts / ideas.
    Thanks for your participation.
     
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  2. Mootje

    Mootje Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I hope that you guys and girls in here share their thoughts,
     
  3. JustHotWifeCouple

    JustHotWifeCouple Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    You will never know if someone is real, The only way to know if someone is REAL and want to meet not just bullshit online... if the person is verified by another person...

    Not sure how hard it will be to make it on blackowhite, but for example on SDC people verify each other and also verify parties and clubs that makes someone more real.

    That's how we make sure if someone is real and serious.
     
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  4. Ann4BBC

    Ann4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Hi Mootje, I think when arranging to meet anyone, we always speak on the phone first and then do a mixture of Wattsapp and verbal chatting on the phone. You can tell by the voice and how they sound if they are genuine and genuinely interested.
    I've never met anyone off here, but there are enough genuine people. I think it could depend a bit where you are, a lot of people on here are in USA so there will be more genuine meets there, or even here in UK. Anywhere else and it might be difficult. X
     
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  5. Amalia

    Amalia Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Obviously this post is related to this morning I decided not to spend the weekend with you, I have given more than enough samples that I'm a real woman.
    When Friday accepted by both parties to spend the next weekend together, and even give you my phone number does not lead including you send me messages constantly and overwhelming way, I leave my position clear: When you arrive in Madrid and you're in your hotel, send me a whatsapp, I'll fuck your hotel for the weekend, JUST SEX and accepted. But Saturday morning decided to change the rules exigiendome a series of photographs from the beginning I told you not going to send, if you read my post, one clearly stated that I am not a submissive woman, I do not own, in short, I am a woman-ALFA, but I get the feeling that you came to Madrid with idea of expanding your harem of whores at your service, I respect your role, but also respects your mine.
    Do not take it personally
     
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  6. Mootje

    Mootje Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    First thanks for the intervention, i know u would never be sure that they will end up to show up.. but at least u would know that they are genuine and willing and interested
     
  7. Mootje

    Mootje Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I am not here to Argue Amalia, I am simply looking to how normal people to meet will act to verify each other.. You are such a Verified beautiful member and woman, i have no doubt.. its just the approach, i think this ALFA BETA thing is not the issue here .. anyhow don't you too take it personally, its not a BLIND date indefinetly, there are some simple rules, I am not Your slave as well, and not asking u to be one of my HAREEM.. so cool down n chill girl, U do know very well i am much more real and its not an argument.
    Anyhow thank you for popping up in here and replying to me.
    Don't you too take it personally.. Thanks for your reply.
     
  8. Mootje

    Mootje Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I am really would appreciate more interventions from our community and members.
     
  9. lkg4fun

    lkg4fun Moderator Staff Member Gold Member Real Person

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    Personally, I would never agree to meeting anyone without receiving an email address, knowing more about them, pictures of what they look like. If we are talking distance, then phone conversation either voice or via text would be required. I may look at things differently than others because I'm not looking to see how many people I can fuck, but for ongoing friendship /relationship. If they don't want to take time beforehand, that's okay. There are many others who would/do. Don't let it get to you, Mootje. Life is too short.
     
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  10. Mootje

    Mootje Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    awwwwww thanks Ikg , I thought i was rude to ask her to verify for me with any kind of verification .. i was just trying to know if i was Rude, improper to ask,muuuaaaaaaaaaaaahhh thanks for contribution and for your feed in XOXOX
     
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  11. Amalia

    Amalia Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Nor am I to argue, but there is one detail that I do not understand, if on Friday we leave all the details worked out, you think my proposal well and even make a reservation of hotel in Madrid, why do you ask me Saturday evidence of my authenticity, Is it that you think before the cock with the brain ?, in this forum there are a lot of photographs of women with your name written on her pussy and her ass and I realized that I would not be one more of them.
    On the other hand, I think I've shown signs that I am a real woman, rising to regular photographs forum sufficiently demonstrative, but avoiding to show my face, it's my right, and I sent picture of my face to any member that I would have been asked but I decide whom to send it, and in your case, I did not find a timely decision simply because in your business card say you are the owner of a person, and I'm not owned by anyone, for me a black man is not an estate, is just a lover.
    It is clear that we are incompatible, I wish you find what you are looking for.
    A greeting.
    Amalia
     
