How not to feel emasculated by this fetish as a white guy?

[Skiptracer4002]

There's a lot to unpack here...First, take control of your thoughts. This fetish, should it translate into real life experiences, will not lead to you being perpetually undervalued and disrespected in an interpersonal relationship. Everyone has insecurities and shortfalls, it seems like you can easily identify one of yours. Lean into those feelings when you're in the discovery part of your next relationship. Be vulnerable and express all those feelings with a woman you think you'd like to share this (and more) with. Turn your feelings of shame and embarrassment into a springboard for growth, exploration, and ultimately a mutual and committed relationship. Your insecurity is holding you back, and taking control will help you be in a place to lead a woman to this lifestyle from a place of support and security. You may never have an Alpha dick but you can have Alpha energy.

 

[Titan755]

I’m an averaged sized white guy and that’s part of the turn on for me is letting my gf have sex with someone with a much bigger dick. I still get her to orgasm even with my dick and in many other ways. But offering/allowing her someone much bigger is part of the fantasy. I don’t feel like any less of a man. Don’t be hard on yourself (pun intended ayyy). A lot of the orgasm for women comes from clitoral stimulation or stimulating the G spot. And I even have some white female friends who I’ve been dead open about my fantasy with and they still said some bbc couldn’t get them off regardless of size.

Hope some of this perspective helps ya out

U told nice

 

[AtlCuck]

As a white guy who really likes interracial porn, especially bmwf, its hard not to feel like a bit of a loser. Doubly so when you're small like me at only 4.4 inches hard, with balls that aren't all that big either.
Whenever I watch porn, whether its amateur hotwife/cuckold couples or something like BLACKED, I can't help but feel I'll never stack up to this, and that as a man I'm always going to fall short of even the more humble desires of a woman. Of course, a part of me finds this really hot. The inferiority does make me feel ashamed, but also it is a bit of a turn on.
It just feels really difficult to work with. I feel bad for this fetish because I can't enjoy it without feeling a mixture of shame and embarrassment. It doesn't feel right that I like this, yet whenever a woman talks about how a white cock like mine couldn't satisfy her, or fucks a black man because her white partner wasn't making her happy, I get really aroused.

How do other white guys balance this feeling of shame and humiliation with the fact they enjoy it in the moment?

I LOVE being emasculated and humiliated outside of eating creampies it is my favorite part of being a cuck.

 

[spuries80]

It's a sexual fetish and doesnt define and there's no reason to feel emasculated,it's like havinf your GF/partner/wife as your favourite pornstar i'm personally not small (5inch9) but i have that kink and i'm working to slowly bring the idea to my GF...