You are better than us. We are going on vacation and hopefully shake this bug of sex with others off
How many of you have been with muslim wives or single muslim girls
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Going to try it to get over it?
That's the thing, will you shake it off or will it open the floodgates? What concerns me is the whole thing getting out of control and where do you draw the line? It's difficult...
Sorry I'm not sure what you are asking
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I had Lebanese girl friend who was very shy initially but once we had first bbc she never felt anything regret etc.
You draw the line by staying away from the whiff of it. Else it can suck you in. Our red flags already are stories of men losing their libido and having no sex with blacked wives and we are already feeling low self esteem after posting pics
Sorry I misundestood your previous post, I thought you said you were going to explore hence my draw the line post, and it's the best thing to do really, I feel we opened up ourselves to this stuff by watching porn etc but when you have been married for a while it's hard not to want excitement, we have used dildos to good effect and tried to be adventurous within reason
Marvelous!! I hope lesbianism spreads there too plus the men should encourage it and maybe tie it into Sharia law? ?
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I understand, I've not really posted on here more just joined to read others experiences but it's interesting to see others with similar issues and desires, it's also interesting to see the men are the main initiators and instigators, if it wasn't for my own resolve we would have done all sorts by now, the potentially worrying thing is we don't really feel any guilt about anything we have done so far.
Yea there's a difference between desire and what our religion prohibits......
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I guess your last sentence that made me finally write. I smiled when you wrote about a Merciful and Forgiving Lord. For sure it is a battle between being true to what you believe in and what you fantasize and desire - but it is and everlasting hope that there will be respite at the end. I am new here - is there a reason why i cannot send you a message? Just out of curiosity - how did this fantasy come in to your lives and how did it evolve? You say your husband initiated it but do you feel you had a role to play in its evolution?
As I mentioned earlier, in our case, my husband was not really the instigator. However, you are right that in most couples, it seems that the husband does introduce the idea to a reluctant wife.
You should do only what you both are comfortable with. If you are conflicted about an activity, you are probably not ready to try it. We did find, however, that taking baby steps outside our comfort zone allowed us to experience new adventures. If any activity turned out to be less than positive for either of us, we would not do it again or would figure out why we did not enjoy it.
The key to success is open communication between husband and wife, and understanding expectations and limits of each partner. We made some mistakes along the way, but in the end the lifestyle has worked out for us wonderfully. After years of near-monogamy, being with other partners exposed us to variety, but also taught us things that we could bring back to our own marriage. Paradoxically, we had more sex with each other after opening up our marriage. This is true for many other couples as well.
We have evolved into more of a cuckolding situation over the past couple of years. However, this is not because of any deficiency on the part of my husband. We are merely enjoying the kink of denial for now, but it does not have to be forever.
Bro some of these pics are American women pretending. I’ve seen these pics on xhamster. Yeah I like porn lol
WELL ! They weren't Lutherans !!!!!!!
Well that's the thing I have no actual reservations about doing stuff I am turned on by it and I want to it's more the fear of the aftermath and would could change etc. I actually really want to try a threesome with another woman and we talked about just me being able to play with the girl. He says he loves the idea of me taking a black cock but I would worry his opinion of me would change after. Its also not helpful a lot of the times we discuss this stuff we're both turned on and when I'm turned on I'll probably say yes to most things!
You are right that you need to discuss this in a non-sexual setting (and not in bed) when you are not turned on. Your concern that he may change his opinion of you afterwards is legitimate. He has to agree beforehand that whatever you decide to do—if you decide to proceed—is something that he has agreed to and that he must bear full responsibility for it and not blame you. Both of you should have veto power to take a break or stop altogether if either of you decide after the fact that this is not for you. A threesome with a woman may be a good idea. Men seem to be less threatened by another woman than with a man. I have had FMF threesomes, although not with my husband as the male. Women are often better in bed because they know what pleases us.
This is definitely a fantasy of mine
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