We have to agree. 25 years here too (magic number?) Anyway, we started with swinging by adding a guy to the mix. White guys in the beginning. We added in a white couple & bi sex for the wife. While fun there was still something missing sexually & emotionally. Of course thru all of this I was a total failure as a man sexually.
ENTER BBC!!
This added a totally new dynamic to our relationship. A real man came in & stretched her tight white only to this point fuck holes. All of them. He pulled her hair, called her whore & slut, squeezed her huge tits hard & pinched her nipples, pounded her pussy very hard. Then he butt fucked her. He didn’t ask like the white bois before had. He squeezed lube onto her hole & his cock & took her ass. She made sounds I had never heard before but have heard & even made myself several times since.....starting the following week. One BBC & she was instantly a Hotwife BCS & one week later I was a BBC loving sissy fairy fag, we’ll on my way to feminization.
This dimension was what we needed in our marriage. I had no business trying to fuck my wife or any woman for that matter. We both needed to worship BBC. This was an incredibly lucky break for us.
It is very important to add that our love for each other has continued to grow. It did then & it does now. My wife is the one that knew & told me after her first BBC that I was meant to be a gay fem sissy & that I would never have or want pussy again. Part of love is continually making each other happy. Some of that cums from being honest about your needs & desires. If you can’t talk openly to your spouse about your sexual needs, kinks, fetishes, etc.....then you have a problem & that needs to be dealt with first.