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Though both me and my wife have a deep urge to be in a cuckold relationship, somehow our upbringing and moral views keep coming in the way of taking next steps. Is there any way to get clarity about these issues and how you as a couple got over this hurdle. Any similar experiences would be of...
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reactions brings up a good point.
I'm inspired to mention that my opinion is that people should
get back to meeting people organically—"out in the wild."
Meeting people online can be awkward and time consuming with little to show for it. Putting all your effort into one prospect for a minimum of a week; we all know it's usually more. There just comes a point in your life where meeting these strangers on line, although fun, and has its place. It should take a much smaller percentage of time in your campaign. I'm using sales and marketing terms, because that what it is. We should treat it seriously with a quality effort.
A member here mentioned he stopped geting home delivery for groceries. He has very good luck at Walmart. Many others chimed in with their favorite spot. Target, Starbucks..... Hell, even your local Wallgreens, and CVS when you pick up your prescription *******. Search for a answer to the spiritual conflict some if you may have. (There are some who have an answer for this) There are lonely people all around us looking for opportunities.
Now, are these people all looking for Cuckold or Stag/Vixen relationships? No, of course not. But, statistically some of them are open to it. Meet people, make friends, build a network. Social and work. Get to know people, enjoy yourselve. Then, ask open ended probing questions. Questions that are not just a yes or no answer.
Over time, you will develop several groups of friends. You will know them well. Consequently, you will start to realize what their unrealized needs are.
So go ahead and hit me with your thoughts. Yes, it's diffrent the normal posts. Sometime you have to think out of the box. A different paradiem. Solve the problem looking through a diffrent lens.
I'm expecting numerous objections on why it will not work. Probably from couples where what they are currently doing doesn't work.