How often should your cuck be allowed to cum

[whiteshadoe]

We are still far from a cuckold / IR relation. The reason I'm interested in this thread is that my husband does ejaculate easily anytime, just by watching IR porn or talking about me having intercourse with black men. He's well endowed (7in) and I enjoy sex with him very much. But since we started considering 'going black', he started watching more IR porn and visiting the forum on his own. I have noticed his performance at work diminished - we work together at the same place, just diff offices - and he gets easily tired when we go to the gym. Our IR fantasy / objective is me having sex with a black man and he watching and penetrating me after the black man finished. But I don't think he will be able to withhold as he even ejaculates without touching himself when we both watch porn. And I don't like him getting off without me.
These chastity cages would be a step to far perhaps, but sound like an ideal solution to his problems. But I don't want him to suffer any side effects. Regardless whether he might be developing an attraction to black male genitals, I want him to stay as he is, potent and assertive, but without independent ejaculations of any kind. Are there any alternatives to the the chastity cage that won't harm the genitals long term?

If you want him to last longer then he should ejaculate more frequently, not less.

 

[whitecuckold2003]

I think better to come any time the cuckold wants, but only when watching her wife having sex with her black lover, or watching IR porn and mostly gay IR porn films.

Yes, I can look at porn whenever I want, but only IR/cuckolding/femdom. Sometimes my wife likes to control the computer while I jerk off. She picks the porn.

 

[GiselaHoll]

If you want him to last longer then he should ejaculate more frequently, not less.

He does always last long.

 

[Cuckloversissy]

No real question here. Until the cuck submits fully to his mistress there is zero pleasure for him. Make his life living agony in every way until he stops resisting and accepts what is happening to him and how his marriage/relationship has changed.

 

[heinrich]

Yes, I can look at porn whenever I want, but only IR/cuckolding/femdom. Sometimes my wife likes to control the computer while I jerk off. She picks the porn.

So great !!

 

[Idahoqueen]

We are still far from a cuckold / IR relation. The reason I'm interested in this thread is that my husband does ejaculate easily anytime, just by watching IR porn or talking about me having intercourse with black men. He's well endowed (7in) and I enjoy sex with him very much. But since we started considering 'going black', he started watching more IR porn and visiting the forum on his own. I have noticed his performance at work diminished - we work together at the same place, just diff offices - and he gets easily tired when we go to the gym. Our IR fantasy / objective is me having sex with a black man and he watching and penetrating me after the black man finished. But I don't think he will be able to withhold as he even ejaculates without touching himself when we both watch porn. And I don't like him getting off without me.
These chastity cages would be a step to far perhaps, but sound like an ideal solution to his problems. But I don't want him to suffer any side effects. Regardless whether he might be developing an attraction to black male genitals, I want him to stay as he is, potent and assertive, but without independent ejaculations of any kind. Are there any alternatives to the the chastity cage that won't harm the genitals long term?

Hi girlfriend! I wish I could give you positive news but not many white men come back from this. Especially after you get blackened. Eventually it’s all he will think about and the master bating gets much worse. I’ve seen couples try sex addict therapy but it never works. Eventually impotence kicks in because he will masterbate so much he ends up having a hard time staying hard. Then he eventually trains himself to cum without getting hard. The cage will at least make him focus on your desires, not his. Once you experience a black cock inside you and his intense support and excitement you will see it’s not that bad to go down this road. Everyone experiences maximum sexual pleasure.

 

[GiselaHoll]

Hi girlfriend! I wish I could give you positive news but not many white men come back from this. Especially after you get blackened. Eventually it’s all he will think about and the master bating gets much worse. I’ve seen couples try sex addict therapy but it never works. Eventually impotence kicks in because he will masterbate so much he ends up having a hard time staying hard. Then he eventually trains himself to cum without getting hard. The cage will at least make him focus on your desires, not his. Once you experience a black cock inside you and his intense support and excitement you will see it’s not that bad to go down this road. Everyone experiences maximum sexual pleasure.

Thanks for the warning and recommendation. I guess I have to ponder the chances that he still likes to have sex with me and sloppy seconds after the black partner. Perhaps we should start sooner and that will distract him from masturbating.

 

[Idahoqueen]

Thanks for the warning and recommendation. I guess I have to ponder the chances that he still likes to have sex with me and sloppy seconds after the black partner. Perhaps we should start sooner and that will distract him from masturbating.

Yes, I wouldn’t wait another day. His sexuality will come out one way or another. It’s best you control it. Plus once you experience this you will wish you wouldn’t have waited so long. You are lucky to have a husband like him that is wanting such an amazing sex life for both of you. He will want sloppy seconds for a while but most likely he will want to eat your pussy after the bull is done. Either way, you will get a massive amount of his sexual energy, it will just be diffferent. You should go forward and don’t look back. Good luck sweetly! Enjoy!

 

[GiselaHoll]

He will want sloppy seconds for a while but most likely he will want to eat your pussy after the bull is done.

Eeww! Really? Do all men go that way? He's good at doing it when clean, but he can't even taste his own sperm.

you will get a massive amount of his sexual energy, it will just be diffferent.