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  12. Mootje

    Mootje Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thank you for your lengthy reply, i asked you for authenticity as we are now in REAL to meet, and its not much for you to send me something to make me feel secure and tha you are up for it, please read most of the replies and see that it is very normal for both parties to show or talk to each other, i asked you that i call you and u said why? I think wat i asked of you was Normal and fair.
    Comingto my Business card .. Women that have my name on them have nothing to do with you, and each n every pic i post i never Post unless they approve. So you know nothing about me or them, so please don't go to that owned thing, as this is out of subject.
    It was so simple that if we agree to meet SIMPLE RULE to TRUST EACH OTHER WITH SOME SIMPLE VERIFICATION.
    Please read the comments and the votes so far.
    And still you are REAL i have no doubt in that, you are a very sexy and beautiful woman, but i think you got me wrong.
    Thank you again and i am looking only for real people to have fun and fuck simple as that.
     
  13. Amalia

    Amalia Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    in the future I suggest that before taking a decisive step (buy a plane ticket or reserve a hotel room) let all perfectly clarified detail, since otherwise it seems that you act on instinct instead of acting on intelligence, if wanted a proof of my commitment, he has asked on Friday and not on Saturday when I was totally convinced that we would have a blind date, I assure you I would not have missed the appointment, I was very excited, the situation gave me much morbidity but at your insistence, the illness was losing value, to the point that I lost all interest in meeting you
     
  14. Mootje

    Mootje Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    @Amalia i will reply on you in your private message, as this thread was not meant for that nonsense argument.
     
  15. Kuno

    Kuno Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Some of those people may not necessarily be fakes. They could just decide that they don't want to move forward to a real time meet-up and don't have the courage to just say so.
     
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  16. Mootje

    Mootje Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thanks Kuno for your reply, i am just here wondering how would we conclude a real meeting, but yeah i can understand that they might not have the courage to say so.. but still if you meeting some one in Ohio would you not ask to be sure exchange phones talk w her/ him and arrange ur meeting? what would u do ..
     
  17. Kuno

    Kuno Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Skype or phone verify are the best ways. In order to make something happen, there has to be a few things to come together.

    1.) Willingness by all participants
    2.) Relative geographic proximity (although there are other people who'd get on a plane to do it)

    As far as the psychology of people who are fakes/flakes here, who knows? It most likely would come up in conversation.
     
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  18. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I've met one woman from this site. We began chatting because we were semi-local, and as we chatted we discovered that we had common interests, so our conversations were more than the generic "hi, let's fuck." We continued to chat for several months before we had our first face to face meeting. That first time was in public for coffee and getting to know each other better, nothing more. A few months later, when our schedules allowed, we met again in a more intimate setting. We have continued to chat, although because of our work and other obligations, we haven't been able to meet again.

    If you're going to meet with somebody, via this site, any other site, or any other way that people connect these days, I would advise chatting and phone conversations for a while first before trying to schedule any kind of in person meeting. While chatting isn't the be all end all, you can at least establish if there is any common ground and a base level of sanity (hopefully). After that, schedule a non-sex in person meeting, so this way you can establish that they are who they say they are, and if either one isn't satisfied with how the other looks (if one or both lied), then after than you can either end it or go further.

    I know for the guys that lead with their dick my post will seem like a complete waste of time and energy, but if you want to save yourself the time, energy, and possibly money, take it slow and cultivate some kind of relationship, even if it is just superficial.
     
  19. bigblackbull76

    bigblackbull76 My BBC would bodyslam KingKong off top the Empire Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    @Mootje - Got your message asking for a contribution on the post. To be completely honest and to keep this short, simple and to the point most of the couples and women I have met are looking to live out a fantasy. They have something in particular in mind they are looking for, most likely something and someone that resembles what they've saw in a porno or some other movie. Most of the times this is a Muscular, Blackman who is hung and can fuck for a long time.

    If the guy meets what the couple, or woman is looking for and after spending time exchanging formalities via phone, email, etc. then a meeting might take place. I don't, and wouldn't put too much energy, effort, and especially money into trying to meet someone. If they are real and interested then they would make the serious effort to meet. I know guys want it to be easy like ordering a pizza off the internet but its simply not the case.

    Everything else that needs to be said on this topic I already wrote on this thread (need to be logged in to read it): https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/much-needed-public-service-announcement.44186/

    ~BBB76
     
  20. Mootje

    Mootje Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thank you for the contribution, and i totally agree on most of what you said. And this is what exactly i did be4 when meeting some other cpls off other sites, we first got phone talks, skype verification for both of us, met over few drinks then we went further more after we liked each other.