IUD and loop are good option if you the guy is tested and clean. I am on IUD for past 4 years now and we dont have to worry about the unsafe periods anymore.My wife hated condom as it kills the real pleasure. She never used a condom. She inserted birth conrol loop o avoid pregnancy. Fortunately, she was lucky that despite sleeping with so many men, she did not get any STD etc.
I agree with you condoms really ******* the pleasure.