I'd like to preserve his 7in that make me happy every night. I want to convince him to not destroy himself.

 

[Idahoqueen]

Eeww! Really? Do all men go that way? He's good at doing it when clean, but he can't even taste his own sperm.


I'd like to preserve his 7in that make me happy every night. I want to convince him to not destroy himself.

Sweetie, you haven’t had a 9+ thick black piece of man meat yet. Plus, I’m telling you, they were made for fucking. They are very good at what they do. You can try to preserve your hubby but trust me, the alternative is not bad, not bad at all. He may not want to eat right away but as he watches your sexual high with a black stallion, he will drift to the submissive side. Eventually he will be arroused by being the submissive. Just commit to it and enjoy. That’s my advice.

 

[Idahoqueen]

Sweetie, you haven’t had a 9+ thick black piece of man meat yet. Plus, I’m telling you, they were made for fucking. They are very good at what they do. You can try to preserve your hubby but trust me, the alternative is not bad, not bad at all. He may not want to eat right away but as he watches your sexual high with a black stallion, he will drift to the submissive side. Eventually he will be arroused by being the submissive. Just commit to it and enjoy. That’s my advice.

They also cum by the buckets. They are just genetically sexually superior in every way. It’s intense!!

 

[jane mintu]

They also cum by the buckets. They are just genetically sexually superior in every way. It’s intense!!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[GiselaHoll]

They also cum by the buckets. They are just genetically sexually superior in every way. It’s intense!!

I know. I've watched and seen a lot on this site. And that's what gets me weak knees, not to mention some wetness, I'm ashamed to admit.

 

[GiselaHoll]

Sweetie, you haven’t had a 9+ thick black piece of man meat yet. Plus, I’m telling you, they were made for fucking. They are very good at what they do. You can try to preserve your hubby but trust me, the alternative is not bad, not bad at all. He may not want to eat right away but as he watches your sexual high with a black stallion, he will drift to the submissive side. Eventually he will be arroused by being the submissive. Just commit to it and enjoy. That’s my advice.

If that prevents the caging and potential atrophy, I'm ready to sacrifice my body

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

, No offence intended. I look at things through a complete different view. I have always understood cuckolding as simply a husband and wife, working together allowing her to have sex with other men. As I see it, very clearly by the way. Each case I read here has gone beyond just the wife having sex with other men, into many other forms of alternant lifestyles. Many times I see what this couple or that couple is doing and I know it is something else entirely and is.in the realm of practices from other fetishes. I am not judging a soul on here, if each couple is satisfied with adding more into cuckolding it certainly is their choice. But we cannot say to someone else this is cuckolding and do it this way. Please bare with me as I put myself in the cuckolding role wanted for me. All of these or other fetish driven Dominance and submission. Alpha and beta, Bull worship and his input into a couples sex life, denial and chastity , cream pie eating and male sex with a bull, sissification and Bi-sexuality, I would say that a huge majority of the threads on this site qualify as over and above cuckolding, for me that is fine but for many of you and not for me. Being a cuckold husband does not allow others to change who he is and has nothing to do with lowering his standard as a man, a husband, and a sexual partner with the woman he married.

Very well stated. Those are mixtures of different kinks rolled into "personalized" adult lifestyles that may suit particular couples but have not necessarily much to do with the cuckold/Hotwife lifestyle/relationship per se.

 

[slinky1]

Hi girlfriend! I wish I could give you positive news but not many white men come back from this. Especially after you get blackened. Eventually it’s all he will think about and the master bating gets much worse. I’ve seen couples try sex addict therapy but it never works. Eventually impotence kicks in because he will masterbate so much he ends up having a hard time staying hard. Then he eventually trains himself to cum without getting hard. The cage will at least make him focus on your desires, not his. Once you experience a black cock inside you and his intense support and excitement you will see it’s not that bad to go down this road. Everyone experiences maximum sexual pleasure.

I'd agree with this. I can ejaculate without anything that even resembles and erection, all I have to do is continuously roll the soft head of my penis between my finger and thumb for a minute or so and i'll cum. If i'm watching alpha bulls, slutty wives or sub cucks/ sissies I can cum in less than a minute. Plus, your brain does sort of rewire itself, and once you start to compulsively masturbate to cuckolding porn, large cocks etc. and your orgasms become stronger, your brain just finds the shortest path from A to B.

So regular porn/sex becomes that brand of budget beer your not that fond of, but you'll ******* it if your thirsty enough, but cuckolding, well hung aggressive bulls with copious amounts of semen, slut wives and cocksucking sissies, becomes your favourite brand of beer in an ice cold glass, that you always crave.

 

[poundcake26]

Plus, your brain does sort of rewire itself, and once you start to compulsively masturbate to cuckolding porn, large cocks etc. and your orgasms become stronger, your brain just finds the shortest path from A to B.

Neuroplasticity is no joke.

 

[Andrea38]

They also cum by the buckets. They are just genetically sexually superior in every way. It’s intense!!

What's grey and comes in buckets?

 

[NoDirkDiggler]

 

[Rodshorty]

I am allowed to jerk off once a week, but not always to orgasm. I get to orgasm once or twice a month

I can't cum with no balls just a little dribble is all for me